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Posted: 14 years ago

#31

Nigo!! VERYYY WELLL SAID...

one "so called mistake by akshara and everyone is at her throats!!!"

No one complains about MUnna... and his baby habits.

I am glad that Akshara is doing what she is doing and is learning to balance it out and yes she needs time and I do agree that she needs to prioritize but hey no one is born perfect. So lets just let her learn !!

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Posted: 14 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: gutky

👏 omg charu di... im in love wid ur views... too gud... u know di i've started imitating u in my routine life.. n al my frnds n family members r amazed with this sudden change in my attitude...😆 (sabko lagta hai courtship period ka asar hai 🤣)
neways very healthy discussion evry1...👏 ab itna sab padhne ke baad toh even im confused ki maate is write or wrong..😕 waise in my opinion akshi is not wrong completely as first time in her life shes got this opportunity n hence she's very much overwhelmed n excited abt it.. (coz i remember first time wen i used internet n chatted wid my frnd i almost lost completely in it.. n sidelined other imp task at that moment..😆) but here the case is different ..she is MARRIED women with lots of responsibilities, she just cant ignore them i would have been happy if she do all this things during noon wen naitik is not around.. infact thats the way it should be.. if u wanna learn something or try ur creativity it shld be in ur leisure time n NOT during peak hours of work..😕 or rather complete all ur work earlier n den do it... 😊

thanks so much vini...i'm flat 😆 nahi i'm not that inspiring, i'm sure it's ur courtship..trust me, it's the best phase of the life , make most out of it...so ur coming in our league 😛 YR and IF has been a gr8 journey..when i joined the forum, so many friends of mine were studying, koi school koi college and now everyone has moved on and doing the best of jobs, getting married, kitna kuch dekha kitna experience kiya, it's so much fun with all of u ..wow ! 🤗i'm glad to be a part of YR forum 😊

Vini, no big deal if akshara decided sumthing..she has complete freedom..what is imp. is that she realized her mistake (if it is a mistake , now that she's admitted it) n i hope now she works on it too...also, naitik understood her feelings, nothing like it 👏 this is what we wanted..a good understanding b/w naksh, both of them should become a pillar of strength for each other, be there for each other in tough times...👏 that's the sign of a healthy relationship....i just hope in the coming episodes, naitik supports her decision of continuing the cooking classes and spend some more time on the net & with payal...

i wanna applaud akshara for her efforts to keep the family together, she never stops trying...anyone in her place will focus on their life instead of banging their head against the wall....like her friend payal 😆 with the sanskars she got, she is confident of making the impossible possible...that's what we were discussing in the DOTW na...battling ego with love..it really works if someone is as selfless as akshara is..u will find selfish ppl. all over this world who do everything for themselves but very few who SERVE selflessly..therez a joy in giving..u dun become less if u do something for ur loved ones...when we love someone we want to do more and more for them..therez no limit to it......apne liye toh har koi karta hai, what's the big deal?...afterall, Indian values teach us to LIVE like a family coz we know the importance of family and family life.......i'm proud of it 👏

it's unfortunate that Akshara got in laws like singhania's 😡 she'll work it out now and then the same problems will crop up after 10 days ! after batwara is over, it's back to square one..that's my only fear..

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_vinita_

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Posted: 14 years ago

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thanks so much vini...i'm flat 😆 nahi i'm not that inspiring, i'm sure it's ur courtship..trust me, it's the best phase of the life , make most out of it...so ur coming in our league 😛 YR and IF has been a gr8 journey..when i joined the forum, so many friends of mine were studying, koi school koi college and now everyone has moved on and doing the best of jobs, getting married, kitna kuch dekha kitna experience kiya, it's so much fun with all of u ..wow ! 🤗i'm glad to be a part of YR forum 😊

Vini, no big deal if akshara decided sumthing..she has complete freedom..what is imp. is that she realized her mistake (if it is a mistake , now that she's admitted it) n i hope now she works on it too...also, naitik understood her feelings, nothing like it 👏 this is what we wanted..a good understanding b/w naksh, both of them should become a pillar of strength for each other, be there for each other in tough times...👏 that's the sign of a healthy relationship....i just hope in the coming episodes, naitik supports her decision of continuing the cooking classes and spend some more time on the net & with payal...

i wanna applaud akshara for her efforts to keep the family together, she never stops trying...anyone in her place will focus on their life instead of banging their head against the wall....like her friend payal 😆 with the sanskars she got, she is confident of making the impossible possible...that's what we were discussing in the DOTW na...battling ego with love..it really works if someone is as selfless as akshara is..u will find selfish ppl. all over this world who do everything for themselves but very few who SERVE selflessly..therez a joy in giving..u dun become less if u do something for ur loved ones...when we love someone we want to do more and more for them..therez no limit to it......apne liye toh har koi karta hai, what's the big deal?...afterall, Indian values teach us to LIVE like a family coz we know the importance of family and family life.......i'm proud of it 👏

it's unfortunate that Akshara got in laws like singhania's 😡 she'll work it out now and then the same problems will crop up after 10 days ! after batwara is over, it's back to square one..that's my only fear..

no dii believe me i was just a xerox copy of akshi.. i mean even im a bit introvert n scarifying by nature just like her... n can go to any level to maintain peace n unity in my family... 😃 but after joining this forum i've realized the importance of self respect n women empowerment (especially it reflects from urs n sarita di post).....so thanks once again for ur remarkable suggestions on each aspect of life.. 🤗 yaah di courtship period are the most amazing n memorable period in our life n im enjoying every bit of it.. but these guys r never satisfied i mean jitna time bhi milo unko kaam hi lagta hai ..😉 n say by July i'll too start cribbing abt my MIL through my experience...😆

yaah akshi is a fictional character so no comments on that..😲 but personally i feel if someone puts half the efforts wic she put to maintain peace n happiness in ur family .. believe me di no matter how worse or cruel ur in-laws be.. they will definately show some sign of improvement n will also appreciate her deeds.. although the process is slow n time consuming but Results r definately +VE... n this i can guaranty as i myself hv experienced it..😊

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rainy.days

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Posted: 14 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: gutky

no dii believe me i was just a xerox copy of akshi.. i mean even im a bit introvert n scarifying by nature just like her... n can go to any level to maintain peace n unity in my family... 😃 but after joining this forum i've realized the importance of self respect n women empowerment (especially it reflects from urs n sarita di post).....so thanks once again for ur remarkable suggestions on each aspect of life.. 🤗 yaah di courtship period are the most amazing n memorable period in our life n im enjoying every bit of it.. but these guys r never satisfied i mean jitna time bhi milo unko kaam hi lagta hai ..😉 n say by July i'll too start cribbing abt my MIL through my experience...😆
yaah akshi is a fictional character so no comments on that..😲 but personally i feel if someone puts half the efforts wic she put to maintain peace n happiness in ur family .. believe me di no matter how worse or cruel ur in-laws be.. they will definately show some sign of improvement n will also appreciate her deeds.. although the process is slow n time consuming but Results r definately +VE... n this i can guaranty as i myself hv experienced it..😊

Not to butt into this conversation, but it's amazing to see how much we've all learned from this IF experience.

Re: Bold part - I was the exact same way (well, I sort of still am) - innocence bordering naivete, and when I saw the things Akshara faced in her in-laws house and the way she reacted sometimes (sometimes, I'm not as dumb as she can be lol), made me feel like that's the way I would've reacted, or cried (I cry a lot - watching Akshara makes me hate myself for being so sensitive 🤢). But now watching the serial and reading all of your posts, I've actually learned so much (never thought I'd say this about a serial!). I feel like I should a be a little more prepared on how to handle things when I go to my in-laws. Not to get all sappy or anything, but I love this forum for what it's taught me and it's all because of you guys. ☺️ 😊

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_vinita_

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: rainy.days

Not to butt into this conversation, but it's amazing to see how much we've all learned from this IF experience.
Re: Bold part - I was the exact same way (well, I sort of still am) - innocence bordering naivete, and when I saw the things Akshara faced in her in-laws house and the way she reacted sometimes (sometimes, I'm not as dumb as she can be lol), made me feel like that's the way I would've reacted, or cried (I cry a lot - watching Akshara makes me hate myself for being so sensitive 🤢). But now watching the serial and reading all of your posts, I've actually learned so much (never thought I'd say this about a serial!). I feel like I should a be a little more prepared on how to handle things when I go to my in-laws. Not to get all sappy or anything, but I love this forum for what it's taught me and it's all because of you guys. ☺️ 😊

excatly rainy days...😃

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there is an issue of naitik being a good husband or not.. in my opnion.. naitik has ALWAYS been a good husband.. the best i would say.. i am thinking of that necklace incident that happned in november 2009.. akshara lost the necklace but naitik not only brought it back.. but told her that they are one and akshara shudn't have hid this thing from him..

the only mistake that he did was to confront akshara on the nandini issue in front of everyone.. he should'nt have done that.. certainly.. but other than that.. i don't think there ever has been a single incident where naitik hasn't proved worthy of being a good husband.. he shouted in front of baisa.. why.?? just for akshara.. he never said akshara that taking money from her father was a wrong idea.. ont even onve did he say ki akshara kash humne bauji se paise na liye hote.. naitik is there for akshara at every single moment.. right from the starting.. the jealousy thing also.. he was angry at akshara.. he was being immature.. but at the same time.. he wooed her with the same repent..

naitik has made some mistake.. two.. to be more specific.. but i guess this is how boys are like.. they are so in-your-face.. say what they have in their heart.. but after that.. they go to great heights to repent as well.. and that i think is worth an appaluse.. certainly..

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Posted: 14 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: gutky

no dii believe me i was just a xerox copy of akshi.. i mean even im a bit introvert n scarifying by nature just like her... n can go to any level to maintain peace n unity in my family... 😃 but after joining this forum i've realized the importance of self respect n women empowerment (especially it reflects from urs n sarita di post).....so thanks once again for ur remarkable suggestions on each aspect of life.. 🤗 yaah di courtship period are the most amazing n memorable period in our life n im enjoying every bit of it.. but these guys r never satisfied i mean jitna time bhi milo unko kaam hi lagta hai ..😉 n say by July i'll too start cribbing abt my MIL through my experience...😆
yaah akshi is a fictional character so no comments on that..😲 but personally i feel if someone puts half the efforts wic she put to maintain peace n happiness in ur family .. believe me di no matter how worse or cruel ur in-laws be.. they will definately show some sign of improvement n will also appreciate her deeds.. although the process is slow n time consuming but Results r definately +VE... n this i can guaranty as i myself hv experienced it..😊

Akshi jaise raho, if it works for you. Lekin pls don't cry & apologize a zillion times like Akshi especially for no fault of yours😉 Tumhe nutcase samjhenge aur izzat bhi nahi milegi😆

Kal ka episode dekhe I was livid, itna kyun rulathe hai usse? Didn't want to be a party pooper so I kept my opinion to myself yest. The same episode could have been much more effective if she said the same thing to Naitik w/o crying, apna haq jatake, pyaar se.

Shedding tears is ok but she was uncontrollable. Did she have to apologize so many times when they didn't even acknowledge her presence or their mistake? RB was the only one who had the decency to console her. Remember, she is a 20 yr old girl just like Rashmi & they all just stood there watching? Munna pur bhi ghussa aaya, he jumped to conclusion w/o knowing her side. Chalo, Munna ko maaf kiya coz he acknowledged his mistake right away & tension mein bola tha😳 G3 better feel sorry coz she caused the MU between them

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