First of all, whoever responds to my post here, I kindly request not to bring in Nivedita's future anticipated romantic relationship with Sid here, as she is already married to Viren, who happens to be Sid's younger brother. As this show CCBM follows Hindu tradition where a younger brother's wife is considered equivalent to daughter for an elder brother. So, after Viren-Nivedita's marriage, Siddharth- Nivedita's relationship totally changes to something else. From now on, it is unnecessary to discuss about any future possibility of Nivedita-Sid. Siddharth might not be able to forget his Putul so fast, but that's his past memory, there is no future of their relationship other than through Viren.
Anyways, coming to the thread'I read in an article that sometime from now Divya's love will be projected as "unconditional love" by the creatives and Sid will be made to bow down to Divya's love. My first and foremost question is how come Divya's love be "unconditional"? Myself, belonging to old school of thought about love, feel that love is actually setting someone free and then offer the beloved an option to go away or come back. Divya knew very well how much pain Sid was going through for this marriage, but she stuck to Siddharth, not because she was respectful of dadasaheb's wish, but she wanted to throw the challenge to Sid that she would make Sid fall in love with her one day after marriage. I don't think love can be ever seen as a challenge, love is an individual feeling, no one can force anyone to fall in love. A lover always tries to lessen the pain of her beloved, a lover reads the pain of her beloved's face and tries to lessen that. But here, Sid, who is even unable to look at Divya's face is being tied to Divya. He is so uncomfortable with Divya, that he is not even looking at her and reciting the mantras. Is this what Divya wanted the person to go through just to own that person? To me, it seemed that Sid with hands and legs tied up is thrown in the river, and he has one option, he has to stay alive and to stay alive, he can cling to one rock, that is Divya? My heart cried for him, is this how a human being is treated if he makes one mistake in life. The reason, for which he has to stay alive, when the reason comes out from dadasaheb, that day his life will be a complete joke, when he will be emotionally blackmailed by Divya, Hemlata, Vandana and all others to accept Divya whole heartedly and consummate his marriage.
I feel, its a death penalty for Sid, for one mistake that he could not support his love? Is the punishment for one mistake of his, not sufficient that he lost his love to someone else? Why he needs to bow down to Divya's threatful love and accept it as "unconditional". After losing his love, can he not stay single and decide what he needs to do sometime later? Can he not be treated as a human and given a humane option?
I feel he is one unfortunate person, for who not even his own mother stood up. There was not a single person, who could tell him that his dadasaheb's happiness lies in his and it could be dadasaheb is not able to speak out, but dadasaheb will always agree if Siddharth wants to call off his marriage. Not a single person could feel and say that, rather everyone in their own way pushed him to the marriage. Its said that when a child feels pain, he goes to his mother and father. For Sid, Vandana being his mother, never really could feel the pain. And Dadasaheb, who is his father-figure is so "lachar" that he cannot do anything. The person whom he loved wholeheartedly could not forgive his one mistake, despite his apologies, but I do not blame Nivedita, as she has every authority to choose the better man for herself. The family for whom, he stood and sacrificed his life, never really understood his pain and wanted him to get married to a girl, whom all knew Sid does not love.
I know Rajan Shahi will never listen, but the proper end of Sid's character will be his death. A man who made one mistake of not supporting his love for his family, should die a death, instead of dying a living death everyday by staying with an unwanted woman. Noone needs him, as he is a loser'.but is he really a loser? I feel, he is a human, who is holding the entire family together through the business, by taking care of ailing dadasaheb, getting bail for dadasaheb, a human who is sacrificing his life for his dadasaheb, as dadasaheb put his hand over his head, when his father died'yes, the man Siddharth Sood indeed needs a death penalty in order to account for his one mistake. But, Mr Shahi, please accept this proposition, instead of dying death everyday, its better than he gets a peaceful sleep in his pyre'
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