My reasons for Geet's unforgiveness please read... - Page 5

Eva dii 👏👏👏

I am speechless. What can I say now? Your topic as well as answers of all my friends to it, both are rocking.

After that holi incident, I was so much disappointed with Geet Forum and decided to not to come here, Bz it was the only way left to enjoy GHSP.

But u all, Eva dii, jyoti, geets, azzy dear, and many more to added (sorry guys not remember all names) currently doing the work which I can learn for my own life. U all knows GHSP very well.

It is one of the fiction show, but how to take some positivity from it which can be useful us in our life it depend up to us.

I will surely visit GF for all the people like u. Thanks. 😊

Originally posted by: evasumi

Hello all I have posted this in Geets post but they thought I should make a spearate post so we all can participate so here I go...

Evuuuuuuuuuuu🤗

Sorry for my late Vishesh Tippanis😆

Thanks you friends who thought this could be good reasons.. love you all

I for one has always believe in forgiveness but I do not condemn Geet for not forgiving Maan for this moment of time...

As Jyoti has explained beautifully that the word Gairat has a uttermost important in life of Geet.. She has been treated like a dust of the feet by her so called elders in all her younglife. She was ordered to kill by her own GF in the name of fake prestiage. In her such a young life she has been through a lot and that word Gairat -- self respect had carried her through.

Yes; self respect is the word that was taught to her by Maan; for her family's self respect; their family honor Brij was ordered to kill her.

And when MSK entered in her life he also thought that she had no self respect and that is why she is taking all from her family without a word and that thought has made her stand on her own against her tyrannical family and that thought has made her break out from that family's clutches. So indirectly it was MSK who gave her the strength and the aim in her life to fight for her own and she took that in and stood against tyranny of her grand father and veerji.

So as if it was MSK who gave her that zeal and that zest and it was MSK who witnessed everything.. her flight her fight and her struggle for existence in the city like Delhi. It was MSK who came after her after the incident of her torn saree in party. So MSK was the source of her Gairat and he himself provided that force in her life..

She never knew what self respect meant; and shall never have known it if it was not Maan! Maan was the one who made her realize that she lacked respect; she deserved it and made her fight for her rights!

Now coming from the same person that she has no gairat is like sucking the life and life support out of her.. And she truly said that this is not the words spoken just by your anger.. Only anger do not produce this volcanic irruption... He was meditating on those thoughts for a while and then concluded without talking to her that she was without self respect.

Its like she has been clinging on to him; her life support system! The words; which were spoken by her Maan; which she considers; greater than that of God; She was completely disgusted; at the fact that this is what Maan thinks of me. This made her vulnerable; to leave him; she bled inside but had to go; because The Man who meant the World to her; Gave her the most disgusting shock; and without uttering a word; she left.

It was not only the anger that MSK spoke this word... In those word he was disgusted that she was like that he thought so low of her and detached himself from her and that was the killer.. after he said those she had no life left in her.. She rightly said that he has killed her love

It is not that she does not love him or she does not care for him or she does not want to be with him but those words are so poisonous that as soon as it touched her and her loved just withered away. Her survival depended upon how MSK sees her and how MSK values her. But when MSK thought she was begairat there is no meaning of her life there is no meaning of her survival there is no meaning of her joy or existence..

Yes it will take time to heal this hurt. The hurt is not going to be erased by just simple sorry.. A simple sorry may start the healing process but the hurt is so deep to her core that she cannot forget it so easily.

Even if she forgets and forgives and goes back to MSK who knows in a month or two once again his anger may explode and he will say some more mean things and the cycle may repeat..

No as much as this hurt needs to go from her... in the same manner this anger and arrogance from MSK needs to go too... The complete healing only will take place when both the party will heal

MSK also needs to take out this anger issue from him and that only can be done once he realizes how deep the hurt is and he has hurt the person for whose love he can lay down his life... He has killed that emotions of love and respect which automatically comes in Geet when she lays eyes on him. Now looking at him just tears come in her eyes and she remembers those hurtful words and she withers inside..

No that feeling of love and adoration needs to come back in Geet's eyes when she sees him and for that it will take time

Geet is now so hurt that now she is surviving on her hurt but she also needs to come to the point where she will seek his love and will realise that she cannot survive on hurt but only his love and for that MSK has to give her that love and pour it down on her that the hurt may washed away..

Exactly; right now she only knows that Maan hurted me; but the moments spent with him; the love and the bond she shares with him; will eventually make her way into his arms; Sigh!

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