In Defence of Jai Walia.... - Page 2

Thanks MT - that explains it.

Originally posted by: infinityuser72

I was thinking of the same things that you had posted. I read a lot of posts from members saying Bani is unrealistic as you will not find anybody like her in real life or how can she love a person like Jai or why can she not take a stand against Jai. Well, I have met women worse than Bani that are so blind in love (I cringe when they say that), that they are taking years of physical & mental abuse from their partners or husbands!!


Now in Bani's case, first she has seen the good side of Jai and knows that deep down he is a loving and caring individual. When a person knows somebody that well, it is hard for them to make a 180 degree change to their opinion.

Second thing to be noted is that Bani is a young lonely woman. I think she probably never had a free and unencumbered childhood or teenage years as she became responsible for a wayward and drunken father and her two younger sisters after their mother's death - poor girl did not even complete here studies. So in terms of that, she has matured way beyond her years. In Jai she sees an anchor - a rock that she can rely on and kinda ease some of the burden that she feels. Wouldn't it be nice to be loved by a wonderful & powerful man who will take care of her, instead of she being the one that provides that support?? I see Bani tired of all family responsibility. She is what I would right now call "very needy". I don't mean to take away the fact that Bani truly loves Jai - I meant she is needy enough to overlook all his faults at this time.

Last, but not least, good girls are always attracted to bad boys!! When I look around I'm amazed by how common this is. I guess it is nurturing instinct in a woman that tells her that she can change this man to a nicer person by being loving, caring and showering them with a lot of positive attention. Isn't this what our dear Bani is doing?

With the above being said, I think Bani & Jai make a rocking couple. What a perfect foil they are for each other. He - a worldly-wise and powerful man with a ruthless (seems like) aura and she - an innocent lily of the valley so fragile and dainty, yet so strong and compassionate. I should say I have never seen such an awesome pairing on television or even in movies since a long time.

BTW, MT I love your thought provoking questions.

Thanks
Infinity

👏👏 Very well said and very nice writting skilss. I totally agree with you. Hope to read more of your post.

Originally posted by: mistletoe

Jai says a wonderful line, which was meant for Mausi, but actually he was saying it for himself, 'Itna kareeb math hojana, ke tumse dur hojana mushkil hojaye'

loool I was about to say the same. I truely think Jai was taking about himself yesterday and not about Massi. He doesn't want Bani to be too close to him. Jai knows he is getting way too attached to Bani and he sure doesn't like it and will absolutely not admit it!

hey MT u r so rite........n i really agree w/ ya..........bani n jai ......none of them r at fault........n they both just simply rock.......i just luv them........❤️ 😳

bye 4 now....... 😉

u all r rocking .....well said guyz.......

I would just like to say that all members have defended my teddys actions well I am happy and relieved thanks for your efforts 👏 👏 😃

I also would like to add a few thoughts of mine
though Jai at the moment seems rude with his words but his words have a deaper meaning of hidden or silent feelings of love for the person who least expected to have 😳 since he has hurt Bani emmensely 😭 and now when she is leaving him he cannot acknowledge the fact because his pride comes in the way 😔 thats reason we all call him khadoos just like Bani but with love 😳 😉

ya mt u r absolutely right. now a days my little teddy is very alone. 😭 no one is even try to understand his action and reaction. so sad na.... but we r here and bani is here so enjoyyyyyyyyy 😉

i agree all the way thanks!

Hi MT, very nice write and i dont blame you siding mr.walia 😉 in fact, despite being a rich businessman, he has helped a lot of orphans. we should understand jai is still in shocked after the bride got change, then came to find out that puskhar has cheated him, etc. whilst bani she takes in everything as she feels that one should at least reciprocate and should not forget jai's help. in spore, we r juz watching last week episode and tonite i felt sooooooo sad for both. first it was bani then jai. and more sad for jai as despite having money and success, he too is human and feeling very lonely..........
we hope to see some intersting dialogue rather than just bani being frame. lucky the ks team make it interesting by having adi and dadi siding bani and rano.

Its almost like Jai's heart loves Bani, but he is finding ways and means to make sure he does not have a heartache again.
So any negative he hears about Bani he tries to make his heart understand to not get attached to this girl.. but yeh dil kya kare
jab kisi ko kissi se pyar ho jayen... 😛