SR -Catalyst to break TASHA's vicious circle - Page 2

The many who have written against Kavita's post on the SR may have forgotten how many posts there were in the last week or two about the SR. I still wonder as I have written in another post about the age group/groW*H development and maturity of the LTL forum members. By today's standards many couples are have a physical relationship to enhance their emotional bond. I am sure from what I see happening with couples in India today, it is no different than other parts of the world. If anyone dare say that this is not so, you may be living in a bubble. So I agree with Kavita's points. The only real reason I can see for the SR not to have taken place on LTL is because of the Channel's obligations to political and religious groups who would like others to believe India still maintains its purity.

Originally posted by: nizam13

The many who have written against Kavita's post on the SR may have forgotten how many posts there were in the last week or two about the SR. I still wonder as I have written in another post about the age group/groW*H development and maturity of the LTL forum members. By today's standards many couples are have a physical relationship to enhance their emotional bond. I am sure from what I see happening with couples in India today, it is no different than other parts of the world. If anyone dare say that this is not so, you may be living in a bubble. So I agree with Kavita's points. The only real reason I can see for the SR not to have taken place on LTL is because of the Channel's obligations to political and religious groups who would like others to believe India still maintains its purity.

To all,

Please accept my sincere apologies if my post would have been disturbing for members of the forum. It was not meant to be viewed as a contentious issue putting in perspective the level of maturity or development of this forum's members or if it has come across as offensive or disrespectful. I would, however, like to clear the air regarding a personal opinion and not a wish for any form of depravity. The forum is supposed to be a platform where different school of thoughts are meant to meet and exchange, discuss views about first and foremost a TV programme and a "TV couple" who, gauging from the level of interest and passion they generate, clearly appeal to the fantasist residing in all of us. I am thankful that such situations as those arising in LTL remains restricted to reel life otherwise we would see lots of tragedies.

There had been countless references to the SR over the past two weeks on this forum before and after the 2^nd wedding of TASHA. Some were very sweet, some bordering on the coy and some clearly displaying the naughty side residing in all of us. The SR is a natural step post a marriage. In the case of TASHA, it was the second wedding which Dutta wanted as confirmation of Nakusha's status and importance in his life and the PN household.

I, strongly, agree with gpoo views that "SR is not such a flowery concept to me--bonding man and woman forever and ever, making marriages work and strong, creating spiritual bonds. I tend to think that it is the the communication, the respect, the enjoyment of being together and talking, and honesty that bonds man and woman forever and ever". Tasha's first marriage was far from flowery and the second happened with deceit as an unfortunate backdrop on the part of Nakusha, Babi, Baaji, AS and eventually the whole PN clan with the exception of Dutta. Nakusha, originally, had her fears, her moral, mental and physical blocks to overcome. Her tragedy was compounded when others joined in to stop her from the ultimate revelation before the 2^nd wedding for their own reasons ("questionable" and possibly selfish motives of AS, stupid and selfish Babi, reckless and unaware Baaji [he has not uncovered the depth of the dangerous web around Dutta] and finally the cunning and evil Kala who got the Dutta's prized head and heart on a platter).

These two poor souls so hopelessly in love with each other need to be saved first from themselves as they both wear blinkers when it comes to looking around their immediate environment. The SR could have been the cathartic experience which could help fill the emotional physical gap resulting from the tragic deceit wrought upon Dutta. Catharsis has been adopted by modern psychotherapy, particularly, the Freudian movements to describe the act of expressing or rather experiencing the deep emotions associated with events in the individual's past which had originally been repressed or ignored.

On a more practical level , the general belief that it is difficult to influence a man and woman joined at the loins is very true as it is believed and rightly so that no-one can come in between two individuals who have crossed the physical barriers as they identify with each other at the most primitive level and hence can best appreciate each other's importance in their respective lives first and second in relation to their environment. Dutta's anguished plea to Nakusha to let him sleep in her lap is symbolical as for the first time he did not seek his mother's lap but that of the woman he wishes to have besides him now. Nakusha is the only one who can save Dutta and restore his confidence in the world and why not start at the basic level.

Originally posted by: KavitaDR

To all,

Please accept my sincere apologies if my post would have been disturbing for members of the forum. It was not meant to be viewed as a contentious issue putting in perspective the level of maturity or development of this forum's members or if it has come across as offensive or disrespectful. I would, however, like to clear the air regarding a personal opinion and not a wish for any form of depravity. The forum is supposed to be a platform where different school of thoughts are meant to meet and exchange, discuss views about first and foremost a TV programme and a "TV couple" who, gauging from the level of interest and passion they generate, clearly appeal to the fantasist residing in all of us. I am thankful that such situations as those arising in LTL remains restricted to reel life otherwise we would see lots of tragedies.

There had been countless references to the SR over the past two weeks on this forum before and after the 2^nd wedding of TASHA. Some were very sweet, some bordering on the coy and some clearly displaying the naughty side residing in all of us. The SR is a natural step post a marriage. In the case of TASHA, it was the second wedding which Dutta wanted as confirmation of Nakusha's status and importance in his life and the PN household.

I, strongly, agree with gpoo views that "SR is not such a flowery concept to me--bonding man and woman forever and ever, making marriages work and strong, creating spiritual bonds. I tend to think that it is the the communication, the respect, the enjoyment of being together and talking, and honesty that bonds man and woman forever and ever". Tasha's first marriage was far from flowery and the second happened with deceit as an unfortunate backdrop on the part of Nakusha, Babi, Baaji, AS and eventually the whole PN clan with the exception of Dutta. Nakusha, originally, had her fears, her moral, mental and physical blocks to overcome. Her tragedy was compounded when others joined in to stop her from the ultimate revelation before the 2^nd wedding for their own reasons ("questionable" and possibly selfish motives of AS, stupid and selfish Babi, reckless and unaware Baaji [he has not uncovered the depth of the dangerous web around Dutta] and finally the cunning and evil Kala who got the Dutta's prized head and heart on a platter).

These two poor souls so hopelessly in love with each other need to be saved first from themselves as they both wear blinkers when it comes to looking around their immediate environment. The SR could have been the cathartic experience which could help fill the emotional physical gap resulting from the tragic deceit wrought upon Dutta. Catharsis has been adopted by modern psychotherapy, particularly, the Freudian movements to describe the act of expressing or rather experiencing the deep emotions associated with events in the individual's past which had originally been repressed or ignored.

On a more practical level , the general belief that it is difficult to influence a man and woman joined at the loins is very true as it is believed and rightly so that no-one can come in between two individuals who have crossed the physical barriers as they identify with each other at the most primitive level and hence can best appreciate each other's importance in their respective lives first and second in relation to their environment. Dutta's anguished plea to Nakusha to let him sleep in her lap is symbolical as for the first time he did not seek his mother's lap but that of the woman he wishes to have besides him now. Nakusha is the only one who can save Dutta and restore his confidence in the world and why not start at the basic level.

I will sign off on a word of caution. It is not at all my intention to hurt anyone's feelings or sensibilities but rather an invitation to think beyond the box.