The Varied Forms of Love!!!!! - Page 3

Originally posted by: vista90pro

Hey Shwetha😊,

Very good post👏 Agree with you on the contrasts between Arpi's and BJ's love........the two could not be more different. Arpi is all about self-lessness and concern, while BJ's love is possessive. I would go so far as to say that were Avi to reciprocate BJ's love (horror of horrors😛) and were Arpi to know, then she would gladly have given up her claim on him and left the two of them alone😡.....she is only concerned about his well-being and happiness. BJ on the other hand, wants him as a possession.

To Dreamy's point, I would say that in a broad context, BJ may be no less revolutionary then Ms.Greer's ideas😆......to that extent, Shwetha's quote might work. BJ has challenged the intensely male dominated society and has created an indisputed leadership position for herself that few can challenge. Her needs are definitely clear and present, and I suspect that Panditji might be somehow involved in satisfying them periodically😉.........his comfortable proximity to her at all hours of the day and night seems to suggest it. He has been known to be in her bedroom late at night Could be one of Amma's peeves with BJ

Thanks Shwetha once again for an engaging post👏

Vista

Originally posted by: _nandini

Hey Shwetha, Very well written 👏

I liked these lines a lot : If you notice bahuji always wants "To be loved" She doesn't understand "Loving". Her love for Avdesh is so negative 😡thats why she never feels happy or is happy. Whereas Arpita is so much in love with Avdesh that she is happy to be with him and tries to do the best for him because "she is loving him and loving everything around her"👏

The comparisons made by u are very vivid. Both the women thinking of the same man. One concerned abt saving him n his life. The other concerned abt having him for her selfish desires.

Originally posted by: prash_t

Hiya shwetha i was waiting for ur post... beautifully presented by you.....

BJ and arpita both are in love with Avdhesh..but are different in their thinking.

ones is selfish whereas other is selfless....

they both are opposite ...

thnks shwetha..

i agree with you

Originally posted by: chatterbox

hi shwetha

topic totally \veered off from morning so cudnt respond bck to u

i dont know anything abt literature so cant really say abt ur or dreamy quotes.

its the context of the entire matter i understand

and yes both love the same man but the love is different here

selfish love and selfless love

and vista

i missed ur post here

pandit proximtiy of bahuji

hahahahahahahaha here we go again

hahahaa