Why Tali and Kesar should not happen...

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peacefulblossom

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Posted: 14 years ago

I know many people here do not want this pair to happen because they would like Gulaal and Kesar to get together.

I want to share other reasons why I don't want Kesar and Tali to happen.

When I started watching Gulaal I was open to the idea of Kesar and Tali has a possibility. And wanted to see how the story develops. But now unless certain things change I would not like this to happen.

Firstly I'm not sure that Tali is in love with Kesar as much as she's in love with the idea of staying in the house. She seems desperate to get his attention.

I do feel sorry for her because of all that has happened in her life.

But the way she tells Kesar that she's ok to change for him and will do whatever he wants her to do. This is not love. Love is when one person loves you for what you are not what you can become. Or want to change you. So Tali deserve more then this...and should not put herself down to that level. When Kesar deserve more then this..

I always believe that there should be a link or a bond between the pair and Kesar and Tali don't have much of a link. I'm not sure if they can even be called best friends...

Tali seems to want to give up on Kesar alot...if it wasn't for Gulaal's constant encouragement. Gulaal I know is confused atm but needs to stop giving the poor girl false encouragement. But I could see before why Gulaal could see Kesar and Tali happening but thats another matter itself.

Yes Tali had a hard life and should deserve her happiness... But happiness does not mean that she needs to stay in the house. I wouldn't mind Tali getting married to someone outside the house...and the whole family rejoicing and celebrating and being happy for her. And then she will always be the daughter of the family...like Reva is.

This would be a major character development for her...getting accepted by everyone in the house...and then finding her happiness and accept that Kesar is not for her. I see why she wants to clutch to this house because she has lost so much in her childhood and doesn't want to lose what she has now. But to be able to get the acceptance of the whole family and then move for her happiness will make her character stronger. Also if she she's the bond between Gulaal and Kesar. Will increase her maturity.

Tali and Kesar personality just doesn't match for a relationship atm. It lacks the understanding factor and Kesar seems to just get annoyed with her... Tali just gets sad...and then forgets about it and seeks his attention again...and again..

Kesar is obviously going through his own trauma. And I don't think he can ever see Tali has anything more... Unless something drastic happens... (which I don't think is possible) and takes Gulaal out of his head...I don't think he can even think about another girl.

Anyways the post is getting too long. And I can keep ranting away. So feel feel to add your comments.

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Lennie

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Posted: 14 years ago

Well said

As you say Talli and Kesar just dont seem to match well ont he same wavelength lol

I dont see Kesar thinking of any other woman then Gulaal, its always been her and always will be

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*Reemz*

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Posted: 14 years ago

They just never seemed right to me and just too platonic. For me, when I see Kesar-Gulaal and then Kesar-Talli, it's like watch something magical between the former as opposed to something really ordinary in the latter.

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peacefulblossom

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Posted: 14 years ago

Heya I don't see anything else between the two.

Apart from desperation and fustration.

Would like to hear why other people support Tali and Kesar apart from Gulaal being old.

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rakni

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Posted: 14 years ago

👍🏼 @ peacefulblossom - First of all, I LOVE your username - it is so serene and tranquil! Secondly, I am beginning to agree with that concept too. I wanted Kesar and Talli together initially but there is no chemistry between the two. Talli is downright scared of him! I think Kesar needs someone strong, mature, and calm to complement his emotional, immature, wild self. I know, the description fits Gulaal, but I also want the sweet Vasant back - I loved his personality and character - he was the nicest, kindest guy and to end his life over jealousy is so lame for a good guy, so I want him back and I want him to forgive Dushyant, for he too has repented and regretted his mistakes.

But, the fact remains that Talli is NO MATCH for Kesar - totally AGREE with you.

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peacefulblossom

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: rakni
👍🏼 @ peacefulblossom - First of all, I LOVE your username - it is so serene and tranquil! Secondly, I am beginning to agree with that concept too. I wanted Kesar and Talli together initially but there is no chemistry between the two. Talli is downright scared of him! I think Kesar needs someone strong, mature, and calm to complement his emotional, immature, wild self. I know, the description fits Gulaal, but I also want the sweet Vasant back - I loved his personality and character - he was the nicest, kindest guy and to end his life over jealousy is so lame for a good guy, so I want him back and I want him to forgive Dushyant, for he too has repented and regretted his mistakes.
But, the fact remains that Talli is NO MATCH for Kesar - totally AGREE with you.

Heya Rakni. Thanks for liking my username 😊, Had this username on internet for a long time 😆

I agree there is no chemistry between the two. I haven't watched todays part yet but Tali is way sacred of Kesar...so is Gulaal atm 😆 (but that scare is different shes running away from his feelings).

I agree Kesar does need someone strong and he is a little obsessive of what is his. He needs someone to guide him because he's anger can get the best of him. I don't think Tali can do that.

She'll be too scared to say anything...whereas Gulaal will drill him.

If Tali thinks hard enough I think she will realise she doesnt love Kesar... I mean shes so scared of him.

About Vasant bring him back now would cause the story to go strange and unbelievable.

I was watching the old episodes...and I have to say I really liked Vasant character, he was so perfect. And i can see why people want him back.

But Vasant was too good to last. He was perfect husband...son etc...

But unfortunately something this perfect does not last long.

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sneha04c

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Posted: 14 years ago

hey i totally agree , tht talli -kesar dnt hav a bond as such , kessar is nt even aware of tallis liking for him and both are immature which makes it even more difficult , and after seeing todays episode after being so angry on gulal he was still picking up the torn pieces of the letters hw sweet😊 , and kesar and gulal hav sumthing thts very mesmerising 😍

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rakni

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Posted: 14 years ago

@Sneha04c - It was a very sweet scene when he picked up his letters and started to smooth the wrinkles away. I felt so bad for Kesar - poor guy can't even express his frustration, all he can do is show anger. Bechara.