The Varied Forms of Love!!!!! - Page 2

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hey Shwetha😊,
Very good post👏 Agree with you on the contrasts between Arpi's and BJ's love........the two could not be more different. Arpi is all about self-lessness and concern, while BJ's love is possessive. I would go so far as to say that were Avi to reciprocate BJ's love (horror of horrors😛) and were Arpi to know, then she would gladly have given up her claim on him and left the two of them alone😡.....she is only concerned about his well-being and happiness. BJ on the other hand, wants him as a possession.

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

Hi Shwetha,

Also, I am not sure G. Greer quotes suits her, to my mind Geer will always be the writer of the 'Female Enuch'...!!😃😆....Bhauji maybe strong, but she has needs too...one of them is to be looked after by a man, to have a lover and experience all that entails.....but circumstances made her hard and so she finds it better to communicate abrasivley and mannishly...but the need is there, hidden...only coming out when she thinks she is unobserved.....
You are probably wishing I had never responded now...😉😆😆
TC

To Dreamy's point, I would say that in a broad context, BJ may be no less revolutionary then Ms.Greer's ideas😆......to that extent, Shwetha's quote might work. BJ has challenged the intensely male dominated society and has created an indisputed leadership position for herself that few can challenge. Her needs are definitely clear and present, and I suspect that Panditji might be somehow involved in satisfying them periodically😉.........his comfortable proximity to her at all hours of the day and night seems to suggest it. He has been known to be in her bedroom late at night Could be one of Amma's peeves with BJ
Thanks Shwetha once again for an engaging post👏
Vista
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hey Shwetha, Very well written 👏
I liked these lines a lot : If you notice bahuji always wants "To be loved" She doesn't understand "Loving". Her love for Avdesh is so negative 😡thats why she never feels happy or is happy. Whereas Arpita is so much in love with Avdesh that she is happy to be with him and tries to do the best for him because "she is loving him and loving everything around her"Clap
The comparisons made by u are very vivid. Both the women thinking of the same man. One concerned abt saving him n his life. The other concerned abt having him for her selfish desires.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hiya shwetha i was waiting for ur post... beautifully presented by you.....
BJ and arpita both are in love with Avdhesh..but are different in their thinking.
ones is selfish whereas other is selfless....
they both are opposite ...
thnks shwetha..
i agree with you
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Posted: 14 years ago
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hi shwetha

topic totally \veered off from morning so cudnt respond bck to u

i dont know anything abt literature so cant really say abt ur or dreamy quotes.

its the context of the entire matter i understand

and yes both love the same man but the love is different here

selfish love and selfless love

and vista

i missed ur post here

pandit proximtiy of bahuji

hahahahahahahaha here we go again

hahahaa
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: chatterbox

hi shwetha

topic totally \veered off from morning so cudnt respond bck to u

i dont know anything abt literature so cant really say abt ur or dreamy quotes.

its the context of the entire matter i understand

and yes both love the same man but the love is different here

selfish love and selfless love

and vista

i missed ur post here

pandit proximtiy of bahuji

hahahahahahahaha here we go again

hahahaa

Hey CB,
Ha ha indeed............I have long suspected this and had been meaning to make a post on this angle of BJ-Panditji relationship...........I know there has been some talk of him being her boyfriend...............I seriously suspect the physical relationship, even if there is no emotional quotient to it, at least on part of BJ.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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hehe pandit being a chamcha and close aide is all that i see

bt this was hilarious


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: chatterbox

hehe pandit being a chamcha and close aide is all that i see

bt this was hilarious


😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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wow...we have great writers here...shwetha di...firstly congo to u for writing it down so beautifully 👏👏 i agree with wat u've said...Arpi n Bhauji are poles apart in their characters n it's Arpi who knows the true meaning of love!!! i've no words to explain how beautifully this has been expressed!!!

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: -sia-

wow...we have great writers here...shwetha di...firstly congo to u for writing it down so beautifully 👏👏 i agree with wat u've said...Arpi n Bhauji are poles apart in their characters n it's Arpi who knows the true meaning of love!!! i've no words to explain how beautifully this has been expressed!!!



Thank you so much Sia for liking and appreciating my writing...Writing had been my hobby since school days but it was limited to myself and now I have come out of it to present my thoughts here to you all on our forum😃😊😊😊😊 Will write more in future too😉
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: yoga23priya

swetha......i love it soo much.....me too agree with dreamy di.....
thanks for writting.....



You are Weilcome priya..😆😆 Plus thanks for liking and reading my post😊😊

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