Mrs.Kinjal Dhawal-Was it a right decision by Koki?

My fellow saathiyas,kokis, raashis , and pyarey gopis ,

This is my first post in this forum. I am a silent reader and an avid viewer of SNS. (by avid , I mean to say, I watch SNS just to see Mrs.Kokila Mothi give karara replies to Mrs Cibaca Smile aunty🤢 and also in the hope GoHam gets close😍) 200 episodes and still I get to see only Gopi dreaming, Ahem speaking on his mobile and Urmi-Rasshi conspiracy. By the way, I try my best to miss some epis in between cos I know it will only drag on with music , slow motion, dialogues said twice (eg, Gopi to Kokila - Maaji , wo , mujhe kuch kehna hai . again .. maaji wo, wo , mujhe kuch kehna hai 😆)and merry go round of the cameras. 😉

But recently, the Kinjal incident made me take out my thinking cap. I hope we can have a healthy discussion on this topic. Think in terms of reality.

Kinjal - The only daughter of the Mothi parivaar and sabki laadli .

Did she fall in love with Umang because she did not get enough love from her parivaar? We know that she has got loads of care and love from her family. Then what went wrong ? How did she fall prey to his sweet words and actions? The answer is - because she has been given only love always and she expected everyone to do the same to her. She trusted Umang with her full heart. She is even ready to disbelieve her family when they inform her of Umang's fake love. She didnt think of her parivaar's honor or the future consequences of telling the lie of pregnancy or the running away from the Dhawal marriage. Ain't love blind and selfish sometimes !!! .

But was it a right decision by Kokila to marry her off to Urmila's family ? Don't you think it is a punishment to her daughter for dishonoring their family ? I can see a helpless mother in Kokila here because she is marrying her daughter to someone whom she dislikes very much. But did'nt she have any other choice ?? ( pssst cv's want to drag the show for another three years and so are not using any available choices now. Usse bhi jeena hai na 😉😉 ) .

Jokes apart .
😉

In reality, if something like this happens, do you think the girl has to be married of hurriedly to a family whom she dislikes ? Does she deserve this lifetime punishment to be the daughter in law of a very shrewd and cruel mother/daughter in law duo ? Does she deserve to be married to a soft hearted man who has no voice in the family ? Won't this bring hatred in Kinjal's heart towards her family ? (in cases where the husband's family is cruel and never changes to good )

Could'nt the parivaar give her another chance to understand their love for her ?

Think .

[ This post is not meant to offend or hurt the feelings of anyone . Just a random thought ]

Signing of now. Expecting some replies to this post .

Good evening. Take Care.

Cheers

AJ

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Welcome to the forum 🤗
i agree with you what kind of punishment is that to give to your own daughter. This is a lifetime punishment, it would have been better to send kinjal away until the whole thing had blown over, they say love is blind, but in this case deaf and dumb kinjal did not care what her family had to say, she did not see that umang was using her . I think this might change kinjal well i hope, lets wait n see what happens

hey welcome to the forum dear.....and i'll be back with my views soon..
and hope u'll hv lots of fun here

Originally posted by: maaneet2010

My fellow saathiyas,kokis, raashis , and pyarey gopis ,

This is my first post in this forum. I am a silent reader and an avid viewer of SNS. (by avid , I mean to say, I watch SNS just to see Mrs.Kokila Mothi give karara replies to Mrs Cibaca Smile aunty🤢 and also in the hope GoHam gets close😍) 200 episodes and still I get to see only Gopi dreaming, Ahem speaking on his mobile and Urmi-Rasshi conspiracy. By the way, I try my best to miss some epis in between cos I know it will only drag on with music , slow motion, dialogues said twice (eg, Gopi to Kokila - Maaji , wo , mujhe kuch kehna hai . again .. maaji wo, wo , mujhe kuch kehna hai 😆)and merry go round of the cameras. 😉

But recently, the Kinjal incident made me take out my thinking cap. I hope we can have a healthy discussion on this topic. Think in terms of reality😛.

Kinjal - The only daughter in the Mothi parivaar and sabki laadli .

Did she fall in love with Umang because she did not get enough love from her parivaar? We know that she has got loads of care and love from her family. Then what went wrong ? How did she fall prey to his sweet words and actions? The answer is - because she has been given only love always and she expected everyone to do the same to her. She trusted Umang with her full heart. She is even ready to disbelieve her family when they inform her of Umang's fake love. She didnt think of her parivaar's honor or the future consequences of telling the lie of pregnancy or the running away from the Dhawal marriage. Ain't love blind and selfish sometimes !!! .

But was it a right decision by Kokila to marry her off to Urmila's family ? Don't you think it is a punishment to her daughter for dishonoring their family ? I can see a helpless mother in Kokila here because she is marrying her daughter to someone whom she dislikes very much. But did'nt she have any other choice ?? ( pssst cv's want to drag the show for another three years and so are not using any available choices now. Usse bhi jeena hai na 😉😉 ) .

Jokes apart .
😉

In reality, if something like this happens, do you think the girl has to be married of hurriedly to a family whom she dislikes ? Does she deserve this lifetime punishment to be the daughter in law of a very shrewd and cruel mother/daughter in law duo ? Does she deserve to be married to a soft hearted man who has no voice in the family ? Won't this bring hatred in Kinjal's heart towards her family ? (in cases where the husband's family is cruel and never changes to good )

Could'nt the parivaar give her another chance to understand their love for her ?

tht is exactly wht we hav been saying and talking for the past uknown weeks....but CVs nahi sun rahe hai. surly in reality no body wud punish their chld like this...no matter how bad deeds they hav commited......watching all this is so depressing.....

Good one...I loved that Cibaca smile....👍🏼....BTW the situation had been created in such a way that Kinjal's name was spoilt, Modi family's name was spoilt, and word got out that she was pregnant....They were planning to send her to US even when Gopi gave that suggestion of marriage...But when that bua comfortably backtracked, they had to resort to this decision, Koki wanting to punish her daughter....

I personally think this punishment was too much, but i think Koki might have something in her mind other than punishment....She might be thinking that Kinjal will be the one to strongly face Urmi...I dont know ..

Kinjal did everything wrong to separate her bro and his wife and whatever she hated has come back to hit her,,,,,I have seen a few instances of whatever you give you get it back...Hope to see that life takes a turn here for Kinjal...And what more, we dont know what runs in the mind of these CV's ......

Hi AJ

a very warm welcome to this forum and i am sure you'll have a gr8 time....
keep posting

as per Kinjal, no, there was no need to marry her off to Dhawal, but Urmi would have ruined her beyond redemption, because that is Urmi's character
also, as per plot they have to bring gohem together soon and they can't do it when RaUr is playing secret games with everyone... i am believing that change is due in Kinjal...
also SNS wants to show that Gawar is not a ailment of the person but the society.... so if we want fairness then SNS will have so many actors that we will forget our own family's names....

so in real world, Kinjal will get a chance again if she had same circumstances of loving family, with consequentially wealthy background... and no RaUr kind of relatives....

but in reel world where they have a concept of "Gawaar's are also worthy of love from the upper crust", they will give us a stricter view point...