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Posted: 14 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: mcgregor
Naitik has always been a good husband. he always supports akshara and in return just expects some little time from her. is that too much to ask?? i dont think so. akshara is always the 1st priority for him....yes he is a bit immature and expects everything to be handed over to him but that is the way it is in rajasthan or most part in india. men hardly do any household chores. but he is changing, he likes to help akshara he has grown in his marriage. that is what marriage is about. Akshara on the other hand is the same from day 1. before batwara it was the family and now it is the new found freedom. i am not against it she shud def enjoy her freedom do something for herself but she shud learn to balance her relationships. and ur husband shud always be ur top priority. just the way she is for naitik. didnt he leave his work when she need help in shopping.....these r small small thing that matter in marriage. then even if u dont cook ur husband's favourite dish it dosent matter.
Finally yes it is like a unwritten law that maintaining the balance is always the responsibility of a wife. she needs to multitask. This is not just in india it is same everywher even in western countries. when this dosent happen the marriage ends.

My whole point is that people need to stop making a big deal about one thing coz the serial will just give the point that a housewife should just stick to being her husband's slave and cook and clean and listen to everyone's taunts. You are right this happens everywhere, but these serials kinda gets messages across people. Thats why we need to become more independent. Yes akshara's character has been the same since start but if we don't show appreciation to the new change in her then she will just go back to her old self and we would never see any changes again. I mean dont u guys want her to get the courage and knowledge to tell gayatri or bm that they need to stop telling her what to do all the time. We cannot expect her to just change from zero to hero in one day. It is going to take time and during that time she will make mistakes and learn from them. I feel that payal is a very open minded and smart girl and she will be a great mentor for akshara.

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San

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Posted: 14 years ago

#12

exactly

infact I also am happy that aksh is learning so many things & learning to socialise. rather these were the comments I gave after reading the update today.

more so --------soon gayatri and others will realise that aksh can also do something which she was not able to do when she was busy with the household work. and has learnt to live her life (they shouldnt feel bad as they were ignoring her so much that they wouldnt talk to her).

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Stuti

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Posted: 14 years ago

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i cant write big big stuff.. n m sry... dnt read sooo much also.. but i agree with the thread starter that akshi is right this tym... she need stym for herself.. she is happy.. as we wanted her to b!

naitik has recently started being a gud hubby... he was not always a gud one! i agree to this completely!

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Posted: 14 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: dz651
I agree with you. He behaves like a child sometimes. Honestly, why does he need Akshara to get everything from wallets to handkerchiefs? He needs to grow up! Yes, he's a good husband, but he has his flaws.

honestly, whats the problem with the wife helping out her husband in packing when he has to catch a flight? he got up late, got ready, madam packed two clothes for him & sacrificed her "5 exclusive" mins to her friend payal, he took everything frm the cupboard on his own , hugged her and left empty stomach ! phir bhi he's a nalayak husband who cares for himself and wants everything on the platter ?? didn't HE let Akshara stay in her maayka for a few days and managed everything alone? he couldn't cook so he ate bread butter, he ironed his clothes on his own and yet asked Akshara to stay back for a few more days just to make her happy! if this is the case then a good husband is better than a perfect husband ! 😛 AND the child in us should always be active ! all of us will applaud him if he becomes mature like daddaji right?

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: stuti_naksh4eva

naitik has recently started being a gud hubby...

so? better late than never ! at least he learnt from his mistakes.

when will akshara start being a good wife? i.e. if the good wife does NOT cook for her husband, serve him B/L/D, take out clothes from the cupboard, clean the room and sleep with him? bec. these r acts of slavery right? is that all what is required for being a good wife or something else? i'm totally confused ! 😕 good wife manicures her nails while the maid takes care of her kids and husband leaves for the office after cooking and cleaning ? 😆

BTW if Akshara needs some time for herself & she's happy with it , then she should not feel bad that nobody told her abt daddaji 😕 why not give a firm reply then "i'm not supposed to know since i was busy and then, after batwara, who cares?"

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: _charu_

honestly, whats the problem with the wife helping out her husband in packing when he has to catch a flight? he got up late, got ready, madam packed two clothes for him & sacrificed her "5 exclusive" mins to her friend payal, he took everything frm the cupboard on his own , hugged her and left empty stomach ! phir bhi he's a nalayak husband who cares for himself and wants everything on the platter ?? didn't HE let Akshara stay in her maayka for a few days and managed everything alone? he couldn't cook so he ate bread butter, he ironed his clothes on his own and yet asked Akshara to stay back for a few more days just to make her happy! if this is the case then a good husband is better than a perfect husband ! 😛 AND the child in us should always be active ! all of us will applaud him if he becomes mature like daddaji right?

He can never find any of his clothes and is too reliant on Akshara for the smallest of things. At his age, I don't think that is particularly mature behaviour. Had this been an occasional thing, I would be fine with it.

The fact that he couldn't manage on his own while his wife was away just reiterates my point.

Yes, he is a good husband, there in no doubt about that, which makes this otherwise relatively minor flaw more conspicuous.

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Posted: 14 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: mittijalebi
i completely agree with the thread starter. akshara is ALWAYS around naitik....to the point where it seems like she has no identity of her own. its great that she's making friends and actually getting a chance to socialize with people other than her family members....its only natural.

i think the people who are being negative against akshara should put themselves in her shoes for even a day. would they be able to put up with all the stuff that she has....probably not!

naitik is not her child but her EQUAL partner and it is not her duty to cater to him or spoil him.

putting myself in her shoes will not make me ignore my husband for in laws or anything in this world ! sorry, i'll never give up on movies or anything which i like, be it driving, internet or working out for the sake of my in laws, that too, when my husband goes out of the way to make it possible for me ! a girl who has mad in laws , strict rules, being judged and written off every now and then, wud OBVIOUSLY LOVE to take a break & spend time with her hubby whenever given a chance and not crib abt not being able to do enuf for her in laws ! will anyone like to do what akshara is doing? ma daddaji ke charnon mein baithe raho and they keep kicking u 🤢

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kinjal punamiya

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Posted: 14 years ago

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xsactly u r r8!!!big deal!!!!!!!!!!its good dat 1st tym she's doing something 4herself!!!!!!

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: mittijalebi
i completely agree with the thread starter. akshara is ALWAYS around naitik....to the point where it seems like she has no identity of her own. its great that she's making friends and actually getting a chance to socialize with people other than her family members....its only natural.

i think the people who are being negative against akshara should put themselves in her shoes for even a day. would they be able to put up with all the stuff that she has....probably not!

naitik is not her child but her EQUAL partner and it is not her duty to cater to him or spoil him.

ur degrading every housewife by saying that...the culture in India is very different from the West ..there, if parents ask their children to spend sometime with them , the kids call it "interference"...what do u know abt living in a joint family in India? and being a housewife? i'm also a housewife ..i'm not an unpaid servant of the house ! doing work for ur house, kids and husband is considered slavery ? or spoiling ur husband? my hubby never does anything himself so he's immature ? i never had a problem serving him or handing over stuff to him , bec. i love to do it !! i love to cook for him....why can't akshara tell him in a NICE and polite way that he must do everything on his own bec. she has other priorities? it's bec. of this nonsense thinking that akshara mistook herself to be a dutiful wife....just by serving , cooking, handing over stuff to him, readying him for the office, she thinks she's done enuf ! tell me just one instance where akshara did something for naitik ! just one instance where she went out of the way for NAITIK , not his family !

in my opinion, the husband and wife give ample space & time to each other..the husband is out the whole day and the wife has enuf time for herself ! she can go out with friends, socialize, chat in the internet, join any classes, do anything to keep herself busy ! if after a long day of work, husband expects her wife to spend few mins with him , is he being demanding? does akshara like it when naitik brings his work home? did she like it when he spent time with his friends playing video games and ignored her ? those r the only moments that husband and wife get together..an hour in the morning and hour in the evening....leave everything else as it is and concentrate on ur partner for god sake ! coz they will not get these 2 hrs also after they have babies !

Whoever said that akshara should not step out of the house and make new friends? i was elated when she decided to join the cooking classes..it's okay if she couldn't accompany naitik (i bought her argument that if he told her a day back, she wouldn't have joined the classes 😊), okay she was exited abt her cooking class and in her exitement didn't listen to naitik, n it's brilliant that she's learning how to use the comp 👏 i'll not blame her for being ignorant, c'mon howz she supposed to know that daddaji is unwell? she doesn't have antennas on her head 😆 ke therez a problem in the house.... but i'll be really really happy if she sets her priorities straight ..it's not that we want naitik to be her no.1 priority, it's very natural for any girl who has a loving husband like naitik !

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Posted: 14 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: dz651

He can never find any of his clothes and is too reliant on Akshara for the smallest of things. At his age, I don't think that is particularly mature behaviour. Had this been an occasional thing, I would be fine with it.
The fact that he couldn't manage on his own while his wife was away just reiterates my point.
Yes, he is a good husband, there in no doubt about that, which makes this otherwise relatively minor flaw more conspicuous.

fine ! a good hubby is the one who can find clothes in the cupboard & cook for himself ! 😛i'm sure one can adjust with these habits coz akshara never complained...but will she be happy if naitik did not love her? if he expected her to be on his beck and call, she wud be leading the same life which she was doing before batwara ! she wouldn't be joining those cooking classes either !

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