Akshara attitude

Originally posted by: _charu_

After watching Star Utsav YRKKH (on the day of marriage she's telling varsha i'm confused i love naitik or not and varsha made her throw some stones in the water 😆) , i've concluded that CV's have portrayed her as plain stupid and she was always like that....apart from that one moment on SR where we got to see the " DESIRABLE" Akshara, there hasn't been any instance where she used her intelligence.....

yes may be there are many females out there who r like akshara, but not any sample jisko freedom mila ho and she doesn't enjoy it ! 🤢 i've heard of many cases whose in laws r abusive, who face domestic violence & still remain quite (coz they have their reasons) but Akshara's in laws or her husband r NOT abusive ...two, they r not AS conservative as some gaaonwala (like balika vadhu families) , she CAN improve her plight IF she wants to, but the problem is that she does not want to bec. she feels THEY r perfect and she's imperfect ! dun know how long this self pity and blaming herself for all the mis-happenings will continue 🤢

in a way CV's r sending across a wrong message to the viewers...in order to maintain peace & unity of the family , the bahu has to make sacrifices..it never happens that way...She CAN have her say IF she wants to, specially when she has her husband's support & nobody will pounce on her..what can they do?? she's also a member of the family , she cannot be disregarded this way...one can be polite & firm without being argumentative.....that happens slowly when you express your views !!!! yes, there r many instances where Naitik also wants Akshara to adjust , obviously he wud not want her to argue/fight with his family... at other times, he wants her to enjoy life their way but she refuses ..that's what bugs me a lot...when naitik has accepted the division of the family, why doesn't akshara want to move on?

Originally posted by: gutky

OMG charu di ..👏 👏 👏 im in love with ur comments seriously... to be honest before joining this forum i too use to think n behave like akshi... coz that is wat i used to feel is correct .. 😕 n initially i use to wonder y u always bash at her character...but now i can relate to ur comment thoroughly... n apply it in my routine too.. believe me di im enjoying every bit of it.. 😆 i agree wid u sometimes its important to make ur presences felt.. being a good DIL doesnt mean that she have to obey all orders n crap from their inlaws in especially wen shes knows that shes not wrong n has got full support from her hubby.... i think now its time for her to be a bit extrovert n express her views too 😊

Originally posted by: _charu_

After watching Star Utsav YRKKH (on the day of marriage she's telling varsha i'm confused i love naitik or not and varsha made her throw some stones in the water 😆) , i've concluded that CV's have portrayed her as plain stupid and she was always like that....apart from that one moment on SR where we got to see the " DESIRABLE" Akshara, there hasn't been any instance where she used her intelligence.....

yes may be there are many females out there who r like akshara, but not any sample like akshara , jisko freedom mila ho and she doesn't enjoy it ! 🤢 i've heard of many cases whose in laws r abusive, who face domestic violence & still remain quite (coz they have their reasons) but Akshara's in laws or her husband r NOT abusive ...two, they r not AS conservative as some gaaonwala (like balika vadhu families) , she CAN improve her plight IF she wants to, but the problem is that she does not want to bec. she feels THEY r perfect and she's imperfect ! dun know how long this self pity and blaming herself for all the mis-happenings will continue 🤢

in a way CV's r sending across a wrong message to the viewers...in order to maintain peace & unity of the family , the bahu has to make sacrifices..it never happens that way..everyone in the family is responsible for maintaining peace...it cannot happen with the efforts of just one person..........She CAN have her say IF she wants to, specially, when she has her husband's support & nobody will pounce on her..what can they do?? she's also a member of the family , she cannot be disregarded this way...one can be polite & firm without being argumentative.....that happens slowly when you express your views !!!! yes, there r many instances where Naitik wants Akshara to adjust , obviously he wud not want her to argue/fight with his family... at other times, he wants her to enjoy life their way , but she refuses ..that's what bugs me a lot.. naitik has accepted the division of the family, akshara doesn't want to move on? WHY? Instead of explaining their elders ke they did it to help them out bec. they love them, she's reiterating that it was their mistake and they must apologize ! 😲 how will Singhania's understand Naitik & Akshara's perspective when Akshara keeps on repeating "humse hi galti ho gayi" 🤢 obviously Singhania's will think THEY r right !

Originally posted by: gutky

OMG charu di ..👏 👏 👏 im in love with ur comments seriously... to be honest before joining this forum i too use to think n behave like akshi... coz that is wat i used to feel is correct .. 😕 n initially i use to wonder y u always bash at her character...but now i can relate to ur comment thoroughly... n apply it in my routine too.. believe me di im enjoying every bit of it.. 😆 i agree wid u sometimes its important to make ur presences felt.. being a good DIL doesnt mean that she have to obey all orders n crap from their inlaws in especially wen shes knows that shes not wrong n has got full support from her hubby.... i think now its time for her to be a bit extrovert n express her views too 😊

m in love wid ur posts too.......n u know this very well😉 hai naa

and thr r so many things which u have told me......i wonder tu naa batati toh mujhe pata bhi chalta yaa nahi.....bt as u told me k these things wl click to my mind whn d tym came.....bt still i thank u from d core of my heart 4 all those gyaan bhari baatein😆😃

Originally posted by: divi4u

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Awesome post di.......i agree to each and every word of ur post........n i really really adore ur posts😃

1. tht stone thingy acc. to me was d biggest stupidity ever😆😆😆....aur tht day agar stone 'pani pe naa nachta' toh wo kya karti😡😡😡

2. ye baat mai serial dekhte waqt daily khti hoon😡😡.....enjoy yaar.......nw u gt golden chance😃😃😃.....bt DJ and g3 ke khne k baad b ki u r free to do whtevr u want.....she still like.....maa kya kahegi😡.......yaar u r going out with ur hubby.....isme maa ko kya sochna😡

3. She gt a hubby like naitik.......jo uski har galat baat maan jata h.....ya Sneha issue k baad kuch jyada hi manne laga hai..........wht if uska hubby supportive naa ho......to kya ye ghar wale uska support karenge😕.......if ur hubby is wid u thn u can fight wid any kind of situation easily.......this is what i feel.....n may b right bhi hai😕😊

4. I think k itni tyms ye baat bolke k humse galti ho gayi abhi woh naitik ko bhi ye realise kara chuki hai k they r wrong😡😡😡.....otherwise naitik situation k saath compromise kar raha tha😃

Originally posted by: moonlight08

@charu di..

i sincerely and truly loved ur post.. actually i love all your posts.. i don't think i should say it again and again and bore you..😃

even @vini di.. u too were very good today.. loved your post too.. @divi di.. of course.. i cannot forget you.!! sincerely.. too good..😛

the only time i saw akshara speak up was the time she confronted naitik on their SR.. and the day when she stood up for naitik when rajshri spied on him.. i felt she was too good on these two occasions.. she was in her limits.. but at the same time.. she voiced her opinions near perfectly.. i loved akshara on these two occasions.. srsly..

of late.. she's totally into that bahu avtar.. which i find seriously very irritating.. 🤢 the other day i was watching a video of nandini's marriage.. when naitik got upset with her as she didn't give him time.. when gayatri told akshara not to take akshara's help..

i want all this to happen to akshara all over again.. because this is the only way she'll realise her husband's true worth.. naitik has done so much for akshara.. he was even willing to go away from his family only because he ddn want akshara to feel bad about all the mishappenings.. but the way she has been treating him.. itz really pathetic..

i always relate to the problems in YR.. characters to an extent are also found in real life.. but cv's hav gone a bit overboard by making akshara so innocent.. n docile that she doesn't even enjoy the freedom given to her.. instead is hell bent on digging the well for herself.. why the hell doesn't she realise ki in the end.. it's only and only naitik who's gonna support her and no one else.?? not even her poojya saasu ma..