Gulaal: A woman who deserves to be loved

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Posted: 14 years ago
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The fact that she was all decked up (in red especially) made the scene even more heartbreaking. She was excited to go her mother's house, more so because she was going with Kesar. As I said before, the worst feeling one could go through is when the person they love the most in the world is hurting them and on top of that Gulaal doesn't even know the reason why Kesar hates her to this extent. She tries to fathom him but fails every time...! But she silently takes it in. The moment when she took all the mithai out, it just seemed like she has given up.

I just hope one day Kesar brings so much love in to her life that she never has a reason to cry and I am sure that will happen. If he's hurt her, he will also heal her. If he's giving her unbearable pain then he'll also give her unconditional love. Why do I say that? Because Kesar, the person he is...if he can hate to this extent then it's safe to say that when his doubt clears, he will love her like no-one else ever has. More than anything, Gulaal deserves it!

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agree with you.
He's just being so mean to her. She has the right to know why he is mad at her.
I know he's upset but what he is doing is wrong and childish. It nearly made me cry to see that scene today.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Well said 😊 Gulaal is a woman who deserves to be loved and to loved unconditionally!
I did get the feeling that i think Gulaal has given up to some point esp the sweet scene (and then the bedroom scene), and how she just took it and made an excuse, and we saw her expression, she was hurt so much - and all you can do is feel for her and wish somehow you could bring that earlier Gulaal we saw in the episode, so happy and chatting away and excited at going with Kesar
One person's she waited for 10 yrs and controlled herself in just waiting for him as he never replied to her letters and didnt want to see her and now is behaving like this with her and she has no clue whatsoever, esp the old Kesar would have told her he was upset and they would make up instantly
Like you said in the other thread, they both have lost so much and each other it seems
I think you are right when you say when a person can hate to that extent, how will his love be like and yes he will love her like no other...
They are each other's healers, only both of them can fill each other up
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Reemz*



The fact that she was all decked up (in red especially) made the scene even more heartbreaking. She was excited to go her mother's house, more so because she was going with Kesar. As I said before, the worst feeling one could go through is when the person they love the most in the world is hurting them and on top of that Gulaal doesn't even know the reason why Kesar hates her to this extent. She tries to fathom him but fails every time...! But she silently takes it in. The moment when she took all the mithai out, it just seemed like she has given up.

I just hope one day Kesar brings so much love in to her life that she never has a reason to cry and I am sure that will happen. If he's hurt her, he will also heal her. If he's giving her unbearable pain then he'll also give her unconditional love. Why do I say that? Because Kesar, the person he is...if he can hate to this extent then it's safe to say that when his doubt clears, he will love her like no-one else ever has. More than anything, Gulaal deserves it!

A person can be loved only if they are willing to open up their hearts to be loved. Kesar will bring so much love in her life one day I know it but Gulaal also should open her heart and mind to receiving that love. So far Gulaal is still living in her past. It is going to be one heck of a job for Kesar to get her to accept his love.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: cutegurl224

I agree with you.

He's just being so mean to her. She has the right to know why he is mad at her.
I know he's upset but what he is doing is wrong and childish. It nearly made me cry to see that scene today.


Me too :( I think the fact that he doesn't tell her what's bugging him so much upsets her even more. She feels really helpless.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lennie

Well said 😊 Gulaal is a woman who deserves to be loved and to loved unconditionally!

I did get the feeling that i think Gulaal has given up to some point esp the sweet scene (and then the bedroom scene), and how she just took it and made an excuse, and we saw her expression, she was hurt so much - and all you can do is feel for her and wish somehow you could bring that earlier Gulaal we saw in the episode, so happy and chatting away and excited at going with Kesar
One person's she waited for 10 yrs and controlled herself in just waiting for him as he never replied to her letters and didnt want to see her and now is behaving like this with her and she has no clue whatsoever, esp the old Kesar would have told her he was upset and they would make up instantly
Like you said in the other thread, they both have lost so much and each other it seems
I think you are right when you say when a person can hate to that extent, how will his love be like and yes he will love her like no other...
They are each other's healers, only both of them can fill each other up


I wonder how she will react seeing Kesar coming back with Talli. Just another heart break for her I guess :(

It was nice to see her so happy at first. It made me think that maybe she doesn't mind being recognised as Kesar's wife at all.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Neil-fan

A person can be loved only if they are willing to open up their hearts to be loved. Kesar will bring so much love in her life one day I know it but Gulaal also should open her heart and mind to receiving that love. So far Gulaal is still living in her past. It is going to be one heck of a job for Kesar to get her to accept his love.


She is open to being loved (not anything romantic for now), she wants Kesar to love her like he did before. First they need to sort out the differences then she can open her heart for something more.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Reemz*


I wonder how she will react seeing Kesar coming back with Talli. Just another heart break for her I guess :(

It was nice to see her so happy at first. It made me think that maybe she doesn't mind being recognised as Kesar's wife at all.

I dont think she knows he has gone with Talli, he's taken Talli and not her - that has to be hurtful in a way, its not like he went on his own. But knowing Gulaal she will put it to aside even if she feels something on it about Talli going
It was a big deal to her as its her parents house and going with Kesar was a big thing, i dont think it was mostly to do with her being a wife coz we all know she dont dwell on that, but a thing where both could do together, going together first time he is back and so on
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Neil-fan

A person can be loved only if they are willing to open up their hearts to be loved. Kesar will bring so much love in her life one day I know it but Gulaal also should open her heart and mind to receiving that love. So far Gulaal is still living in her past. It is going to be one heck of a job for Kesar to get her to accept his love.

well said šŸ‘šŸ‘šŸ‘šŸ‘šŸ‘šŸ‘šŸ‘ right now its gulaal im irritated at. she is literally bringing it on herself ... by pushing talli towards kesar.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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infact it is not only that but she is screwing three lives.
talli's : by giving her flase promises , making her dream about being kesar's wife. i wud be really sad when her dream breaks. if i can step aside from my dislike for the actress i can really sympathise with the character ... she is making a fool out of herself becuase she was led onto something since childhood. she is damned if she ds marry kesar ( for she has to ebar his dislike ' live a life unloved) and damned if she dont ( difficult for her to accept kesar dsnt love her and even difficult to get married to another man ).
kesar's: by promising to marry him without him even knowing about it , kept in the dark while his fate was finalised. if he indeed marries talli, his life is ruined becuase he can never love talli.
her own: by making herself perpetually alone .
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