I am not favouring Nivedita-Sid's marriage in anyway. My saying few words in Sid's praise, does not mean that by default I want to see Sid-Nivedita's marriage... I think its a big mistake to label the "selfcentredness" of Sid and Divya same. Divya never think anything about her own parents or family, what she will think about her in laws. Sid's problem was he could not side with Nivedita and Keshav. But he never sacrificed his family, good or bad, he put his families wished prior to his. I think any neutral viewer will admit. I'ld still call myself a neutral viewer, because I am not blind to shortcomings in Nivedita's character sketch, or in my hatred for Sid, I cannot see his good points. I have maintained from day one the same stand against Divya. The very essence of Keshav and dadi are being ignored by Nivedita's actions now. Its not that Nivedita does not love her father or dadai now, but she also fell short in her priorities, right? she had to choose between two paths...she chose a path at that moment, which led to her marraiege to Viren and she was well aware that her dadi, who looked after like a mother, was not happy and that her father would be terribly shocked to her marriage like this. But still she went ahead...because of her priotities...she felt at that moment that was the best decision and ended up marrying and hurting her dadi and father.Originally posted by: zarmeeno
Navz and Anamika loved ur analysis. And Navz totally agree with u nobody is never a neutral viewer. bani u also said in on ur post that y S. is the only who is being blamed and not been forgiven though the whole Sood family was equally responsible for insulting Keshav well Bank the whole Sood family did not proclaim their love towarrds Nivi and promised her a happy life. It was just S. though I agree with u that he also came to know about his dad the same day but again he should have not allowed his family to abuse Keshav physically. Whatever happened to S. is due to his own mistakes. Even he again insulted Nivi in the hospital. He did not trusted them until he heard from Laalji that Keshav did not do anything.
Bani relationships only work when both the parties r ready to work and make an effort towards that relationship. Since the confrontation I have not seen a single effort from S. side towards his and Nivi's relationship.Bani u called Divya self centred in my opinion S. is also self centred. Divya does not know the truth and again S. did not make any effort in telling her the truth but what was S. doing he was about to call off his wedding at the last day so that made Nivren got married coz no self respect sister would like to see her sister and his family go through the humilitation. What was S. thinking, he never thought of his family respect and Sharma'ss family respect. During the whole process people around him took advantage of him coz he allowed them to take adavnatage of him. He was not honest to his so called friend Divya and Nivi he was toooo busy pitying himself
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