Originally posted by: shashikalasm
Dear Anu,
I love your posts. After watching episode, i wait for ur written updates.I donot know why you hate AS. poor lady what she can do yaar.DP was bad when he was young, after his wife died do you think he will go and handover the kid to SP and his wife?? AS will tel to young kala (8 years)
mera beta ayega tab we will burt crackers etc..she had love for young dutta
Anu : Dont get me wrong yaar and I know there are some ppl who like her and are satisfied by her acts but I aint one of them. The bold and underlined part and thats exactlythe problem.If she cant who can, is my Q. Motherhood is the most sanest thing on the face of the earth and its said that God created Mother because he cant be in all places all the time. I believe in it and I fail to see AS in any good light. You said DP wouldnt have handed over the kid to AS or SP right. But then how come she took care of the same kid for 25 yrs and DP never asked him back?. U might say that he was scared because he killed his bro and thought he might be caught but then how hard is it for a person like DP to plunge into someone's house and grab a 4 yr old kid? That too when the man of the house is dead and there is only one woman with three little kids?. Its ur POV that she wouldnt have gotten hold of kid and its my POV that she never asked for it either.
Loosing her husband infront of her eyes.. and she was preglent at tht time.
just imagine how she would have felt. DP ran away after killing SP. She took care of Dutta and considered him as son.Imagine how much she might have struggled having 4 kids and she was suppose to feed them and bring up them. So giving education is highly imppossible.
Anu : So is it justified that she got a 10 yr old Dutta to work and feed the family of five?. So in that case why didnt she ask Kala the eldest of all to go work as a servant in some house and earn money?. Also she was pretty young when her husband died , like early thirties may be. So how come within 6 yrs she couldnt handle the house anymore and had to get such a young kid to work?. Whatever u might say, a 10 yr old kid working for feeding a family is quite heartwrenching and I hate his parents for shoving up such a life on him. Its not just abt Dutta, Its a very common thing in most parts of India. I have seen quite a few documentaries on such ppl and I have seen so many such kids while going to and fro to my college in hyd where my bus had to pass thru couple of slums enroute. Whenever I have seen them the only thing that gets to my mind is if parents cant give a proper life for kids, paida kyun karthe hain?. My POV is not just abt LTL. Its in general. If everyone thinks that they are helpless and have no other go but allow chote chote bachein to work then there is no need for the law curbing child labor. Every child has a story behind them and every house that sends such a child for work has their own PITY story behind them. Its upto us what we see. I dont see any good in such a thing. I wouldve adored AS if she took upon herself to feed her kids and got them educated. What she did is unforgivable.
As a Son, wht's wrong if Dutta works at early age and feed his family.it is duty right? As a mother, she always wanted her kids to settle down.Kala and Leela got married (it wasnot a grand marriage- in supriya's episode leela mentions about wedding card)
Anu : Same as above.
When Dutta (20 years old) tels AS, he is in love with Seema, She asks him to settle down in life (buy two bedroom house etc.) What AS can do if Seema betrayed him??? He became DON. how much control can AS have over Dutta's actions??She would try to convince him, but Dutta had already entered DON's world. It was difficult for him to come back. AS was always happy with what ever he was getting, she never asked him earn more money.
Anu : The first day he might have come back after killing a person if AS told him that its not the way she wants him to go about and its not the money she is gonna take up, what would Dutta do?. Might have left the home ?. Or might have stopped going any further isnt it?. As per Dutta's character the first thing is next to impossible. He himsefl said many a times that he never rejected ASs pleas. Thats exactly the pt, if Dutta obeyed ASs orders so much, why couldnt she order him to stop?. If she did why wouldnt we be shown that?. I want someone to show that to me and let me know what happened after that?.
Bold part, 😆, thats the fun part isnt it. She never asked him to earn more money but she didnt back off from taking that MORE MONEY either. There's a huge difference in what ur thinking at that line and what iam thinking.
When Dutta had established buissness, her daughters came to stay with her.
May be Dutta invited them to stay in PN. wht's wrong in tht ??
Anu : Nothing wrong in that , thats abt the three women and this post isnt abt them.
AS convinced Dutta to marry Supriya.. because she wanted him to settle in life
if Supriya elopes what AS can do ??
Anu :I didnt mention anything abt Sups elopement and ASs supposed reaction in my post so Iam not going to reply to this one too. The damage by AS is long done and Sups came much later into Dutta's life. So lets not go there.
What AS can do if KALA is evil?? her daughters are evil??
Anu : She according to one of the episodes knew that Kala hates Dutta , but never were we shown what she did to get Kala rid of such ideas. See Kala grew up hating Dutta. AS according to u too is a failure there. She couldnt get even one of her kids right 😆. That speaks a lot abt her.
She shares more rapo with Dutta rather than her daughters. She will not
stop kala when she leaves PN.
Nakku's marriage, AS leaves the decision to Nakku (to tel the truth to Dutta or not),
Anu : When was that? 😲
Blaming Nakku, it is quiet natural yaar, every mother-in-law blames their DIL
Anu : 😆Ya sure why not 😳 . If u want to believe that so u can, but that aint gonna change the truth that she is a selfish woman who sees nothing beyond her self.
AS is a caring and loving mother, she accepted Madhu, she loves bajji.
Anu : Yup her love for Baaji was quite evident when he asked if he supports them and she gave a nice LOOK and walked off 😆. Love should be in actions not words . AS told many a times that she treats Baaji as her son but when the moment came she showed her back. This is what one calls Back Stabbing. Also what a caring mother she was, when Anna's men attacked Dutta at the temple, all she did was sob in one corner while N-B were offering their lives in return for Dutta's 😛. Now thats one amazing mother we have .
If AS was EVIL, then no need of having KALA in the show.
Anu : Is that the reason she cant be evil? 😲
AS is not BH, AS is not BH. Please donot suspect Mother's LOVE. DP is the rootcause for all the issues, He spoiled AS, her 3 daughters and Dutta's Life. If DP killed SP, ran away, married
some other lady, had kids (Madhu) 🤢. But AS, she was struggling to bring up 4 kids. So,, we blame her. DP is good since he had cancer and when became old, before dieing he wanted to
ask apology and ask AS to adopt MADHU. 😡 So over all DP is good, AS is bad
Anu : DP was bad and he accepted it. Thats why none are bothered abt him. But AS acts good but is seemingly very bad and thats the issue. I would live in peace if she accepted her mistakes like Babi did. She putting up a mahaan act isnt doing any good.
Dutta may enjoy his life for sme time,kala is not happy since she is always busy in spoiling Dutta's happiness. Leela's husband is cheating her. Roops - donot know what's her future. I am sure FOR FOOD ET's are not dependent on DUTTA. They can still survive with out dutta, they may not have wealthy life.
Anu : After 30 yrs of srtuggle, 20 yrs of working hard Dutta sure needs a break and life for himself.
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