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Her words seem hollow, her actions dubious, her tears ridiculous and her reasons utter nonsense and thats what AS is for me. If there is any character in this show I cant stand , it has to be AS. I know hate is a strong word but her very sight gets me to passionately hate her like Kala does Dutta or more. I find other than she being "mother" nothing on her side. None of her actions ever got me to love her nor her tears got me to pity her. Instead the more I see her the more I hate her these days and now it got me to an altogether different level. All I have been thinking abt while driving home an hour back was AS. Imagine that now 😆. I feel its high time I let my frustration out so that I can have a good night sleep and hence this post 😆.
AS aka Aai Sahib . Sahib for her kids too , how wonderful 😛. Naam mein kya rakha hai nahin? 😆. Anyways this woman 25 yrs back got the biggest trauma of her life, she lost her husband in a tussle between him and his younger bro. She witnessed it and she went thru the loss , boldly and not only that she took care of that murderer's kid like her own. Makes her seem like one godly figure. Q time, if she knew well ahead that DP was a drunkard why didnt she take care of Dutta right after his mom died?. As per the Flashback, Dutta's mom died soon after his birth, so why did this great hearted woman leave such a small kid with the drunkard?. Did she or her husband ask DP to let Dutta stay with them as he is a small kid and will need motherly love?. If they did, wouldnt it be obvious that Dutta wouldve never cried for milk and DP wouldnt have ordered his men to feed the kid daaru isnt it?. Also if Dutta was taken care by AS right from start , there wouldnt have been a day where DP wouldve gambled off his son , isnt it?. So isnt AS and her husband at a mistake too to leave a small kid in a Drunkard's care?. Lot of iffs but then I still feel it unbelievable to see that a woman who had no issues taking care of her hubby's murderer's son never thought of taking care of a motherless child after his bilogical mom's death, me a logical person find it utterly illogical. And my issue with AS starts right there, till date.
So DP gambled off Dutta to another gambler. Dutta a 4 yr old kid was going to be a slave for life at that gambler's place if not for SPs intervention. Sounds so bad to even imagine. But , but I dont think SP did any good by stopping the gambler from snatching the kid away. I see Dutta still a slave , albeit for his blood relatives. His life as per me , is the same. Ya at the most that guy wouldve given Dutta a hard time, made him work bad and trashed him. But then when such a kid grows up he will enter into bloodshed and we all know what ASs care got Dutta to. Either way I see him ending up a don, a must. But then atleast he wouldve been on his own if he was a slave at some random guy. He wouldve been a stronger person at heart. He wouldve had no one to depend on and so wouldve learnt to handle his issues on his own and in a better way may be. Also if he wasnt with AS , Kala wouldnt have tried to avenge her Dad's death ,so Dutta sure wouldnt have gone thru so many betrayls . But all thanks to ASs mahaan mamtha, Dutta ended up a life long slave , and a traumatized guy. I know iam being hard on AS, but srsly thats my perspective and I stand by it. She by taking care of the kid didnt help him in any way. Instead made his life worse than it couldve been.
AS took care of a 4 yr old kid and what did she do after that?. At age 10 Dutta had to start working for his family (According to a certain episode). So that means Dutta didnt get a proper education. He worked in a garrage as a mechanic to feed the four women at his house, right from such a tender age . Now was AS and her three little witches treat Dutta any differently than that Gambler to got hold of Dutta? . He wouldve made Dutta work from 4 yrs, AS helped Dutta a bit, got him to work from 10yrs till date. Wonderful !!!. AS may claim it as her helplessness, I treat it as her selfishness. Nothing else. May be if she got Dutta to get educated, may be he wouldnt have gotten involved with Seema, or may be Seema wouldnt have trashed him so bad or may be he wouldve had some better way to cope up with the betrayl than the path he chose. Education may not change the basic trait but it gives knowledge enuf for ppl to judge more rationally. No offence meant totally my POV.
Seema betrayed a 20 yr old guy. He dreamt of a life with her and she trashed him like a piece of paper. Dutta was traumatized to the extent that he wanted to proove Seema that she is wrong, he can earn money if he wants to. Now an uneducated guy that he was , he had very few options to choose from and he chose seemingly easy but a very complicated one way route, ended up a gangster. A life where there is no U-Turn from. AS who asked Dutta to postpone marriage plans and settle down first , couldnt tell her son not to end up a murderer?😕. How believable. Alright ,lets assume for a moment that Dutta was in such a moment that he wasnt ready to listen to anyone else, I ask , Why didnt AS tell Dutta that she isnt ready to eat the food bought by shedding someone's blood? . No I srsly want to know how a woman like her, whose husband fought for ppl's welfare, who was killed saving a small kid, A woman who utters "Jagadmba" more than the breath she takes, feed on such illegally earned money?. Did she ever ponder abt it?. If she did, what did she conclude? That its no issue feeding on such a money as she has no other option?. If thats the case, how can she ask Bappa what her mistake is and why is HE punishing her?. Look at her nerves in asking God for justice 😆. Ppl around might be blind but can she or her family bluff God?. No wonder none of them are ever happy.
It amazes me to the core that she prays to God and her son goes and kills ppl. She sends him off to do such a thing and has no qualms abt it? Lets assume for arguments sakes that she had no option when Dutta entered don business but to give in as she had three daughters to marry off. But then wasnt she ever worried for her adopted son and his life?. So she was ready to let go of Dutta's life for her daughters?. Doesnt that make her selfish?. She got two of the daughter's married and the ppl they married, one sits at home and other just handles business. Sudarshan one day wanted to go grab DP and look what AS had to say to Dutta, "How can u allow ur BIL to take a risk. Arent u worried abt ur Sister's suhaag" 😆. Glad AS understands the risk involved in Dutta's business but why doesnt she get worried for her son?. Why doesnt she ask him to stop everything and leave it all?. Oh forget now, why did she allow it come so far?. I feel she is more concerned abt her three daughters, and her life over Dutta's. I would be hppy if she accepts that she is selfish . That will calm me down instead of her so called "Motherly love" wala act. She might be a mother but for her daughters.
The guy hadnt slept one night in peace until Nakku came into his life. The guy had nighmares abt the ppl he killed, The guy hardly smiled for 10 odd yrs, and the guy had no peace in his life. Meanwhile all his great mother could do is pray to Jagadamba, shed couple of tears and happily feed on the money the guy earns.
She is a failure. She failed to take care of Dutta when he needed her the most and she failed big time with her three daughters. She failed as a human too the other day when she blamed Nakku for the whole mishap. She wanted Dutta to stay alive and thats the only reason she got TaSha married, unlike what she claimed the other day that she wanted Dutta to get married to the person he loved as she wanted him to get SOME womans love . How laughable was her reason😛. She who shouldve known Dutta better than anyone else in that house, assumed that her son would let go of this betrayl so easily?. That in itself proves how good of a mother she is. She who saw Dutta go thru seema's , sups and DPs betrayl thought that Dutta will be ok with this one?. She in the name of her mamtha literally killed Dutta thru out his life.
Now she is loosing control over her son so is getting possessive asking Nakku to back off 😆. Nakku is missing from home, and AS or her kids have no worries abt where she might be?. Comeon Nakku's mom handed over her daughter to AS isnt it?. What am I talking abt, AS and her "care" is famous enuf now .
What abt the london import? How come she forgot abt her SIL cum Friend ?
I pity Dutta for working so hard to take care of such selfish bunch. Hope he realizes who are his true wellwishers and throws out all the ppl in his life who are hanging around for their selfish needs and the list should have AS at the top. I know its a crazy thought but then my hatred for her is as crazy as my thought.
Sorry for my rants but had to let it go 😆..........
Anu
come on yaar. Dutta is not a kid, he makes his own decision. she having a boy friend .. soo cheap thinking yaar 🤢 Please please to make Dutta mahan donot blame AS. DONOT DOUBT MOTHER'S LOVE. only hero, heroine are good right .. all the others are bad, See each character will have it's significance. AS bought him up, so only Nakku can enter his life. Till today Nakku has done nothing only giving bhashans and cheating(FR) dutta everytime. 
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