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Originally posted by: Buffie
well guys..why are we blaming AA alone......see, if the manda speculation is indeed true and if manda are hitting hard on each other(as someone also tells me that mona hits harder on AA😕...yes, i am doubtful about it but this was also said), then both are equally responsible.....like if a woman hates it, all it takes is 5 seconds to say"look, this is not going to work.SDo lets stop everythign and be professionals".....and i relly dont think that AA is that bad a flirt that he will pursue and shamelessly continue to hit on her if she doesnt like it........and mona too reciprocates....the AJK video was a clear indication.....and when AA won the tellies, mona hugged him but he never hugged her back....(and thsi was certainly because SS was watching him)....and the way manda hug on JJKn too looks really natural.....I used to wonder that you now, wouldnt they be feeling uncomfortable but no!!....Neither of them look uncomfortable ......and MS hugged AA at a party..this clearly shows that she too is equally involved......it takes two handa to clap!!😉😊....now lets look at this angle....mona is single and ambitious..she certainly DOES NOT WANT TO COMMIT....she has high aspirations and wants to carve out a career in movies after JJKN ends......thus her hooking with with MM or anyone for that matter is not on her cards.....AA is a married man......and frivolously flirting will not harm her in any way!!!!....i mean, the rumours will never be up in the media as tnD are safeguarding MandA as well as their show....😃.....and i am very much sure that there is something brewing between mandA as its blatantly obvious that they are more then friends but never accept it...plus i also think that this intimacy is a latest development as in all the previous interviews, apu used to mention only parmeet and RK as his close friends but in the latest mid day interview, he also said that i am very close to mona........so both are equally responsible
you are right, Buffie--it takes two hands to clap. And if MandA are really involved, then they are both responsible. But not equally.
At the end of the day, AA is a married man who can come home to his wife and let her chipkofy to him; he can enjoy his life, forgetting the woman who may perhaps have started to have feelings for him.
Ok, let me go back a little---from what i can infer , Mona from the beginning had something of a crush on AA; but it was nothing serious. AA too got very fond of her eventually; but again, it wasn't serious.
The real story started nearabouts the makeover--or a couple of months before when the octaviour and V-day scnes were shot---AA got attracted to MS--quite naturally considering they had such intimate scnes--and MS must have felt it but did not react.
Then came the makeover--and seeing the gorgeous Mona, AA got all besotted and perhaps got carreid away in paying her compliments---plus it was followed by Than ja and Amritsar and the studio ahem-ahem so thier mutual fascination reached dizzying heights.
Now after 5 aug, MS must have taken stock of the situation and kicked herself--"what was i thinking of??"and tried to get back to normal. She succeeded for some time--till Goa. In those scenes, one can clearly see MS holding back while AA is in his element. and so things escalated.
Up till this point, i do not justify Mona's actions. If she did flirt with AA (as is clear from some scnes), she should have known that it was something that had to end one day. Prob she did not even think that she was serious; maybe she thought"once JJKN ends, we will both remain friends and then our time together will be a sweet, funny memory."
Now with SS"s entry, it became clear to MS that things had got a little out of control; she realised that letting go of AA would be more difficult than she had anticipated ; so she tried to draw back BUT AA did not let her do so---all the shoulder-holding, arms caressing, the attention-seeking----as if he did not want to let go of her. I am sure AA knew the REAL reason why SS wanted to come on JJKN--and here i cannot justify him.
If he is NOT serious about Mona, he should stop giving her signals that he IS; he owes it to BOTH SS and MS coz if he truly loves SS, he will not want to worry her further.
On the other hand, if he is really serious about Mona, then all these gesutres of longing for his wife in public are just a facade. If he "loves " MS he should not mislead SS into thinking that all is hunky-dory, coz the day she learns the truth she will go to pieces.😭
But the way he is behaving, it seems that he wants to please both! By clinging to MS while shooting, he indirectly conveys that she is special to him; by giving an int that he looks forward to working with SS in JJKN, and by that PDA at the SPA, he keeps SS happy.😕
I admit i went a little overboard when calling AA a "casanova"; to be sure, he is not one, but he is not behaving like a firm, decisive man either. High time that he took a stand and came to terms with what exactly are his feelings for both SS and MS.
And Buffie, it is certainly not "frivolous flirting" from Mona's side---i am sure that she has gone in deeper than she expected. I am not saying that she is completely blameless; all i say is, that as i woman i can understand what she is going through and AA should also understand this if he cares for her even a wee bit. If he stops behaving besottedly, MS will get the message. But right now he is ending out contradictory signals that do not hepl matters at all.
Ok, now can you tell me WHO told you that Mona hits harder on AA? If you can't put it up here, PM me---i want the details!!😊