I crave for your postsđđđ so I read this post before but I couldn't comment on it as I didn't watch the pre deyarvattu episodes and I don't have the time to even now.
I omit the Vasanth part as I don't know much about her influence in his life.
in-laws-I agree with you as far as to my knowledge, I think they believe her goodness, believe her selflessness, but somewhere it is also the fear of hurting Vasanth even to this date. Somewhere they feel that they owe her a lot so the family really gives into her decision blindly. Although MB is not in favour of the KG concept but still he will not oppose (Remember he said I won't go against Gulaal's wish may be it could also be the faith in her not accepting Kesar.)
Kesar-I hear people saying about his admiration before the dearvattu which I didn't watch, but you are right he awe of her. Her guts to stand up to people, her caring nature, her kindness, love everything unlike any other woman in his life. Seeing a strong woman he was astonished and then her love for him, his best ba, his family. After Vasanth yes she was the only support system in his life until that dark day.
Dushanth-you are right about repenting phase but I somehow like it that she didn't do as a favour to D, in her court it is like a punishment for him to see her, feel her close, her care everything yet she is not his. She still has not forgiven him or forgot the incident; kind of still the vengeance is still in her heart. But good he changed for the best at least so far.
For me like D she must also have the guilt factor regarding Vasanth's death. Because of the lust for her, D killed him. May be subconsciously like D she is also punishing herself by depriving any couloirs from her life. She lives just like a machine. Very similar to D's life.
Talli-Yes G is selfless in the sense not bounding k into deyarvattu but is she not pushing K into something he is not even aware of? Man she had a love marriage. To get out of her guilt of marring him? On the other hand this is how the story could move on.
Yes a bad influence but isn't not Talli's time realising the truth? She is missing too many clues and even Kesar makes it easier for her get it, he makes clear cut boundaries. Although when he came back he did certain things to make G jealous. I didn't like her owning Kesar that too when he is forbidding her.
Since we are talking about influence, I expected Talli's maturity; especially she was brought up by a mother who deprived of love in her married life. Another woman lives for her love, I expected Talli to have self-respect where her love life is concerned, the way Kesar behaves with her, is she expecting a father figure in the form of a husband? Learn something from this woman girl about love and life. But again these two experienced woman in her eyes were influencing her with Kesar so what to do?
Villagers- I don't know.
About the thread-you are absolutely right, but it is human emotions, very delicate. We do the wrong things due to the game our mind plays. In her mind she feels a little guilt for Thalli, keeping the vrat as G thinks it is Thalli's rights. Also knowing the truth that Kesar is into her and not Thalli. She cares for Kesar but her guilt is not letting her. She is not in the presence of mind due to the recent events.
The moral of the story: Too much of anything is not good.
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