Why so much hatred towards Kesar?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Today was frustrating I guess for most of us Gulaal fans..Kesar bearing the brunt of everyone's anger. But I want to put a more objective view to this. My request to you put yourself in Kesar's shoes for the length of this post. Kesar so far has been very loving to everyone else except Gulaal and Dushyant. for eg today the scene with Motaba he was so loving and endearing. His anger and bad behavior is only towards Dushyant and Gulaal and we all know the reason why? Is Kesar behaving chiidishly...no I dont think so. He is a guy who has been away for 10 years with a misconception in mind. How is he going to be normal..plus if all characters are cool, level headed the show will become highly boring, there will be nothing interesting to watch. We all know how much Kesar adores Gulaal..that is why it hurts so much that she kept a secret from him. Some have called him insolent in front of his eleders...yes I agree, he has been but only because he is hurting so deep within. Gulaal is hurting too at his behavior. The fact is both Gulaal and Kesar have not been in sync with each other for 10 long years, whereas she is looking for the younger Kesar in him, he has changed over the years. Only once the misunderstandings are cleared they will go seeking and discovering each other again. Both of them need to open their minds and hearts up to each other.

As far as Talli is concerned she is just an innocent airhead. One thing is clear even from today's episode Kesar has absolutely no romantic interest in Talli. In the unsent letters he has written to Gulaal Kesar has clearly stated that he wants to hurt Gulaal as much as she has hurt him. But under all this pain and anguish there is a love so deep, once it pours out there will be no stopping Kesar.

Talli and Kesar on bike in the village does look odd. More so for Talli being a girl. Her intentions are to be as close to Kesar as possible, but Kesar on the other hand just sees her as his childhood friend. Well I guess the Cv's do tend to neglect logic just to irritate us viewers and keep the suspense going. Motaba is aware of Kesar's attitude towards Gulaal and I feel he will be the only one who can unite Kesar and Gulaal.

To sum it just chill everyone CV's have to do this to keep the suspense going. In the process we will share a love/ hate relationship with each and every character. Once upon a time I am sure all of us hated Jamuna Kaki, but now some of us love her. So relax and just enjoy the superb acting from this excellent star cast. 😃

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hey Neil fan, me not hating Kesar 😊, i get you - i guess i was just kinda off with Kesar today esp what he did in the precap mainly and the fact that despite not knowing he doesnt seem to realise how he seems to come across to other ppl in the family and their pov of how he is
I know Kesar is lovely and endearing and we have seen that and i get his pain and anger and all that, but i think he should realise he is hurting other ppl, i mean get he is hurting Gulaal and Dushyant but all i am saying is think of the other ppl esp MB and Paanbha, and also his sister who has been waiting for him for days to come and see him
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Agree Lennie Kesar does need to get more sensitive to others feelings, but anger and pain can blind you and make you loose your sense of reasoning. We have seen Kesar hurt Talli physically, but he does manage to come out of it and apologize.
Anyway all this is done to keep us viewers on our toes and guessing. Yesterday the made us cry and sympathize with Kesar, today some of us are mad at Kesar.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I don't hate Kesar, I just want to smack his head against the wall at times :\ I know what he's going through and what he's feeling but it's difficult to condone his actions.

I don't doubt his love for Gulaal. In fact, I don't deny the love they share at all and I guess all these things need to happen in the process of building up their story.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Reemz*

I don't hate Kesar, I just want to smack his head against the wall at times :\ I know what he's going through and what he's feeling but it's difficult to condone his actions.


I don't doubt his love for Gulaal. In fact, I don't deny the love they share at all and I guess all these things need to happen in the process of building up their story.

@ Reemz jab smack kare Pyaar se karna LOL😆, I'll join u too.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@ neil-fan
It is because we love him so much ourselves that we expect better from him. I can never hate KESAR . He means a lot to us because GULAAL adores him.
We want them to be together so we get frustrated at his being aloof to GULAAL.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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nobody hates kesar he is a sweetheart everyone here is dying to see gulaal and kesar but now kesar is digging hole for himself we all can see that roaming around with talli so much and doing all those coin tossing act in front of elder are surely not decent...kesar even came home in drunken state what would happened if motaba or panba had seen him there would again trouble for him...i think now kesar silence is killing him and he is losing respect its high time for him to speak to gulaal or dushyant in this regards...if gulaal did mistake by not telling the truth to the family members for so many years so is kesar doing the same thing he is not asking gulaal anything and in the process of hurting gulaal he unintentionally hurting other ppl too...clearly everybody is upset with his behaviour and i think in order to avoid gulaal he is getting to close to talli and if any elder member sense it they will definetly want to marry kesar and talli as none of them take kesar and gulaal marriage seriously...so basically kesar is going into deep trouble😕
we all love him so much that cant see him in trouble and with that stupid talli ( she is an epic)
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@arti07
I also believe in what you are saying.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i think kesar's reactions are pretty normal.
viewed from his perspective ... how can he ever respect people responsible for his bro's death? he is just being rude ... so whats wrong with that.
IMO he is doing too less, people wud have done much more if it was a dead bro they were carrying in their hearts.
respect always has to earned!

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