OMG!!!!I am so shocked

I cannot belive the reaction of people regarding the payal and akshara friendship. So she didnt go to a trip big deal it was for one day and she wouldnt get to spend anytime with natik anyways. During the conversations between payal and akshara, you can actually see how happy she is. she is finally socializing with someone who is not her family member. And so what if payal called her and she didnt pack natik's bag or gave him his wallet, how old is he that he needs someone else to pack for him and give him his clothes. Husband and wife shouldnt be so dependent on eachother that they cannot survive for oneday without the other.

I dont think if anyone would mind if akshara got pregnant and sat at home knitting and making and just doing house chores. Now that she is finally doing something for herself learning about the outside world everyone is criticizing her. A girl same age as akshara who is educated does not know anything about internet or how to use email. that is not fair to housewives, i am so glad she is learning these stuff. She might even start learning to be more romantic probably show her feelings more towards natik. No one should judge them at this point. When someone wins the lottery they spend money like crazy. Just like that akshara is having fun outside family and she is too excited about it she is definitely going to get in control and learn how to balance stuff, we just need to give her some time.

And also, natik is a great husband but he is spoiled by him mom and then wife. he needs to learn how to make a decent breakfast for himself, pack his own bag for trips and get his own wallet and napkins.

I really hope they dont portray this friendship track as negative coz then that will just prove that wives should just stay at home and cook and clean and be dependent on their husbands.

I agree with you. He behaves like a child sometimes. Honestly, why does he need Akshara to get everything from wallets to handkerchiefs? He needs to grow up! Yes, he's a good husband, but he has his flaws.

I kind of agree on some of your points but not entirely. Her excuse for not going with him was lame; no cooking class or friend is as important as spending quality time with your loved one. Yes, he couldn't spend the entire day with her but knowing Naitik he would have made it memorable no matter how short the duration would be😍Akshara has been his ONLY priority since their initial MU. Naitik is special, there is no 2 ways about it & Akshara should do anything to keep it that way even to the extent of spoiling him as you put it😳


Yes, I agree that she needs to explore the world outside, make new friends. I haven't seen her as excited as she was today. In her excitement, she constantly interrupted him to the extent that she appeared rude to some. But if you try to understand where she comes from, it was a very natural reaction from her. She has been constantly admonished for every little thing & here she has all the freedom she ever had. How exciting is that? It showed & I hope it continues. I think Naitik will be very supportive & will help her in developing this new found enthusiasm rather than suppress it. I hope soon Akshara learns to balance her personal life too & not overdo this new found friendship; makes Naitik her ONLY priority; everyone else is just time pass.....😉

i completely agree with the thread starter. akshara is ALWAYS around naitik....to the point where it seems like she has no identity of her own. its great that she's making friends and actually getting a chance to socialize with people other than her family members....its only natural.

Well, I don't think anyone is negative about Akshara. The reason some are upset with her is because her priorities are sometimes misplaced. She chose to stay behind for a cooking class instead of spending time with her husband.

In all fairness, Naitik has been a very good husband and tries to defend her and goes against his own folks. The batwara happened coz she accepted money from her parents but he never once blamed her. Instead he took responsibility for it. Since the batwara he has tried to help her in doing household chores, getting groceries, helping her in the kitchen, etc. His only expectation is that she spend more time with him. Is that too much to ask?

Before the batwara she may have had good excuses coz there were lot of expectations from the rest of the family. In this case she chose cooking classes/Payal over her husband. Isn't that a little strange? I am totally supportive of her learning new stuff, meeting new people, etc. I even thought it was totally ok for her to go on an endless rant over her cooking class, the instructor, starters mein kya khayenge etc coz she was ecstatic over her new found freedom. She was trying to share her excitement with her best friend, her husband. However she needs to find a balance & devote some time to her husband too. Friends(she barely knows Payal, wouldn't call her a friend yet) come & go; cooking classes are offered again but marriage is a lifetime commitment & both have to work on it to make it an enjoyable journey.

Originally posted by: nigo123

I cannot belive the reaction of people regarding the payal and akshara friendship. So she didnt go to a trip big deal it was for one day and she wouldnt get to spend anytime with natik anyways. During the conversations between payal and akshara, you can actually see how happy she is. she is finally socializing with someone who is not her family member. And so what if payal called her and she didnt pack natik's bag or gave him his wallet, how old is he that he needs someone else to pack for him and give him his clothes. Husband and wife shouldnt be so dependent on eachother that they cannot survive for oneday without the other.

I dont think if anyone would mind if akshara got pregnant and sat at home knitting and making and just doing house chores. Now that she is finally doing something for herself learning about the outside world everyone is criticizing her. A girl same age as akshara who is educated does not know anything about internet or how to use email. that is not fair to housewives, i am so glad she is learning these stuff. She might even start learning to be more romantic probably show her feelings more towards natik. No one should judge them at this point. When someone wins the lottery they spend money like crazy. Just like that akshara is having fun outside family and she is too excited about it she is definitely going to get in control and learn how to balance stuff, we just need to give her some time.

And also, natik is a great husband but he is spoiled by him mom and then wife. he needs to learn how to make a decent breakfast for himself, pack his own bag for trips and get his own wallet and napkins.

I really hope they dont portray this friendship track as negative coz then that will just prove that wives should just stay at home and cook and clean and be dependent on their husbands.

yeah i agree she need to make friends , learn new things, she has been good doughter and good bahu she proved it to her inlaws that, now its time for her to have her own life, not just revolve around her husband who is like a baby who need to have his work done by his wife or mother. pyal maybe she is nice person or not but she is the only friend she has apart from versha, and aksh need to make her own mind rather then everyone telling her what to do, and the family ignore her anyway unless G3 winges about her. she should learn the computers and all that as when she has kids they go to school and use the net, she has to keep track of what or who they talking to as tipical indian husband will blame her for not keeping an eye on the kids if they go off the track,

I'm sorry but naitik has not always been a very good husband. he has only RECENTLY started being a good husband.

I am glad that most people agree with me and some of you made great points that natik always was not a good husband and he has just started being one.
I am remmebring all the times that akshara got into trouble like when she used to go to her maayka natik would get mad at her and feel totally insecure and most of the times when u think he wasnt standing up for akshara he was standing up for himself. for example, when she fights with his family for going to movies and coming home late thats not for akshara that is for himself. Everytime he disagrees with DJ or the rest of the family members we all praise him. But has anyone ever realized how rude he is. He is always disrespecting his parents and DJ. I am not saying that what the family members do to them is fair, it is just that there is a place and time and a way of speaking to elders. He has been rude to akshara, DJ, and his mom and their bua. I am glad that he fights for his rights but you should never disrespect ur elders, u just make them understand nicely.

I think natik is very spoiled and arrogand and rude at times and it is because the women in his life has made him like this. I hope by the track, he becomes independent and learns to be more respectful to his elders and his wife. Just because he does a few romantic stuff for her doesnt mean that she should completely sacrifice her life for him.

Also, people are making a huge deal about her not going to the trip. How come i dont see any forums complaining how when varsha wanted to go out for movies, shaurya refused giving the reason that their daughter is their entertainment. I agree that they have a little daughter but varsha still should have a life and go out atleast once a month. Shaurya didnt even once think about the fact that she was pregnant and then she gave birth and has not been sleeping or resting due to the baby.

Why is that the wife should always sacrifice and gave up her plans or dreams? All women should try to put themselves in akshara's life and imagine wouldnt u get excited if you finally had something fun in your life.

And for people complaing that how come payal called aksahra in the morning when she herself is married, well maybe because her husband is mature and not a baby and does not need his wife to act as his maid and bring everything on silver platter for him.

There is so much double standard amongst people, first everyone argues that akshara is good for nothing and needs to get a life (I used to think the same) and now that she finally is getting there everyone is still complaing because she refused to go on a one day trip with her husband and is probably having more fun at home doing new stuff instead of sitting in a boring hotel room for hours until natik was done to take her to dinner.

Also, if her excitement about her day made her rude to natik, then he needs to tell her that. Communication is very important in any relationship, natik should tell his wife if he feels that she is not giving him enough time and find a solution for it. Maybe he should go out with his friends when she is with her friend.

Naitik has always been a good husband. he always supports akshara and in return just expects some little time from her. is that too much to ask?? i dont think so. akshara is always the 1st priority for him....yes he is a bit immature and expects everything to be handed over to him but that is the way it is in rajasthan or most part in india. men hardly do any household chores. but he is changing, he likes to help akshara he has grown in his marriage. that is what marriage is about. Akshara on the other hand is the same from day 1. before batwara it was the family and now it is the new found freedom. i am not against it she shud def enjoy her freedom do something for herself but she shud learn to balance her relationships. and ur husband shud always be ur top priority. just the way she is for naitik. didnt he leave his work when she need help in shopping.....these r small small thing that matter in marriage. then even if u dont cook ur husband's favourite dish it dosent matter.