Bouquets for Bani and Brickbats for Jai?

First things first, Jai has got rid of those horrid white-grey streaks for sure.....and he looks atleast a decade younger than before! Now Jai and Bani look like a married couple😳Also, a final clarification, Jai did not insult or scold Bani yesterday, his attitude was that of "Helplessness"! I hope that helps Cuddles a little bit!😉

With reference to the episode aired yesterday in India, here are the set of questions for today!

• What is your personal view on Bani's attitude towards Jai after all that transpired between them? She still behaves like a good wife, taking care of him, being nice to him and behaving as if nothing ever happened......Is it because Bani as such is the sort of person who would be nice to anyone and everyone in her life or is it because she considers Jai to be an exception?

• Why do you think Jai started leaving the room once he saw Bani sitting on the Bed? Was it the awkwardness of sleeping with her in the same bed or was it the fact that his guilt could not let him face her alone?

• What is your view on Jai and Bani sharing the same bed?😳 Is it indicative of the blind trust and faith they hold over one another or is it just circumstances that forced them to share the same room and now the same bed?

• What did Bani's expression indicate when she saw Jai sleeping close to her in the morning? Why wasn't she shocked or taken-aback at all, instead chose to linger and look at him sleeping soundly?

• What did Jai actually mean by telling Bani, "Itna kareeb math hojana, ke tumse dur hojana mushkil hojaye"? Why do you think Bani cried when Jai said so? Was it because he was being rude to her once again or was it because he mentioned the fact that she will have to leave in a few days?

• Is Jai's obsessesive insecurity for Bani a proof of his deep and unrealized love for his wife? Or is he just an emotionally messed up man who cannot get a hold on himself?

• Do you think that Jigyasa will end up forcing Bani to sign the Divorce Agreement without Jai's prior knowledge before the fortnight is over?

• Do you think that Jai's ex-girlfriend might be the perfect catalyst for Jai and Bani to finally acknowledge their love for one another, or will she become a cause for them drifting apart further than before?

• Do you think that the next 14 days will decide the course of Jai and Bani's life?

Would love to read your answers soon.....😊

Love,

MT

PS: Just an off-note, the new serial on Zee, Jabb Love Hua is so funny....does anyone of you watch it? I saw two episodes and found it hilarious!😆

My answers...

Originally posted by: mistletoe

What is your personal view on Bani's attitude towards Jai after all that transpired between them? She still behaves like a good wife, taking care of him, being nice to him and behaving as if nothing ever happened......Is it because Bani as such is the sort of person who would be nice to anyone and everyone in her life or is it because she considers Jai to be an exception?

Well I can only say that Bani is the perfect wife that anyone could wish for. She is able to take care of her husband and family very well. Also on top of it she is at ease with his business/personal guests and is able to complete her work smartly. Jai is one helluva lucky man to get a wife like Bani. period. Same cannot be said for Jai. Jai is a person with his own set of insecurities and vices. But still he comes across as a strong individual and someone whom you could rely on. Jai is not someone who will desert you. Rather he will be with you at every point of life.
Bani is a person who is always nice to everyone at her own cost sometimes. and yes def jai is an exception as well. Its actually a mixture of both. As she understands Jai very well she is doubly patient with him. like they say opposites attract and in this case Jai and Bani.

Originally posted by: mistletoe

Why do you think Jai started leaving the room once he saw Bani sitting on the Bed? Was it the awkwardness of sleeping with her in the same bed or was it the fact that his guilt could not let him face her alone?

I would say that mainly Jai felt awkward sleeping with her in the same bed. The only reasons why he should be feeling guilty is the kind of words that he spoke to her. Maybe he might be thinking that in spite of me being so harsh with her she is still able to come back. Jai as a person may not be able to do that ever. So he is kind of enamoured with Bani and hence does not want to face her.

Originally posted by: mistletoe

What is your view on Jai and Bani sharing the same bed? Is it indicative of the blind trust and faith they hold over one another or is it just circumstances that forced them to share the same room and now the same bed?

Whatever said and done the fact remains that Jai and Bani share a kind of unsaid trust with each other. Its only becuase of this trust that Jai was shattered when he saw proof of Bani taking his money. I think that now he may be having two thoughts about it. With time a person definetely is able to see and understand things in a better light. Once maasi has left the room she def is not going to come back and see if they have indeed followed whatever she has said (am giving a miss to 3 AM visits). Bani could have always slept on the floor/sofa. As both of them choose not to do so only proves the unsaid trust between them. This trust will be instrumental in bringing them closer. Rather when ex makes an appearance, Bani's trust on Jai is what is going to keep them together.(for some time at least)

Originally posted by: mistletoe

What did Bani's expression indicate when she saw Jai sleeping close to her in the morning?
Why wasn't she shocked or taken-aback at all, instead chose to linger and look at him sleeping soundly?

Tough question MT. Let me think. She might be thinking that this could have been a natural occuring if only they had got married in normal circumstances. Or she might have thought that Jai looks very calm and peaceful. I think I only saw the sadness in bani's eyes as to why things could not have been normal between them. Bani sure understands that she is the perfect complement to all of Jai's eccentricities. or maybe she was hoping that the calm in Jai's face as he is sleeping be present in his mind as well while he is awake.

Originally posted by: mistletoe

What did Jai actually mean by telling Bani, "Itna kareeb math hojana, ke tumse dur hojana mushkil hojaye"? Why do you think Bani cried when Jai said so? Was it because he was being rude to her once again or was it because he mentioned the fact that she will have to leave in a few days?

Jai clearly admits that no one can take the place of Bani or be like Bani in Walia mansion. It was basically a compliment put in typical Jai way. Its Jai's way of telling Bani not to get too close with anyone incl himself that it becomes difficult for him to distance himself away from the relationship. He meant it for but inherently meaning for himself. I don't think that Jai was rude. Rather Jai was trying to save her from any more heart breaks when she has to leave Walia house after 14 days. I think that Bani cried as was reminded that she needs to leave HIM in few days. and this time may be for ever. Bani as such has been bought up in traditional mould. For her marriage is once and whatever may be the circumstances she did try to make it successful. On top of it she has some feelings for Jai which she is not able to understand what it is. Jai completely misunderstands her for everything initially. So all thios coupled together brought tears in her eyes.

Originally posted by: mistletoe

Is Jai's obsessesive insecurity for Bani a proof of his deep and unrealized love for his wife?

I am not sure when Jai was insecure. But Jai's discomfort at the thought that Bani is staying with him for money, Jai missing Bani's presence in his life, Jai's dialogue that 'Kaash tum Pia ki behen na hoti', the dialogue mentioned in the earlier question are all proofs of Jai's deep and unrealized love for his 'darling' wife.

Originally posted by: mistletoe

Do you think that Jigyasa will end up forcing Bani to sign the Divorce Agreement without Jai's prior knowledge before the fortnight is over?

Yes I think Bani will sign the divorce papers. You know that can give raise to some more misunderstandings. Jai might think that Bani does not want to live with me and hence may not express whatever is in his mind. Bani might think that as Jai chose to accept her divorce so she will think that is where Jai's happiness lies (remember the promise made to massi) and hence will not come out with her feelings and Jigs will have the last laugh.

Originally posted by: mistletoe

Do you think that Jai's ex-girlfriend might be the perfect catalyst for Jai and Bani to finally acknowledge their love for one another, or will she become a cause for them drifting apart further than before?

I think that Jai's ex-GF might help both Bani and Jai to put things in the right perspective. In case of Bani she might realize how would she feel with the presence of another woman in her darling husband's life. All this while he asked Bani to get out of his house. But he was anyways single so in a way it really did not affect her. But with ex-GF in picture makes things a bit difficult and different as well. Now coming to Jai we really don't know what really caused Jai to drift apart from his GF. Knowing Jai if he had indeed loved her it must have been with his whole heart. He does not get intimidated by any one easily then why did the relationship not work ? Though i may not like it but Jai might keep comparing the mind-sets of both Bani and his ex. Even though Jai is a business tycoon and all but essentially at heart he is a home bird and one who likes to come back to home to his family and wife (??)!! I feel that this may have been the reason for friction b/w Jai and his ex. Well coming back to the question raised, I feel that jai and Bani thanks to his ex would be able to ack their love to themselves at least. But still something coz of the GF would happen which will make Jai and Bani drift apart once again.

Originally posted by: mistletoe

Do you think that the next 14 days will decide the course of Jai and Bani's life?

Next 14 days will decide something for bani and Jai. I think that there will be some sort of betterment in their relationship though it might not be anything concrete.

love, Swathi

btw I did see a couple of scenes of JLH. Looks to be poised for an interesting viewing for one. Once again I try to catch up with this serial when it is repeated at 11 in the night !!!

Note: I have noticed that whatever I predict usually it does not happen. So am thinking of speculating the opposite of whatever I want. what say ?

Hi MT!
Love doing this exercise everyday 😃

What is your personal view on Bani's attitude towards Jai after all that transpired between them? She still behaves like a good wife, taking care of him, being nice to him and behaving as if nothing ever happened......Is it because Bani as such is the sort of person who would be nice to anyone and everyone in her life or is it because she considers Jai to be an exception?

There can be only one possible answer to it… she is in LOVE with Jai. I have never been able to understand the core of Jai-Bani relationship. They seem to have the ability overlook eachother's mistakes the next morning and they very rarely bring it back. Jai shouts at Bani, Bani gives him a befitting reply and they are over that episode. Deep inside they seem to know no one is to blame for it, atleast not eachother. But then again a new problem surfaces. They have something really strong inside them that keeps them fighting for eachother even if it agianst themselves.
The relationship Jai-Bani share a very special relationship between them. I don't think it is Bani's ever caring nature that works here. It is much more than that… It is the Love, even though unrealized that is the reason. I don't want to belittle something so unconditional & pure as Bani's love for Jai by calling it her nature to be caring or sympathy or repentance for Jai. It will be demeaning Jai-Bani's realtionship. Bani is very caring and kind hearted, but even to that there is a limit… u would cross that limit only for that one Man, and for Bani it is Jai. ONLY JAI! PERIOD!
Another thing we forget to notice is Bani is doing all this, coz Jai lets her do it. In his own implied ways he has given Bani the right over him… to take care of him. Do u think if Jai had told her, 'tumhe yeh sab karne ke zarurath nahi hai' Bani would have done it? He call him egoist and arrogant, but the fact is that he has surrendered himself to Bani. Bani realizes it, and has taken it up as her responsibility… so she does it wholeheartedly. Jai's silence acceptance to Bani taking care of him is his way fo reciprocating. Jai will hardly speak, he wont do anything drastically visible or notable… except when he is furious. He has a very subtle way of expressing himself, and people who notice those gestures understand him and Bani is does. Thank God for that. I thankful for the reason Bani has the strength of not being judgemental about Jai and his words or actions.

Why do you think Jai started leaving the room once he saw Bani sitting on the Bed? Was it the awkwardness of sleeping with her in the same bed or was it the fact that his guilt could not let him face her alone?

A bit of both. The room has some magic spell I guess. 😳 Invariably it is his heart that takes over as soon as he enters that room. Deep inside he knows Bani is innocent and he hates himself for speaking so badly about her. But I also feel that he wanted to make Bani feel comfortable. After what he had to say, it was obvious Bani would have reservations and knowing her she wont utter a word. So he moved out. He stayed back because he was convinced Bani didn't seem to have much of a problem. I am sure he would have gone to the study and even if Massi found him there, he would have said 'kaam karte kabh aakh laggaye pada nahi chala' and massi wouldn't have questioned him.

What is your view on Jai and Bani sharing the same bed? Is it indicative of the blind trust and faith they hold over one another or is it just circumstances that forced them to share the same room and now the same bed?

I am happy, obviously. For some reason I felt both of them slept well, considering it was awkward situation. It went to show complete trust and respect they have for eachother.
They weren't forced to share the bed atleast… once they close the door, Jai could have slept on the chari, Bani could have slept on the floor or Jai would have gone to the study. I am happy thinking they weren't forced to share the bed. They behaved maturely and showed eachother the trust they have for one another.


What did Bani's expression indicate when she saw Jai sleeping close to her in the morning? Why wasn't she shocked or taken-aback at all, instead chose to linger and look at him sleeping soundly?

She was taken aback for a second, but she didn't look uncomfortable with that thought at all. Anyone immediate expression would be, 'how adorable is he?' 😳 He looked unlike Jai Walia who also seem to have a tensed face and body language. He looked so relaxed, so much at peace and so innocent. It was that Jai who Bani knows exists deep inside and relates to… and it was that Jai she had the chance of seeing so close to her and he was the 1st person she saw as soon as she woke up. She must have wondered if she was dreaming or was it a reality. 😳

What did Jai actually mean by telling Bani, "Itna kareeb math hojana, ke tumse dur hojana mushkil hojaye"? Why do you think Bani cried when Jai said so? Was it because he was being rude to her once again or was it because he mentioned the fact that she will have to leave in a few days?

He meant that once someone is exposed to Bani's ways it is almost impossible for them to do without her. There was almost panic in the way he said it and a lot of helplessness. In that one day with Bani gone from his life, he missed her for small things making him realize the importance she holds in his life. He might have told this with reference to Massi, but he meant it for himself. He could have said that only if he knows Bani's caring ways is something he cant recreate. He told her indirectly… there is no one like her, she is teh only one of her kind. I felt towards the end he left abruptly coz he couldn't stand and face her for long or he must have realized what he said!
Bani was very moved, but I don't thing she cried. She obviously understood the hidden meaning of what he said. It touched her a lot but she was confused a lot more. She was like 'Mere es Khadoos ko aaj kya hogaya?' towards the end there was a sense of sadness that prevailed coz Jai had accepted the fact she is gone in another 12 days(2 days are up!!!) and he was going to let her go. 😭 😭 😭

Is Jai's obsessesive insecurity for Bani a proof of his deep and unrealized love for his wife?

If that is not love then what is? 😕 He lost so much that he cant afford to lose Bani. Uska bas chale tho by hook or crook he will make Bani stay back. He is not only insecure but very Possessive when it comes to Bani. The other day he told Bani 'tum reheti ho mere ghar mein, wo waqt bhitate wo unke sath" I could help but smile at that line.Even at a gathering invariably he searches for Bani. What does that mean? Another occasion was when he saw her at Mohan's office. One of the reasons he has a problem with Pia-Pushkar is that Bani pays attention to them than him 'Meri behan, Mera dost… Kabhi es admi ke bhare mein socha hai Bani?' Then when Jigyasa told him Bani is with him not for him, but for his money, he went ballistic.
Jai is so in love with Bani, he just hasn't realized it, but it seems like with every passing day, it is dawning to him. Good for him. 😃

Do you think that Jigyasa will end up forcing Bani to sign the Divorce Agreement without Jai's prior knowledge before the fortnight is over?
I don't think Jigyasa will bring up that Divorce agreement ever again. She knows Bani is going to be surrounded by Massi or by Jai all the time. Jigyasa seems to have pulled out the joker… she will get n Jai's ex-girlfriend to play havoc 😡 .

Do you think that Jai's ex-girlfriend might be the perfect catalyst for Jai and Bani to finally acknowledge their love for one another, or will she become a cause for them drifting apart further than before?

I don't know… but I feel this time Jai will step in to protect his relationship with Bani in the process confess his love for her. But I wonder how will this girl come in to the Walia house? Jigyasa seems to say once that lady comes over Bani will out of the house. I don't know, but this time around much to jigyasa's horror she is going to find Jai in front of her before Bani 👏 . I still maintain in future Sonali will become the reason for them drifting apart .

Do you think that the next 14 days will decide the course of Jai and Bani's life?

Most definitely. By the end of it, their lives would have changed for the better atleast the relationship they share with eachother.😃 😳
That is it MT, bye for now.
Luv
Anu.

Anu, I really loved reading your answer below. Very well said. 👏. I especially liked the way how you gave reasons as to Jai gave Bani silent acceptance of whatever she does. too good !

Swathi

Originally posted by: anushka_5

What is your personal view on Bani's attitude towards Jai after all that transpired between them? She still behaves like a good wife, taking care of him, being nice to him and behaving as if nothing ever happened......Is it because Bani as such is the sort of person who would be nice to anyone and everyone in her life or is it because she considers Jai to be an exception?

There can be only one possible answer to it… she is in LOVE with Jai. I have never been able to understand the core of Jai-Bani relationship. They seem to have the ability overlook eachother's mistakes the next morning and they very rarely bring it back. Jai shouts at Bani, Bani gives him a befitting reply and they are over that episode. Deep inside they seem to know no one is to blame for it, atleast not eachother. But then again a new problem surfaces. They have something really strong inside them that keeps them fighting for eachother even if it agianst themselves.
The relationship Jai-Bani share a very special relationship between them. I don't think it is Bani's ever caring nature that works here. It is much more than that… It is the Love, even though unrealized that is the reason. I don't want to belittle something so unconditional & pure as Bani's love for Jai by calling it her nature to be caring or sympathy or repentance for Jai. It will be demeaning Jai-Bani's realtionship. Bani is very caring and kind hearted, but even to that there is a limit… u would cross that limit only for that one Man, and for Bani it is Jai. ONLY JAI! PERIOD!
Another thing we forget to notice is Bani is doing all this, coz Jai lets her do it. In his own implied ways he has given Bani the right over him… to take care of him. Do u think if Jai had told her, 'tumhe yeh sab karne ke zarurath nahi hai' Bani would have done it? He call him egoist and arrogant, but the fact is that he has surrendered himself to Bani. Bani realizes it, and has taken it up as her responsibility… so she does it wholeheartedly. Jai's silence acceptance to Bani taking care of him is his way fo reciprocating. Jai will hardly speak, he wont do anything drastically visible or notable… except when he is furious. He has a very subtle way of expressing himself, and people who notice those gestures understand him and Bani is does. Thank God for that. I thankful for the reason Bani has the strength of not being judgemental about Jai and his words or actions.

well i think i dnt need to answer the questions as i got lots of answers for the questions posted by mistletoe
and i am sure i wont be able to answer them that nicely as u ppl did 😃 👏

MT WROTE ---What did Jai actually mean by telling Bani, "Itna kareeb math hojana, ke tumse dur hojana mushkil hojaye"? Why do you think Bani cried when Jai said so? Was it because he was being rude to her once again or was it because he mentioned the fact that she will have to leave in a few days?

ANU WROTE ---He meant that once someone is exposed to Bani's ways it is almost impossible for them to do without her. There was almost panic in the way he said it and a lot of helplessness. In that one day with Bani gone from his life, he missed her for small things making him realize the importance she holds in his life. He might have told this with reference to Massi, but he meant it for himself. He could have said that only if he knows Bani's caring ways is something he cant recreate. He told her indirectly… there is no one like her, she is teh only one of her kind. I felt towards the end he left abruptly coz he couldn't stand and face her for long or he must have realized what he said!
Bani was very moved, but I don't thing she cried. She obviously understood the hidden meaning of what he said. It touched her a lot but she was confused a lot more. She was like 'Mere es Khadoos ko aaj kya hogaya?' towards the end there was a sense of sadness that prevailed coz Jai had accepted the fact she is gone in another 12 days(2 days are up!!!) and he was going to let her go.


God this Line ..is so touching that Jai says .. I havent seen the episode but i can Imagine ..how it must have been ....I agree .. what u wrote Anu .... but also want to add ..That .. Bnai also thought .. That Jai .. Isnt Going to Bother to stop her from ..Leaving .- he is sending Mixed Messages ..because .. his Stoborness is ruling ..his Heart ... No matter how he Feels for Bani .. She is first and Foremost Pia 's Sister he doesnt want to Forget that ..even thogh sometimes for a Moment he is caught up ..In tender loving ..situations .. around Bani .he reminds me of mahabharat ka Arjun .. he only see's his Aim .. the Eye of the Fish ... and Nothing beyond That .. Well Bani .. she Has to transform into menaka to distract Out Khadoos attention totally away from his obsession of Revenge .
jigs will def. bring up the divorce Paers once again .. ... if bani doesnt sign them .. then she does have another Ace up her sleeve ..the X ..flame . on the other hand If bani does sign the papers somehow .... and jai in the next 12 days .. is almost on the verge of stopping bani from Leaving ... Jigs will produce the divorce paers ..in front of Jai's Nose ..trimphantly..and Jai egoistic pride .. will just go back to detesting bani ..and will reverse to his .. Khadoos self ..
Ex or No Ex .. jigs .. will make a startegic Move ..and bani has to .. do the same .. infact a step ahead of Jigs .. I feel Bani should .. now .. Fight ..to make a Place in Jai's heart ..and prove to jai .. how Ranveer and Jigs set her Up .. at this Moment .. when he so vulnerable to bani .. will see the truth the way it is .. she just has to stand up to the Mother and son .

Hi MT, its nice to share our thoughts while waiting for the episodes to come............. or rather more surprises from ekta!! 😆
I'll write it in a summary form as this is how and what i feel:-

firstly, bani being eldest and as a person from beginning is a loving, caring, resposible and giving in girl. which i feel that its happening in our real life. and, and one part of the episode when she was in love with puskhar she kept to herself and she told pia that she is willing to sacrifice for her sisters.

She feel sorry for jai for what her sister and pushkar has done especially when bani even reminded pushkar not to betray jai after what he has done for all of them! but puskhar was deep in love with the stupid pia who causes lots of problems....

anyway, what i still could not understand is that why they didnt make bani speak up to jai that it was jig's idea infront of jig and especially she ill treated rano. most of the dramas is the same when it comes to evil always got their say and ways. like jig and ranvir! i was hoping for something different in ks......

as for jai, he somehow reliazes that he's fond of bani and developing love for her. he's always like bani but i feel that he got infactuated by pia! actually, he doesnt want to hurt her but he just cant control... this is credit to ks team as its human nature.

well, jig may success in separating jai and bani but not to the extent of divorce. i am sure this time bani will fight back as she has promised masi that she will look after jai.

looking fwd to watch when jai know the truth of jig and ranvir framing bani. even they put bani in jail the topic was closed just like that.........

I haven't seen the episodes yet but will just give my thoughts based on MT and Doe's updates.

With reference to the episode aired yesterday in India, here are the set of questions for today!

• What is your personal view on Bani's attitude towards Jai after all that transpired between them? She still behaves like a good wife, taking care of him, being nice to him and behaving as if nothing ever happened......Is it because Bani as such is the sort of person who would be nice to anyone and everyone in her life or is it because she considers Jai to be an exception?

It pretty simple and clear that She is in LOVE with Jai but she does not realise it yet. According to her she feels his pain and understands his frustrations that's it. humdard sort of. But its nothing but love. Only when a person is in love with someone they choose to ignore the faults and keep on caring and loving them. Same is the case with Bani. Bani being the kind of person she is will take her duties seriously so no matter how rude Jai is to her she will take it all in becoz deep down she knows Jai is not a bad person at heart.

• Why do you think Jai started leaving the room once he saw Bani sitting on the Bed? Was it the awkwardness of sleeping with her in the same bed or was it the fact that his guilt could not let him face her alone?

Its a bit of both. He knows that Bani will never cheat him or be with him just for the money but the circumstances does not allow him to believe it. Though I find it hard to belive that Jai trusts Ranveer inspite of knowing what kind of person he is. Ok Coming back to the point I feel he is feeling guilty about the way he is treating Bani. In one of the episodes earlier he had said that it would have been better if she was not Pia's sister. So he knows he is wrong but becoz of his confused feelings and ego he will not apologize. So its going tobe hard for him to be nice to Bani without letting his feelings being known to her.

• What is your view on Jai and Bani sharing the same bed?😳 Is it indicative of the blind trust and faith they hold over one another or is it just circumstances that forced them to share the same room and now the same bed?

Sleeping in the same bed has got nothing to do with trust and faith as they are already husband and wife.. This is just my opinion. Its just that due to circumstances they have to share the bed and its awkward becoz Jai does not accept Bani as his wife mentally. Bani has already accepted him as her husband.

• What did Bani's expression indicate when she saw Jai sleeping close to her in the morning? Why wasn't she shocked or taken-aback at all, instead chose to linger and look at him sleeping soundly?

Like I said in the previous answer Bani has already accepted Jai as her husband and hence she did not feel shocked about it. She is so in love with him. So being a wife and in love too why not linger and gaze at your sleeping husband.😉 might I add a good looking, sexy husband at that 😉. she would be a fool not to linger and look. It would have been even cuter if she tried to caress his loving face. 😉😉

• What did Jai actually mean by telling Bani, "Itna kareeb math hojana, ke tumse dur hojana mushkil hojaye"? Why do you think Bani cried when Jai said so? Was it because he was being rude to her once again or was it because he mentioned the fact that she will have to leave in a few days?

Both Bani and jai are confused about their feelings for each other after so much going on in their lives. They both fail to understand the hidden meanings of each others words. Both of them cannot express their feelings to each other. One due to ego and the other due to misunderstanding that he is still in love with Pia. So Bani took whatever Jai said at face value and was hurt that he wants her to leave and Jai could not admit his feelings nor come to say that she stop caring for him directly becoz he wants and likes her taking care of him.

• Is Jai's obsessesive insecurity for Bani a proof of his deep and unrealized love for his wife? Or is he just an emotionally messed up man who cannot get a hold on himself?

I would not call it obsessive but yes he is very insecure about Bani leaving him. At the same time he does not want to admit being in love with her. According to him Bani is staying with him not out of love but due to obligation. He does not realise that she is already in love with him. So if he admits of his love he will be once again setting himself up for pain and rejection which he does not want. that would kill him for sure.

• Do you think that Jigyasa will end up forcing Bani to sign the Divorce Agreement without Jai's prior knowledge before the fortnight is over?

Yes she will be succesful in doing that inspite of Bani fighting for her rights against the ex-flame. That's when Jai will realise that he loves her. that's just my thinking. lets see.

• Do you think that Jai's ex-girlfriend might be the perfect catalyst for Jai and Bani to finally acknowledge their love for one another, or will she become a cause for them drifting apart further than before?

I am not sure if they will be able to confess about their love for each other but yes she will be the catalyst for both of them to realise their feelings atleast. But bani will leave the mansion otherwise how will jai sing the juda hoke bhi song again but this time it will be for Bani, Bani and only Bani. 😉

• Do you think that the next 14 days will decide the course of Jai and Bani's life? -

I can't answer that. You cannot trust Ekta and her stories.

What is your personal view on Bani's attitude towards Jai after all that transpired between them? She still behaves like a good wife, taking care of him, being nice to him and behaving as if nothing ever happened......Is it because Bani as such is the sort of person who would be nice to anyone and everyone in her life or is it because she considers Jai to be an exception?

Bani knows her duties. Bani in one of the episodes tells Jai that she can understand what he is going through. Whenever Jai starts raising his voice, she always keeps quiet and listens what he says. She has however never told Jai that she has regretted in marrying him. I feel Bani has the simplicity. Imagine you are a manager as well as a business tycoon wife, but Bani served all the guest. So does feel the same thing at Mr Walia house too.

Why do you think Jai started leaving the room once he saw Bani sitting on the Bed? Was it the awkwardness of sleeping with her in the same bed or was it the fact that his guilt could not let him face her alone?

I feel that he wanted to make Bani feel comfortable. U must have noticed when Mausi was talking about why two differnt pillows are seperate. U should have seen Jai walia face? He frozed. I dont think he wanted to answer any questions by his Mausi coz he hates Lies and he would want to lie more to his mausi.

What is your view on Jai and Bani sharing the same bed? Is it indicative of the blind trust and faith they hold over one another or is it just circumstances that forced them to share the same room and now the same bed?

Yeah i feel they had faith in themselves. Before they could sleep both were sitting, thwy were both feelling awkward. But they were sleeping on a double bed. Both slept with their backs facing each other.


What did Bani's expression indicate when she saw Jai sleeping close to her in the morning? Why wasn't she shocked or taken-aback at all, instead chose to linger and look at him sleeping soundly?

She was taken aback for a second, but the second time when she turned back, she was looked more relaxed and saw Jai sleeping like an innocent child.


What did Jai actually mean by telling Bani, "Itna kareeb math hojana, ke tumse dur hojana mushkil hojaye"? Why do you think Bani cried when Jai said so? Was it because he was being rude to her once again or was it because he mentioned the fact that she will have to leave in a few days?

He was really teling about himself. remember Wen Bani left the house and he rememebr how Bani had kept his fav night gown on the bed. He still keep searching with his hand. I think this is the way he says thank you to her. Coz when those international guest had come, he did not even say anything good to her. Jai talks two sides of the coins one side he tells Bani that he does not wantMausi to be hurt and other time he talks that Itna kareeb math hojana, ke tumse dur hojana mushkil hojaye. So now what Bani should do?


Is Jai's obsessesive insecurity for Bani a proof of his deep and unrealized love for his wife?

Definitely whenenver he wants to bring out his frustration, he wants Bani to be in front off him. Guys have you noticed Bani has neved used or loving called him Jai. She calls him Mr. Walia.But he respects her in public but when he is with her alone, he nags her lot.

Do you think that Jigyasa will end up forcing Bani to sign the Divorce Agreement without Jai's prior knowledge before the fortnight is over?
Jigyasa will bring up that Divorce agreement again.she wants Bani and her sisters to be out of the house.As along as her ex husband Aditya is there, there wont be a problem.

Do you think that Jai's ex-girlfriend might be the perfect catalyst for Jai and Bani to finally acknowledge their love for one another, or will she become a cause for them drifting apart further than before?
It could be she might try to drift them apart but it might bring Jai and Bani closer. I feel the more Mausi stays more Jia and Bani will be there for each other. I dont think Jai would allow his ex girl friend to stay in his house as long as Mausi is there.

Do you think that the next 14 days will decide the course of Jai and Bani's life?

It has already started. Masi is here to break the ice between Jai and Bani unknowingly and not to forget between Jai pushkar and Bani relation too.

Thank you everyone for the wonderful answers.... 👏 👏 👏

Will be taking leave now, I am doing the update for today, KS is going to start in another 2 minutes....hope there is a sweet little romantic something between Khadoos and Honey Bunny.... 😳

Thanks once again,

Love,

MT