Did Dutta really love Naku?

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LTLFan

@LTLFan

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Posted: 14 years ago

I guess dutta was not in love with Nakusha. But because she loved him so much, he just responded to her unconditional love that she showed to him.

He was hungry for love. He was cheated by people. he thought he was unworthy of anyone's love (as Seema and Supriya in her letter pointed out). He was only too happy to get so much unconditional love from Naku. Now that he doubts that same love, he has distanced himself from her.

He never bothered to know her life and her feelings. During the wedding ceremonies she seemed very unhappy and sad but he did not notice that at all.

Yes she hid a truth. But his reaction seems too disproportionate. Now he is hating both naku's (kaali or gori), thinking of Anna, DP and Ganpats words (who by the way are all worthless!!), he thinks all that naku did was a lie. He doesn't believe in her love. so no love left in him also.

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sameera84

@sameera84

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Posted: 14 years ago

Gosh how i agree with you dear, 😲from the past few episodes even i feel the same thing😕. I don't think Dutta ever loved Nakusha😭. I think that the so called love that he professed for her was just his obligation for her love😕. He was just responding to the her love. For a man who never got any love and has lived his life facing betrayals nakku's unconditional love was like breath of fresh air. Love is the strongest of bonds between hearts, and love which can stand the test of circumstances is pure and true😊. Iam sorry to say but dutta's so called could never pass any test🤢. He always failed miserably😡. Even when he went to save nakku it was only after he saw nakku tied helplessly to the scarecrow by anna's men and her speech that she has full faith in her husband,only then he went to save her. His will power is extremely weak and even the slightest blow of wind can shatter it😕. The relationship of love is based on trust, respect and unconditional love and dutta has nothing of that sort. Agreed nakku did wrong by hiding the truth but how could she have said it wen she knew that dutta will certainly behave childishly as he is doing now😡. just holding a gun or shouting or making people afraid of you is not being a man🤢, a man a true man is some ons who can live up to his word and has the ability and courage to face the truth and differentiate between what is wrong and what is right😊.So much foe being a goon he is just a child not a man. 🤢

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sameera84

@sameera84

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Posted: 14 years ago

I completely agree with you dear😲, from the past few episodes i have been thinking on the same lines😕. If the so called love that he professed for her was true 😔then he would have at least tried to listen to her part of the story😡. But no as expected he behaved like a child😡. Love is the strongest form of emotion 😳and the strongest of bonds between two hearts😳, and love which stand the test of time and circumstances is the truest and purest form of love😊. Unfortunately Dutta's love had no such quality🤢. His love for her was just a response 🤢to her love and he was obliged to her for all that she had done for him and family. for someone who has lived all his life without love and has faced betrayals Nakusha's unconditional love was like breath of fresh air. He was just being good to her and was feeling obliged to return her love . he never truly loved her. Holding a gun or shouting or making people afraid are not the traits of a man 👎🏼, a true man is someone who has the ability to face truth and differentiate between wrong and right 😊. Dutta has always behaved like an immature child 😡, he always needs support of others to make his decisions, his will power is weak and he cannot recognize people🥱. Even when he went to save Naku from anna😡, it was only when he he saw that video of nakku tied helplessly to the scarecrow and her speech that she has full faith in her husband did he go to save her, otherwise just a slight nudge of that Kala and he quit the idea of saving her, so much for loving her😡😡. I am not justifying nakku 😕but sorry to say nakku had every reason of hiding the truth since she knew that he will behave childishly, which he is doing, you can confide in a person only when you completely trust him and nakku did not becuase she knew his weak wiill power. Sorry again but he does not deserve her love. 👎🏼

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mnx12

@mnx12

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Posted: 14 years ago

Yes I agree to what you say, cv's have portrayed him selfish, he is shown talking & thinking about himself only,his hurt, his betrayals etc.He loves himself most & not even trying to listen to Naku.

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usha

@ushankitvc

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: LTLFan
I guess dutta was not in love with Nakusha. But because she loved him so much, he just responded to her unconditional love that she showed to him.

He was hungry for love. He was cheated by people. he thought he was unworthy of anyone's love (as Seema and Supriya in her letter pointed out). He was only too happy to get so much unconditional love from Naku. Now that he doubts that same love, he has distanced himself from her.

He never bothered to know her life and her feelings. During the wedding ceremonies she seemed very unhappy and sad but he did not notice that at all.

Yes she hid a truth. But his reaction seems too disproportionate. Now he is hating both naku's (kaali or gori), thinking of Anna, DP and Ganpats words (who by the way are all worthless!!), he thinks all that naku did was a lie. He doesn't believe in her love. so no love left in him also.

Me too feel the same..............

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Chinu2004

@Chinu2004

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Posted: 14 years ago

agree completely! dutta is too insecure to love anyone!

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saakshi

@--Saaki--

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Posted: 14 years ago

Well,Frds.........

Whatever they are showing rt now,it is the present situation of Dutta & his heart-break.............As Kala said he is not in a position to think anything.............

He does love Nakku..........He have to & will realise eventually.......

Even though she betrayed him(In his POV),He still remembers her & will see a difference in his reaction to Seema & Supriya's betrayals and Nakku's............Then only he will understand that it is he who loves Nakku more than Nakku love him..................The kind of "Aham" he has...........That should break totally......He should feel his notion towards his life,"Dhoka",Love,"Beauty" is all wrong...........
Who makes him do that will be the one whom Dutta will trust or Follow.........That has to be Nakku now............Till then he cant understand anything............

The only thing he should understand is........(In Dutta's POV)
"Nakku ne bhi dhoka diya mujhe seema aur supriya ki tarah.......Sabse zyaada diya........Phir bhi usski yaadein kyun aati hain?.......Phir bhi usski naam se meri dil mein ummeed kyun jagti hain?..........Kyun jab bhi koi toofan aati hain,sirf ussiki naam japta hoon........Kyun ussiko dhoondta hoon...............Meri har mushkil mein,har khushi mein,zindagi ki harkadam main usse baar baar kyun yaad karta hoon..........Kyun yaad karta hoon uss dhokebaaz ko..........Shayad yehi pyaar hain..................Haan......Maine pyaar kiya usse ..........Dutta tu pyaar karta hain NAkku se..........utna jitna shaayad Nakku bhi tujhse nahi karti..........Jagtap ne sahi kaha tha..........Jis din sachcha pyaar tera saamne aayega,tu bhaag nahi paayega.............."

When Dutta realise that Nakku is "His" Love,"His" need then Dhoka wont come infront at all.................
He will be blind by Nakku's love............That is eternity................

Edited by --Saaki-- - 14 years ago

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Nakusha

@Nakusha

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Posted: 14 years ago

you are right dutta never loved naku ,it was some brain washing by jagtap that made him fall for her ,he just felt for her face coz she is ugly she won't ever runaway ,naku looked dutta beyound his persona & loved him for his good heart not on supercial level but for him it always her face thats the reason with change is colour he doesn't want her he is even hurting her & only remembering bad things not the times when she was ready to die for him ,the past 2 girls left him whereas she still standing beside him still he can't figure out ,he never loved her ,it was always one sided affair

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Yuvika

@Yuvika_15

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Posted: 14 years ago

i partly agree with u guys, can c wer u r cumin from.. bt i wouldnt say he neva loved naku he did... its jus tht its gna take him time 2 gt used to gori naku, n he isnt able 2 bear the fact tht evry1 knew the truth n hid it from him... evry1 knws hw much he hates lies n betrayal thn hw on earth did they think hiding such a big truth wud b gd for him...

i strongly feel naku shud hav tld her truth on 6th sept epi. wer she goes 2 meet him in his room after rejecting his proposal... he at tht point was willing 2 hear her, bt nw after marriage it seemed as a betrayal...i feel she had many chances 2 tel the truth bt she didn't... if onli she had listened 2 her heart n did wt she thrt was right rather than listening to others..cos those who she listened 2 r no longer supporting her.. kala, AS, babi etc

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Musarrat

@mussy.jamshed

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Posted: 14 years ago

#10

I don't want any of you to think emotionally my friends......first lets define what's love and trust

Love - The natural feeling of affection one has for somebody else (I don't think infatuation can push you to go back to enemy's den and save someone you love - dutta went to Anna's den and got nakusha back.....so he does love her )

Trust : The feeling of security that someone else will not hurt or harm you ( He did trust nakusha that she will not hurt or harm him in anyway)

Trust in a practical sense, means that you place confidence in someone to be honest with you, faithful to you, keep promises, vows and confidences and not abandon

People are complex, broken beings therefore, previous hurts, fears or losses can impede their determination to trust and/or be truthful in a relationship. ( In this case , dutta is vulnerable individual due to his past experiences, insecurities, fears n losses....these experiences hinder his determination /urge to trust....)

Tonight's episode showed that Dutta does not know that kalawati was behind supriya's elopement ......he did not have significant prove that Nakusha is innocent......so how can you say that his love is infatuation.....he did trust her guys.....he loves her immensely.....presented himself like an open book but Nakusha did fail him.......by delaying her truth...now why are we blaming dutta and accusing him that he did not love Nakusha......He did love her n put his trust on her.......but timing went wrong.........Nakusha is guilty in his eyes as he thinks she did not speak truth before their wedding.......its second time his trust for nakusha completely failed him.....first it was someone's act to shake his trust on Nakusha as a friend n now its nakusha's own action that fall back on her very badly.......how can u say dutta is wrong.......she had so many instances to speak the truth but she could not......and she was at fault in this case.....

right now dutta is very emotional n angry. once he cools down, he will start thinking......he is too much hurt n shocked.......give him time....

People have the capacity and the ability to change and to grow in trust and truthfulness. And I am sure no matter how much we doubt dutta........He will stand tall and won't stop loving Nakusha.......Give him time.......😉

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