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Posted: 19 years ago
#41
Sorry, this is in continuation of the above poost...i accidentally pressed the "post reply" button before typing out the whole thing...

OK, Hansini....about SS's being a chipkoo....it looks disgusting and that is a fact. As i said above, they haev a HOME so if SS wants to show her love for her hubby, she can do it much more effectively there 😉 , instead of constantly clnging to him in public and not even giving him space to hang out with his friends.What if Gauri Khan...heck, even gauri pradhan behaved like that around their hubbies? What if Bips got insecure about John's steamy scnes with Lara Dutta and tara Sharma?? That would put an end to all professionalism. 🤢 And SS has crossed the limits this time--she deliberately came on JJKN just to keep an eye on AA 😡 --and this fact has come to us from the unit of JJKN courtesy Tabs.

Mona "falling on AA" in the AJK....yeah, i afmit she got a little carried away there BUT it did not look indecent or even flirtatious....remember she was helpless with laughter at the time and HAD to hold on to someone for support. Moreover, would you have called it flirting if Rakshanda or Maninee or any of AA"s female costars had behved similarly? You would prob have said--"oh so cuuute....they are such great friends!!"

When we talk of something brewing between MandA, we are going by MONTHS of observation and analysis of thie interviews and public appearances. Moreover, tabs got it from the unit members themselves. You may choose to believe that or not, but Tabs is an old and respected member and most of us here have full faith in her.

As regards KO--she and him were not eating from the same plate--she has said that it was her own plate and KO merely served her. And what is wrong with holding your friend's arm at a party? If that is flirting, then we must be living in the 19th century! 😕
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Posted: 19 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: hansini_78

i fail to understand the thinking of some of the people here....
when a man flirts with his wife,they find it disgusting but when he flirts with his co-star,they are very pleased.

firstly , what sanda did on SPA was NOT flirting...flirting is defined as

  1. playful behavior intended to arouse sexual interest
  2. to behave as if sexually attracted to someone, often in a way that is not meant seriously
  3. talk or behave amorously, without serious intentions

...what AA did on SPA was something which cannot be described and which was NOT flirting......I have never before seen anyone act like that.....many felt that it was exaggerated and blown out of proportion but I still stand by what I said...it was totally lewd and so carnivorous🤢...he almost ate up that woman.....now if it was not ss and it was mona, our reaction would have been the same....yes, its hard to believe but we would have reacted in the same way (ermm..perhaps no..in a more terrible manner as SS happens to atleast be his wife whereas mona is just his co-star...)...he went totally overboard and what was more freakign was the he said that he wanted to join Star...now he as an actor is entitled to think in whichever manner he wants to but as an audience, we have to right to express what we felt!!!!and look, these are just opinions..and it is allright when someone contradicts our opinion but when someone says that tis wrong, is when we have to give a 20 page reply as someone would say😆

when a wife clings on to her husband,she is called a chipkoo but when Mona pulled AA cheeks at the AJK and kept on falling all over him,it was considered very cute.
Flirting with a married man is decent and classy but flirting with ur own hubby is cheap.

NO..mona does not act like shilpa.....if shilpa just pulls his cheek and falls over, no one will complain..but she does unimaginable stuff😕.......sanda do not flirt..they make out as though they have just started dating......there is a difference....and if only sandA frivolously flirt in front of the camera, no one would mind....repeating myself again, they go too overboard..MandA do it sweetly(albeit that is wrong and no one approves it here) but sanda go overboard....

Also i dont know from where they have got the idea that something is brewing between mona and aa when aa when not a word about it has come in the media as yet...talk about being carried away by ur ima gination and see things which dont exist.....

well, there was a media article posted yesterday where for the first time, it was said that maby somethign might be brewing.....and Tabs has confirmed that TnD keep the media away from everything.......and mind you, the media just shows us what it wants to..there are many more things about which we have absolutely no idea....and its not our imagination...this speculation is the result of months of observation, months of delving deeply into this matter(who really hates gossip😆😆) ...most of the ones who talk about the manda speculation are the ones who have been watching JJKN from day 1 and we have seen how the behaviour has slowly changed from one of colleague cordiality to one of frivolous flirting.....mandA were not like this before..even when janda started dating in june 2005, no one ever speculated that MandA has feelings as those scenes(the car scene, the first official date, the proposing, the amritsar scenes and the infamous studio scene) were enacted and we knew that they were acting..but ever ince the goa episode, AA seems to be completely besotted by mona and many have observed it.....if you have closely watched, MandA have become all the more carefree and comfortable...for a simple example, even the way they laugh has changed..now AA seems to be more natural and more realistic..and everyoen agrees that the MandA scenes have become more realistic then ever......see, its not just our imagination😛

If u think that simple flirting means falling in love,then why do u deny Mona relations with KO....afterall mona allowed KO to hold her arms and ate with him from the same plate at aparty....doesnt that come under the act of flirting.....she is not a "abla nari" that a man can force himself upon her against her wish and neither is she so naive and immature that a man can take advantage of her.

i never said that mona and KO arent dating😉..all the others did but i didnt😃.and i agree with you here...previously, in the same thread i said that if the speculation is true, both are equally responsible...😊

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Posted: 19 years ago
#43
how the hell can i be economical with words 😆 😭
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Posted: 19 years ago
#44
😊

Originally posted by: Buffie

well guys..why are we blaming AA alone......see, if the manda speculation is indeed true and if manda are hitting hard on each other(as someone also tells me that mona hits harder on AA😕...yes, i am doubtful about it but this was also said), then both are equally responsible.....like if a woman hates it, all it takes is 5 seconds to say"look, this is not going to work.SDo lets stop everythign and be professionals".....and i relly dont think that AA is that bad a flirt that he will pursue and shamelessly continue to hit on her if she doesnt like it........and mona too reciprocates....the AJK video was a clear indication.....and when AA won the tellies, mona hugged him but he never hugged her back....(and thsi was certainly because SS was watching him)....and the way manda hug on JJKn too looks really natural.....I used to wonder that you now, wouldnt they be feeling uncomfortable but no!!....Neither of them look uncomfortable ......and MS hugged AA at a party..this clearly shows that she too is equally involved......it takes two handa to clap!!😉😊....now lets look at this angle....mona is single and ambitious..she certainly DOES NOT WANT TO COMMIT....she has high aspirations and wants to carve out a career in movies after JJKN ends......thus her hooking with with MM or anyone for that matter is not on her cards.....AA is a married man......and frivolously flirting will not harm her in any way!!!!....i mean, the rumours will never be up in the media as tnD are safeguarding MandA as well as their show....😃.....and i am very much sure that there is something brewing between mandA as its blatantly obvious that they are more then friends but never accept it...plus i also think that this intimacy is a latest development as in all the previous interviews, apu used to mention only parmeet and RK as his close friends but in the latest mid day interview, he also said that i am very close to mona........so both are equally responsible

you are right, Buffie--it takes two hands to clap. And if MandA are really involved, then they are both responsible. But not equally.

At the end of the day, AA is a married man who can come home to his wife and let her chipkofy to him; he can enjoy his life, forgetting the woman who may perhaps have started to have feelings for him.

Ok, let me go back a little---from what i can infer , Mona from the beginning had something of a crush on AA; but it was nothing serious. AA too got very fond of her eventually; but again, it wasn't serious.

The real story started nearabouts the makeover--or a couple of months before when the octaviour and V-day scnes were shot---AA got attracted to MS--quite naturally considering they had such intimate scnes--and MS must have felt it but did not react.

Then came the makeover--and seeing the gorgeous Mona, AA got all besotted and perhaps got carreid away in paying her compliments---plus it was followed by Than ja and Amritsar and the studio ahem-ahem so thier mutual fascination reached dizzying heights.

Now after 5 aug, MS must have taken stock of the situation and kicked herself--"what was i thinking of??"and tried to get back to normal. She succeeded for some time--till Goa. In those scenes, one can clearly see MS holding back while AA is in his element. and so things escalated.

Up till this point, i do not justify Mona's actions. If she did flirt with AA (as is clear from some scnes), she should have known that it was something that had to end one day. Prob she did not even think that she was serious; maybe she thought"once JJKN ends, we will both remain friends and then our time together will be a sweet, funny memory."

Now with SS"s entry, it became clear to MS that things had got a little out of control; she realised that letting go of AA would be more difficult than she had anticipated ; so she tried to draw back BUT AA did not let her do so---all the shoulder-holding, arms caressing, the attention-seeking----as if he did not want to let go of her. I am sure AA knew the REAL reason why SS wanted to come on JJKN--and here i cannot justify him.

If he is NOT serious about Mona, he should stop giving her signals that he IS; he owes it to BOTH SS and MS coz if he truly loves SS, he will not want to worry her further.

On the other hand, if he is really serious about Mona, then all these gesutres of longing for his wife in public are just a facade. If he "loves " MS he should not mislead SS into thinking that all is hunky-dory, coz the day she learns the truth she will go to pieces.😭

But the way he is behaving, it seems that he wants to please both! By clinging to MS while shooting, he indirectly conveys that she is special to him; by giving an int that he looks forward to working with SS in JJKN, and by that PDA at the SPA, he keeps SS happy.😕

I admit i went a little overboard when calling AA a "casanova"; to be sure, he is not one, but he is not behaving like a firm, decisive man either. High time that he took a stand and came to terms with what exactly are his feelings for both SS and MS.

And Buffie, it is certainly not "frivolous flirting" from Mona's side---i am sure that she has gone in deeper than she expected. I am not saying that she is completely blameless; all i say is, that as i woman i can understand what she is going through and AA should also understand this if he cares for her even a wee bit. If he stops behaving besottedly, MS will get the message. But right now he is ending out contradictory signals that do not hepl matters at all.

Ok, now can you tell me WHO told you that Mona hits harder on AA? If you can't put it up here, PM me---i want the details!!😊

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Posted: 19 years ago
#45
Friends, please chill yaar....let's not talk personally just for the starts/actors we don't even know. Really, don't you think we know and talk with real people here whereas all we know about these actors is that we see them on TV- acting. Chill guys! 😛
Edited by sowmyaa - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
#46

firstly, let me make it clear...I dont like SS...I dont like mona either as i think she has alot of nakhree as she keeps contradicting herself and she exaggerates many many things like"i have lost so much weight that no one can recognize me" and "apoorva praises my new look so much that i feel embarrassed"...yes, these statements are really exaggerated ones.....i am not at all a fan of mona that i want sanda to split.....

now coming to SS, it woudl be difficult for you to believe but i once liked her when i first saw her in kya haadsaa kya haqueekat..she played divya/shwetha and i loved her..she looked very beautiful as she had those long black tresses then and she looked divine.. 😊 ....RK played the sorceress and i hated her😡..this was ofcourse when i was in the 10th grade 😊 ...


then my friend told me that SandA are married and i felt happy for them👏......I have always believed that AA is really charming(yes, even fter the SPA fiasco 😆 ) and that SS is a very pretty woman....but after reading all the interviews, seeing the way she acst with her husband and the way she brags, i dislike her....



Originally posted by: Blyton


And Buffie, it is certainly not "frivolous flirting" from Mona's side---i am sure that she has gone in deeper than she expected. I am not saying that she is completely blameless; all i say is, that as i woman i can understand what she is going through and AA should also understand this if he cares for her even a wee bit. If he stops behaving besottedly, MS will get the message. But right now he is ending out contradictory signals that do not



NO...i disagree..mona is a very smart woman and as hansini said, she is no abla nari...and i think that if she really does not like it, all it requires is one single statement that "look, lets put an end to this"...she is a modern educated girl and if she allowes AA to get the better of her, that just speaks about her moral rectitude and integrity and moreover, her will power and strength of character...i HATE TO SPEAK WITH SO MUCH OF DISRESPECT BUT THIS I JUST MY OPINION IF mona is really succumbing to AA's seduction🤢....


Originally posted by: hansini


i dont wish to start a debate here....u all can keep on speculating and believing what u like....i maybe a newbie bi have read all the posts here and know how u people have come to this conclusion ...u believe that whatever aa and mona enact on screen has some truth to it but i believe it is pure acting....other than that, do u have some other proof?...dont tell me to beliave wat tablet sais coz i dont and u cant expect me to believe what a person says when i dont know her beyond her id.....i am entitled to my opinion ...if there was anything like that it must have come out in the media by now



ouch!!!!that was a tad rude this is exactly how fights start...look ,lets respect each other's opinions...as as bindi ben 😆 says, WHO REALLY KNOWS THE REAL PICTURE...i have even heard that it is mona who hits hard and not AA..and i have even heard that it is A who hits hard 😆 ..who really knows the truth...and everyone are entitled to believe what they want so lets respect it 😊 ..and dude, i told you that there was a media article..infact three..wait, i'll give you the links

Originally posted by: Hansini

about ss i dont want to say anything coz if she is annoying and irri tating thats her husband prob... or the people arond her why shud i raise my BP over her behaviour when i dont have anything to do with her.....if she gets on my nerves i can switch off my t.v and not watch her...thats all.....as long that she is playing a character well, she is ok with me....why shud i be bothered about how she behaves off screen......i have better things to do....



yes, so why why raise your BP ver what blyton and I said... 😆😆 .i mean, it doesnt really affect MandA or SandA..does it???why dont you respect what blyton had to say..why are you hell bent on proving that there is nothing brewing between mandA......i mean, i am no one to say that you shouldnt but then when you say things like why should i care about sanda,then why care about what we said..confusing wasnt it😆..even i did not understand what the previous sentence of mine meant😕😃 me neither a MandA fan nor a sandA fan..heck, after watcheing SPA, i am nto even an AA fan..I watch jjkn as i have watched it from day 1 and i love janda 😳 and i come here for my friends and for some scoops(i love gossip 😛 ...no qualms in accepting that 😳 )

Originally posted by: Hansini

u say that u dont want sanda marriage to break but tell me honestly didnt u feel happy about news of manda closeness from tablet(of course i dont believe it..)..what do u want then that a man shud not leave his wife but have feelings for someone else and remain sad forever



well, ok, let me answer this question...I was shocked that AA actually has such bad tastes 😆 ...first SS(who is a banshee and looks really weird in many angles) and then mona(who is not all the gorgeous).....that was exactly what sheena and me felt😃...i didnt feel happy or sad because as i said, i neither like mona nor SS that i loved it that he was into mona/ hated it that he was cheating on SS..and you can believe tabs or not..that is your wish but tabs is one of the oldest members, all her close friends know that she has been in touch with DJ's for a long time as tabs kept us updated about all the aug 9th fiasco and all that....we trust her completely and i dont think she will stoop so low so as to fabricate stuff about manda just for some recognition...as what wuld tabs get out of all of this???.....I mean, why would she have to spread rumours about mandA...she has nothing for/against AA or MS that she starts spreading rumours....

OK..WHATEVER IS SAID IN THE FOLLOWING PARAGRAPH IS ONLY IF AND ONLY IF THE manda are really serious(which none of us know if they are , or not)

to AA

1)if he has true feelings for mona(meaning if her really LOVES her😕), then dont keep SS in foolsparadise

2)if he is just playing around, stop it RIGHT NOW as he has no rights to play with MS 😡
3)if he really loves SS, stop flirting with MS for fun and time pass 😡 which makes SS insecure

TO MS
woman, dont be a homewrecker....dont even give into frivolous flirting.....and puhlease dont use AA just for time pass😡...if he is doing so, tell him to stop!!dont make your lives a hindi masala movie ..if you dont want to commit to anyone, fine...dont use AA for fun just because he is married and you wouldnt have to commit to him

TO SS
woman, communication is the best👏....dont use antics as you used at SPA...please mature and confront your hubby instead of clinging on and getting insecure...you have all the rights to save your marriage ..communicate😊

dont mind people😳...and whatever i wrote in the above paragraph is BS as i dont think manda are serious..heck, I say why even flirt for timepass..that is wrong!!both of the manda's are guilty 😡




Edited by Buffie - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
#47
well, should i update today 😆 ..never in my wildest dreams have i ever thought that an update thread would trun into a manda mystery thread and then into a battleground 😆
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Posted: 19 years ago
#48
buffie...here take sardad ki goli... 😆
dont waste time on AA SS Mona or anybody.... 😆

just love armaan suri... 😳
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Posted: 19 years ago
#49

Originally posted by: a4j4ever

buffie...here take sardad ki goli... 😆
dont waste time on AA SS Mona or anybody.... 😆

just love armaan suri... 😳

who has sardard...as i said, i love gossiping😛😛😛....yeah, it is wrong but me no saint mahaan purab😃..me the bitchy buffie😃😆

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