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Posted: 14 years ago
#51
She needs to know how to respect her elders..

But i did find her entertaining and crazy..Mr.Loserrr 😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
#52
I guess women ( or for that matter even men) like Sapna should understand that "achievements" in life should not make you arrogant, loud or give you a right to demean others. Your achievements are not just yours. You are an achiever because your family, friends, circumstances supported you. In fact we should be more cordial and empathic to people who could not get what they wanted. As for example "kaam wali bai" had to take up her work since she could not get same opportunities as Miss Sapna. But she is at least working and supporting her family and not indulging in anything illegal.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Sapna has been the worst mom in the show so far. In fact she is not a mom at all because her mother in law does everything in her own house and as for her son, she has not bothered with his upbringing that is why he is such a spoilt kid - but she calls his behaviour as attitude.
the woman thinks she is miss world and has achieved a lot but she really hasn't because she is not pretty and whatever grooming she has is because of the beauty saloon's efforts. really after spending a day at the parlour and someone else's husband's money, the only difference was in her hair, and the hands she was showing off was, i am sorry for being personal, so ugly!
It is really mean that she does nothing in her house and makes her mother in law do so much, even if there is a maid for some work, cooking is a tough job too which someone of the old woman's age should not be doing,
after she started her rules in rajbeer's house, all she did was make others do things and keep finding ways to make Mr goldie spend his money.
If he doesn't do anything in his house and did sleep, why was she upset because didn't she do the same in her own house when she says that she comes back to sleep after her morning walk?
And i can't believe someone could burn rice so much as she did!
awful!
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Posted: 14 years ago
#54
they chose THAT as mrs. india?
Gee..I wonder what her final question was in the mrs india contest?
"What defines a good wife and mother"? hmmm...lol
Not to get personal and totally basing this on what I saw on TV
, but I did find Sapna has had some kind of plastic surgery on her face ...she doesnt look natural...prob a nose job
Personally I did not find her that 'pretty'
When I watch these indian drama's, my gosh those women are so beautiful...married/unmarried
And what is with the husband? he was craddling her face like a kid...are you serious man? are you raising a wife?how about raising your kid instead? Sapna is his trophy wife all the way
Then there was the other family...the husband, Goldie (what is it with these gay names? Diamond, Goldie? Soon we will have Iron, Platinum, Copper ..as names too) was the very traditional punjabi husband
One thing I wonder is about Sapna's comments..she had told Rajbir that your inlaws wouldnt love you if you didnt do all that housework....I think there is a bit of truth in that..and it hurt Rajbir..setting her off
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Posted: 14 years ago
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No one was perfect....I didn't find anyone completely good or bad....but what I felt weird about was how inflexible people are when they come across something that differs from their beliefs and practices...
I won't call Sapna absolutely good or bad. She is at an enviable position...yes, definitely !..not many women get such pampering in laws and husbands.....but if she is lucky..she doesn't have to rub it in the faces of people who are coping up with life....!...I don't think all bahus need to prove themselves at chuaka chulha to be"worthy"...but given the opportunities she has....she can definitely do something better with her time(reading, alternate career options) than sleeping away....but then its her life and her prerogative...and others are no one to dictate her how she should live..given the opportunities she has.....if she chooses to simply enjoy her luck and vile away time....its her call....others are no one to tell her that she cannot live like that, even if she can afford to.The only thing that irked me about her was the "princess" dialogue😆...otherwise she was just ok...

Rajbeer is really doing a lot from her end...and I do feel the pain in her lamenting, in her envy...in her over the top behavior towards mother in law......she is trying to be happy with what she has...and doesn't have much choice in what she doesn't have.....That is a system that has been formed that women have to serve the whole families...while forgetting themselves....and its really difficult to break away that tradition.....so why not just try to happily follow it, and get annoyed at those who dont have to...😆 😆 😆 !!

About Sapna's "fights"......I think Goldie called for those....you can't "change" someone in a day....he is a typical, traditional husband....what he forgot-was that not every woman is a typical, traditional wife..!....Though Sapna's way of getting back at him was immature and childish....but Goldie isn't too mature himself.....I found both the couples childish...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Please don't take this as bash but I am just putting forward from what I have watched in Two hours episode. I Think Sapna was very rude to Goldie's parents. If she is so good and educated as she claimed she should know that she should not scream and talk abusive word infront of Child. When Goldie was saying anything about cleaning the house or cokking matters he was not saying it aggresively he was saying things like she does not know about it so she was giving information how things get done with Rajveer as she was living Rajveer's life.

When she was taking revenge from Goldie for his behaviour then she should stick to Goldie and not misbehave with other members of family. When she asked Goldie to make Halwa or something then she asked him to serve to everybody fine till then but after that she wants him to give the dish into her hand as she could not get up and strech herself and get it?

I don't think being modern means you disrespect your adults or make your husband do all the housework and he must call you mam or your child should have attitude as if see properly she laughed when Rajveer was saying that when she calles Sapana's son he does not respond.

Rajveer is also at fault as she was saying something else infront of family and something else behind their back which Sapana did not she said whatever on peoples face rather then behind their back. For Rajveer the incident of Cupboard for her clothes when they said they don't have extra cupboard she was like no don't worry I will manage and then she said behind their back that they are not even providing her with cupboard for her clothes. She wants to try Sapana's clothes, Shoes etc regardless of Sapana's husband telling her not to do so. She was keep on comparing herself to Sapana. She must understand that Sapana and her are defferent induviduals and are from different background. She commented on clothes that we will never wear clothes like Sapana so thats her choice why would Sapana do whtever she does and Sapana did change her clothing accordingly when it required. When they met Rajveer was also saying no one knows you in Puna but the whole world knos me, well I did not know her till this episode. No body has right to Judge other people without looking at your own self.

I see Sapana was getting bashed here so I just wanted to point that no one is perfect it is just that one has to realise their own mistake also and accept it, not only showing others theirs thinking you are perfect. Also I am not judging them by outlining their mistake but just justifying that both of them are not perfect according to us but for their family they are just perfect that is the reason they staying together so who we are to say they are like this and like that when we all are not perfect.

Please don't take this personally

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