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rituloveskmh

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Posted: 14 years ago

Firstly, I am still struggling to get out of the sorrowful heart-aching world of AnYa's world!What a mind blowing emotional episode...😭

Todays episode summed it all...😳

When Anant saw Navya, he was in confusion if he should meet her .😳.. When he met her, he was in confusion if he should kiss her.😃.. When he kissed her, he was in confusion if he should love her..😳. Now that he loves her, he is afraid to lose her!!!.Ahhh,...the pain called love!!!

As I got entangled in the sentimental-jerking episode of today, a thought crossed my mind!😳
What and why do lovers in AnYa's situation do in real life?😃
And whatever they do, are they right or wrong?😕

Let;s peek into the world of such adorable couples. Where the pain of love is so intensified that lovers take so called "irrational" steps!😕
First, they just elope away...Away, in the dreamland where there's only them!😍 Away from the worries of being separated from each other!😳!Movies like Qayamat se qayamat tak or Dil might be inspired by such actions.😃...are they right or wrong...lets not even get into the details of that!🥱!or else morales might just end up in seperating these couples who want nothing but to love each other all their lives.😳.

Second...they suicide!I sometimes imagine how stuck and suffocated they might be that they end up their lives!😲They have just 2 options left i think..either live without each other or die in each other's arms!!😕!Again, I am not advocating if they are righteous in their deeds!🥱I am just putting light to the desperation of how much they feel like being together!😲!the desperation is so strong that they prefer leaving the whole world behind and travel together to another world where nothing cud ever separate them!!😭

Third, and finally the most "rational" step is fight for their love and triumph in it😳!This one is my personal favorite, but its the most difficult one too!🥱 To keep fighting in the world where characters like Babaji and his ethics exist is not the most easy decision to take!!😲A world that might never ever agree to even attempt in understanding this feeling called Love!😕A world that will pressurize, and play all the tact of separating the people who want nothing but stay with each other!!!

I dont want to think about one more option people seek wen they are in "true"love...😕 and that option is separating forever and going different ways 😲!Coz for me, any of the above is better than just forgetting and "moving on"..🥱
Not that moving on is wrong, its just that if the love between both of them is real and true, NOTHING should be done from their end to end sucha beautiful relation!🥱Its very difficult to find a person who cries when you cry, 😳smiles when you smile😳😛 and is ready to do anything for the sake of your happiness😊!And when you find such a person, the last thing to do is "move away" from him/her!!!😲

I know ANya shall finally be together, its just that I wanna see the strength of this relationship!😳NOBODY should give up, specially when separation is so heart breaking!!

What do you think?

Love,
Ritz❤️

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Ruxana

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Posted: 14 years ago

ritu, ritu, ritu! gosh you're posts are amazing! 👏 and they really make the reader think about real life situations and ponder over what they would do themselves had they been the ones in the dilemma...

personally, whether it be right or wrong, i most probably would suggest the girl to first think about what the guy means to her and then to step aside and let him decide the importance of the relationship in his life and whether or not that makes a difference to him...because if it does for the both of them, then like you said they need to both work together to persevere in fighting for their love and persuading all those who are important to them...be it family, friends or creepy dudes like Baba 😆

😃 and i loved how you summarised Anant's situation;

When Anant saw Navya, he was in confusion if he should meet her .😳.. When he met her, he was in confusion if he should kiss her.😃.. When he kissed her, he was in confusion if he shouldlove her..😳. Now that he loves her, he is afraid to lose her!!!.Ahhh,...the pain called love!!!

i loved todays episode too and felt they both acted really well...and yup you're right - Anant & Navya WILL be together and hopefully they'll stick together to strengthen their relationship at all times...😊

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rituloveskmh

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Ruxana91
ritu, ritu, ritu! gosh you're posts are amazing! 👏 and they really make the reader think about real life situations and ponder over what they would do themselves had they been the ones in the dilemma...
personally, whether it be right or wrong, i most probably would suggest the girl to first think about what the guy means to her and then to step aside and let him decide the importance of the relationship in his life and whether or not that makes a difference to him...because if it does for the both of them, then like you said they need to both work together to persevere in fighting for their love and persuading all those who are important to them...be it family, friends or creepy dudes like Baba 😆

😃 and i loved how you summarised Anant's situation;
When Anant saw Navya, he was in confusion if he should meet her .😳.. When he met her, he was in confusion if he should kiss her.😃.. When he kissed her, he was in confusion if he shouldlove her..😳. Now that he loves her, he is afraid to lose her!!!.Ahhh,...the pain called love!!!
i loved todays episode too and felt they both acted really well...and yup you're right - Anant & Navya WILL be together and hopefully they'll stick together to strengthen their relationship at all times...😊

Thanks for commenting Ruxana...🤗
I just wanted to think how people react to situations like AnYa...
Though, this relation has just started, but it does make you feel that both of them are "good" genuine people who have fallen in love! Nobody has an intention to walk away from each other...and they both seem to be very compatible!They wud make a great life if they are together..rather than going separate ways! Specially Anant, who shall be pushed towards a girl like Shagun deserves a girl like Navya!A girl who shall stand by him thru thick and thin...Anant has already realized that giving the burden to Navya of deciding what to do next is the best..he trusts her so much already..😳
and a relation that starts like this can survive all storms!!They need to stand with each other..maybe, start as friends who will be there for each other for their entire lives!!!😳

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rituloveskmh

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Posted: 14 years ago

73 views and just one comment???sad!😭

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Ruxana

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Posted: 14 years ago

awww ritu don't feel disheartened 🤗 i'm sure people are just taking their time to write their opinion out lol...it took me agez to get everything i wanted to say, down lol but your post is really good 👏

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DEVIKA / DEE

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Posted: 14 years ago

gosh what a situation it is ...total big mess...whom do u really choose UR LOVE OR UR FAMILY...

LOVE maybe coz he or she is the one you gona be with ur rest of ur lives ..ur love ur life n ur evythg...such a heaven to be in love

FAMILY maybe coz once u lose them u wont get them back ..but u can always fall in love again ...

I KNOW FIRST LOVE IS ALWAYS FIRST LOVE VERY SPECIAL AND YOU WONT FORGET THAT PERSON NEVER EVER...

n if u went for ur love over ur family n it never worked out then ur entire life u will regret n WHAT IF

u went for ur family instead of ur love and it didnt work out that way either then wat

YOU SIT AND CRY ALL YOUR LIFE THAT SHOULD HAVE NEVER LET UR LOVE GO

this situation is too complex only can be made there n then by each individual by looking at the situation

LETS C WAT WILL BE THE OUT COME IN NAVYA ...

DEVIKA

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deepti18

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Posted: 14 years ago

Hope Ranbir and Harry help him.. give him a better advice everybody in forum were expecting Harry would do sthg. I hope atleast ranbir would do sthg. Navya please please please share your problem with ritz and appy. they would help you out... please do sthg +ve Navya.

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pkaur92

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Posted: 14 years ago

Ritu, LOVE your post!!! 😉

However, I would disagree a little bit from the last point. Although it would hurt to forget someone (which is impossible) and move on!, sometimes you just have to!

Life doesnt always cater for your needs and the society and family, well lets not talk about how helpful they are (!) (sense the sarcasm there) 😡

Sometimes, Its best to move on after treasuring all those precious, beautiful and unforgettable in your heart! Thats where no-one can take them away from you.

All the other options, Suicide and Running away are abit outrageous I think, and I would say that those people need to think about their family too, and not just be absorbed in your newly found love (whether its true or whatever)

But, fighting for your love is only really valid if your parents are ready to listen to you. And if you expect from them that you speaking to them would actually make some sort of a difference. For example, In Navya's case, she kept saying "jab mujhe pata hai papa mana karenge, then whats the point in asking". I am talking about those situations. When you know your parents arent really gonna listen to you and they're actually gonna go about doing what they think is right - how Anant's family is, then the kids dont stand a chance than just to forget about their relationship and MOVE ON! (because such traditional valuing kids dont commit suicide or run away as they value their family and know the society and the wrath it will bring upon their family after, if they take such a drastic step).

So, If I see Anant and Navya moving on tomorrow or in upcoming episodes (although we know it will just be for some episodes, as this is a TV show and not reality, and sometime or the other, their relationship will begin to be accepted by their prospective families), then I wont be shocked! 😊 This is how it is in their case!

I hope you like my post! This is my first biggie post with actually alot of thought into it. Normally I just blabber with my Comedy Hat on! 😉😉 😆😆

-Prabh 😛

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soulstarspirit

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Posted: 14 years ago

What a wonderful post girl ..keep it up 👏 👏
and the ques you asked is really difficult to answer.. while reading your post i was having tears in my eyes and i was just reading it and trying to feel it but imagine the people who actually go through this terrible situation..Hats off to them...they are real heroes to take such big pain on them..
Oh god please help such people/lovers and give them a little bit more courage to cope with such difficult situations

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malamp

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Posted: 14 years ago

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After such lovely posts, couldn't resist myself from posting too😊

The episode was very emotional, lots of emotions displayed so right by AnYA, Ritz, Ranveer and Appy. Apart from AnYa's emotions as we all know love-struck, confused and depressed, other characters wer hightlight too👏 Ranveer by saying he would be free n asking to call him shows how much concerned he is and want to help Anant badly, but can't directly talk t him regarding the same. Ritz and Appy cant beleive Navya could fall in love . At the same time Appy being talkative was so silent and cant take that Navya was hiding all these from her. Wonderful acting guys u deserve a tap on ur backs ⭐️

Anant was definitely sweet in the episode and my heart went out for him when he says to Navya " I promise tum jo kahoge mein wohi karunga". Lovely Mr. confused.😕

This is the situation many of us have faced during our adolescent years, but whatever decisions we make becomes our life. It's very difficult to ustand what u want, ur family, ur love. My thoughts are that one has to thin about what they want first and family should accept if they really love them so much. If not, they would anyways come back to you as afterall they are ur FAMILY.

I hope AnYa does the same and triumph in their love.

Guys, I did want to post the June 3rd promo, however as I am a newbie, posting links is not allowed. Pls check on youtube to find the new promo.

I am really sorry if I hurt anyone by my post, I am new to this and also to the serial world. So pls comment.

Edited by malamp - 14 years ago