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supria

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Posted: 14 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: Ruxana91
ritu, ritu, ritu! gosh you're posts are amazing! 👏 and they really make the reader think about real life situations and ponder over what they would do themselves had they been the ones in the dilemma...
personally, whether it be right or wrong, i most probably would suggest the girl to first think about what the guy means to her and then to step aside and let him decide the importance of the relationship in his life and whether or not that makes a difference to him...because if it does for the both of them, then like you said they need to both work together to persevere in fighting for their love and persuading all those who are important to them...be it family, friends or creepy dudes like Baba 😆

😃 and i loved how you summarised Anant's situation;

When Anant saw Navya, he was in confusion if he should meet her .😳.. When he met her, he was in confusion if he should kiss her.😃.. When he kissed her, he was in confusion if he shouldlove her..😳. Now that he loves her, he is afraid to lose her!!!.Ahhh,...the pain called love!!!

i loved todays episode too and felt they both acted really well...and yup you're right - Anant & Navya WILL be together and hopefully they'll stick together to strengthen their relationship at all times...😊

Hi Ruxana,

loved ur reply to ritzz's post...esp the part...personally, whether it be right or wrong, i most probably would suggest the girl to first think about what the guy means to her and then to step aside and let him decide the importance of the relationship in his life and whether or not that makes a difference to him...because if it does for the both of them, then like you said they need to both work together to persevere in fighting for their love and persuading all those who are important to them...be it family, friends or creepy dudes like Baba

wish ananth will do this someday for navya will only back out seeing the pain he's going thru...

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supria

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Posted: 14 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: smisidren

Hi Ritz,

Loved to read ur post...Like you i'm also struggling to get out of yesterday's episode...I can feel the pain of both as i myself had gone through such a difficult situation...

It was cute to see Anant himself taking the responsibility of everything...And it was nice to see that the friends come to know about the secret love...Loved Ranbir yesterday...Anant is really lucky to have such a good friend...

Coming to your point about irrational steps i would like to tell u what i did...I tried the third option and was unsuccessful in convincing my parents...As a result I had to face lot of restrictions and mental torture which made me ...i'm christian and my love is hindu...so you can guess the rest...(From my experience option 3 happens only in movies and daily soaps)

Finally, we got married in filmy style with the help of our friends...i cant say that it was option 1 because we did'nt elope away...we married accoriding to special marriage act and hide at our friend's house for 2 days...on the third day my SIL and her hubby took us to their home...my MIL give us green signal after few months...

Life is not so easy as we see in movies...It took a year for my family to accept us...We are presently in dubai with well settled career and both our parents are proud of us...I am lucky to get a perfect life partner who loves me so much...I am also lucky to get a good boss who consider me as his own daughter (that why i'm always online while working)

Coming back to Navya and Anant I know that option 3 will happen and they will be together...

Regards,

Resmi

hi reshmi...nice to read ur story...so u must be reliving ur past with anya, especially when u see the tough times...gud u had friends who supported u n hope ritz n co do the same for navi...

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Reshmi

@-Reshmi-

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Posted: 14 years ago

#23

hi reshmi...nice to read ur story...so u must be reliving ur past with anya, especially when u see the tough times...gud u had friends who supported u n hope ritz n co do the same for navi...

Thanks supria...watching navya is giving me flsahbacks of my real life drama...i'm enjoying each Anya scenes...i'm sure ritz and co will support them...

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Judi

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Posted: 14 years ago

#24

When Anant saw Navya, he was in confusion if he should meet her .😳.. When he met her, he was in confusion if he should kiss her.😃.. When he kissed her, he was in confusion if he shouldlove her..😳. Now that he loves her, he is afraid to lose her!!!.Ahhh,...the pain called love!!!

luved ur above lines ritu...thts wat true love is...it makes ppl 2 do crazy thngs even if they dnt want 2 do...totally makes them out of the world nd make them realise tht tey both r n a seperate world wit only 2 of thm..bt wen love gets more stronger nd deeper nd ppl starts thinking abt their future life tht time nly tey will realise tey hav a family without their support it cant be possible nd after starts all pain nd hurtz n love...

nd i agree tht ppl would fight surely fr their love...bcoz true love happens only once n lifetime nd if happens wit right person we should nt leave thm..bt it doesnt mean tht we should nt consider our family...without mom nd dad noone can exist in the world...so i would say if ur love s true wit a right person fight fr it bt see 2 tht u dnt hurt both of the sides sooo much...😳😳😳

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Hina

@samratrocks

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Posted: 14 years ago

#25

aww...! awesome postt once againn.. its a treat reading them!..

well written.. i completely agreed.. its a veryy difficult n impossiblee situation fr lovers like anya!

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ASRaddictKKGholic

@pluviophile.

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Posted: 14 years ago

#26

awesome post,really nicely written, i completely agree with you,Its really a difficult situation for AnYa nd lovers like them...

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ashakd

@ashakd

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Posted: 14 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: slmu
Nice post.

I would hope that in the situation Anya are in, they would pick moving on. Navya's family would on the whole be easier to persuade. But with Anant having to deal with CSB and Hari Om Prabuji, at the moment, fighting for their love seems pointless. After all, they are only 19 and they still have time to organise the battle. So a separation seems the only sensible thing as of now.

with due respect to every post and comment, this is the most sensible comment I have read. 100% agree with u. Time to just let the tide flow now, and anant and navya not to react till they r both ready for the plunge. Believe, whats meant for u will be urs and nothing shall be taken away from u.

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Juhi

@.Juhi.

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Posted: 14 years ago

#28

Gosh ritu...ossam post again 👏 i wonder how do u mange 2 write such beautiful posts evryday..🤔 newayz i dun care...i juzz luv reading it 😳

i do agree wid wot u said...i can feel da pain in ur post...

When Anant saw Navya, he was in confusion if he should meet her .😳.. When he met her, he was in confusion if he should kiss her.😃.. When he kissed her, he was in confusion if he shouldlove her..😳. Now that he loves her, he is afraid to lose her!!!.Ahhh,...the pain called love!!!

dis was da best part of da post...i reli luved it...u said it soo welll

Edited by Love_Anant - 14 years ago

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pkaur92

@pkaur92

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Posted: 14 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: malamp
Prabh, loved ur post.👏
I wanna add on to this saying if you love a person and instead of treasuring the memories, n moving on ..😭don't u think atleast try something instead of saying why ask papa when i know he wudn't agree.
Max wud be they wud deny u, atleast u wud not regret in future that u didnt try to win ur love😃What do u say guy?????????

Hmmm, I dont know! I mean yeah its worth a try! 😕

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rituloveskmh

@rituloveskmh

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Posted: 14 years ago

#30

Wowww...wat responses!!!!!!👏
I wake up in the morning, login to IF and see 4 pages full of awesome replies on my post!!!😉
And like always, I am so confused of how to write back to each reply!!😕😆

I am again going to do the issshmart 😃thing..that is generalize my feedback...😳
But I wanna say thanks to Reshmi first.🤗..coz she felt free to share her real life story with us...everyone does not prefer to do that!!😳I am genuinely happy that you finally are with your love!!!wow, it feels awesome!😳..
I will start my feedback from reshmi's response!Like she mentioned, she did try option 3...tried to convince her parents..but finally had to give up!I am sure, for her and her hubby, the best decision of their lives might have been marrying in the court.😳..only that action must have really given them the assurance that they are together...finally..in each others arms.😍..BTW, I am all smiles thinking abt your life Reshmi..so happy for ya!🤗

Also,I wanna talk abt responses that have been supporting the fundamentals of "moving on"😳First of all, thanks for putting positive lights towrds that approach!!I really understand where all those views come from!😳And I agree, ANYA are surely just 19.😕.and life after marriage does change.😳..but is it right to change the course of your ways just becoz of your age and financial status?😲?Maybe, if reasons come up, it might be😳!!But if one can fall in love wen they are 19, cant they work on fulfilling that love🥱? I know that they should take time in taking any decision, but in ANYA's case, where's the time!?🥱At 19, Anant is being engaged to shagun..and maybe by 21, he might just get married!🤢Do you think thats the way he shd choose- to"move on" with a girl like shagun, who has absolutely no capability of understanding their relation..😕.or no maturity in handling a married life?🤢Maybe Navya wud end up getting a great life partner by moving on..but Anant wud be stuck with a stupid like Shagun!!!And that is sad!!

BTW, about the remaining options, I know that suicide is the worst!I mean, not just for the family's that are left behind, but also that we cannot waste sucha precious gift from god called life..😳!!!Though I am marvelled at the guts those people have, I wud personally never choose that option!🥱

I still stick to my favorite being option 3.😳..that is staying back and fighting for your love! And since there is hardly any time left, I really want anant to speak up right now!😳Speak up to his family that first, he does not want to get engaged right now..😳.second, he wants them to meet navya, a girl who wud gel very well with the traditions of his family, being the simple girl she is.😳.and third, if he is opposed, resist the opposition!😳Just tell them that he will neither marry shagun nor Navya till they agree!!!😳
But I really want him to speak up!!!🥱

Anyways, Thanks all of you for those awesome responses.😳.it made my day!!😛!When I write a post, I put all my efforts in thinking abt the topic and putting in into words!!But I feel more elated wen I get such marvelous inputs that help in broadening my thoughts!🤗!!!It makes me see the other sides of my views and makes me know the different versions on the same issue...thanks again!!😳
Love,
RItz😳