ShaNak:Have come a long way since.. - Page 2

Originally posted by: dr.dsr

For me, the one thing about ShaNak's journey thus far, that immediately came to mind while reading ur post was something Sunil had told Shaan during one of their earlier heart-to-heart talks, loosely translated as "Khanak is different 'cos she's a woman who not just knows that her victory also implies Shaan's victory, but also believes that in Shaan's defeat lies her defeat, too!!"

Khanak sees a tired Shaan shaan sleeping on sofa with shoes on....she gives a disapproving nod on the shoes and then instead of giving a smart comment or waking him ...she does something comforting..tries to remove the shoes...Shaan was taken abck coz he felt she had done that with the patni duty thing in mind....

Khanaks "yeh gaon ke baat nahi hai " ...this has nothing to do with her being from village or the thought process about wife's duty that villagers harp on ..I guess that line indicated tht for me...

She just says when u can work hard cant I do something to make things to give u comfort ..I guess it was something like...ek patni hone ke nate kya mein unhe itna araam nahin de sakti ...

During the time she refused to ring the bell - that time those two were free of all hinderance and in seventh heaven...During kuch khas hai..when she dint love Shaan ...for her he was good but kamchor and swarthi..Now both are secured of the love for each other and too many things happening in their life ...his fathers disapproval,friends who hide things,audtion etc...

I know many people dont open anyones shoes ...But I have also seen people do that for their loved ones when someone is completely washed out and on bed with shoes..girls ,guys both... Can that action be called demeaning ? or did such consideration make Khanak any less ?

Question : Dont we feel down or low or need for comfort ...or the urge to comfort someone ..or is Life always about being right and wrong ,weak and strong ?