SR -Catalyst to break TASHA's vicious circle

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Posted: 14 years ago
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CVs' & LTLians spare a thought.

Hi everyone,

I read a number of posts today and have just watched today's episode and it occurred to me that the SR (which we would have loved to see in happy circumstances on LTL) should have happened as it could be the cathartic experience that will, actually, help both Dutta and Nakusha emotionally cleanse themselves and start life afresh with a bond beyond the mental sphere. The biblical union of a man and a woman is important to cement a relationship. The SR may look tacky and in bad taste at this junction with everyone probably feeling that it would be unfair for the couple. But this will break the deadlock though as Dutta physically connecting with his Koel Naku (his burning desire) or Gori dhokebaz (to avenge her betrayal) would provide the catalyst to their love and hold on each other.

Nakusha will draw strength from the fact that her husband has accepted her albeit on a physical level (she does not need a verbal confirmation of the emotional bond ---she knows that Dutta's heart belongs to her). Restoring each other's confidence would follow with lots of pain and patience but should follow as they would have crossed the last hurdle and inhibitions which separated them since they got married the first time. I remember here, Baaji's advice at their "adda" after Dutta rescued Nakusha from Anna's den and he did say very clearly to Dutta that he has to be one to take the first steps as Nakusha would never claim her marital rights. Post the second wedding fiasco, Nakusha may find it daunting to even attempt touching a revengeful Dutta if we are to go by the way he has been pushing her around or brandishing her wrist (typical Dutta mannerisms when it comes to reminding Nakusha and everybody else that she is wife). Dutta's progression from AS' "godh" to Koel Naku's godh today shows his anguish to connect physically with the love of his life. And should he be shown in future tracks attempting it even if it is to avenge himself for the betrayal he has to endure would help move the story forward. On a comic note, this is what all the female fans of TASHA may be dying to view, AS may get to hear the "khilkariyan in Dutta's phoolwari", but LTL would avoid the pitfall of the endless dragfest with repetitions of scenes post the Sups/Dutta wedding fiasco that would turn off many viewers.

Praying to Bappa or God to put things right is all well and good but one has to find ways to help oneself. A physical union would in the beginning sound cheap in the face of so much emotional distress and anger (Dutta), guilt and fear that all that magic they shared may have gone in smoke (Nakusha) but it is vital. Once that would have happened, it will be difficult for external influences (Kala our exquisite Mata Hari, the altered ET (Leela/Roops/shifty Suds ) to carry on spinning their web of deceit as our lovebirds would be able to relate to each other at the most basic and primitive level and realise the beauty of their unique love story.

PS: Apologies for the terribly long posts but LTL has become a battleground for such interesting exchanges that I just get carried away. I will sign off with these lines of the revered Khalil Gibran that seem so apt to depict Dutta's anguish for an unfulfilled love.

"Love has no other desire but to fulfil itself.
But if you love and must needs have desires, let these be your desires:
To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night.
To know the pain of too much tenderness.
To be wounded by your own understanding of love;
And to bleed willingly and joyfully.
To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving;
To rest at the noon hour and meditate love's ecstasy;
To return home at eventide with gratitude;
And then to sleep with a prayer for the beloved in your heart and a song of praise upon your lips."

Today we got to see Dutta in Naku's lap, a paradise that has been denied to our GADHA and Naku. CVS---MAKE AMENDS ASAP.

I would love to see your comments.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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i don't think SR is a good idea at this point, though you may have point there(may psychological analysis / idea). but i'm against such an idea. Today's episode was very beautiful and emotional. Last 2 days though dutta was calmer than earlier not that much shouting and thod-phod, i thought he was being very cruel to her. because when he treated her harsh earlier, he was not in love with her or atleast didn't know that he also likes her. i didn't find his treatment of Naku too harsh (during the 1st marriage).

Now he is in love with her, so i found his behaviour too harsh. but now after seeing todays episode i think he is just so disturbed and confused but he love her too much. so i think he should take his time before he can completely accept her as she is.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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firstly I love ur post , and I would want the SR to happen with fair nakku . But I don't think a physical relationship between tasha will sort out their problems , nakusha has proved her love and loyalty many a time for dutta , I think its time that dutta does the same.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Interesting post, but I have to say SR is not the right thing to happen at this time.
It is important for trust to be built between a couple specially husband and wife before the physical relationship is built.
Naku has always to fight many a demon with Dutta and for Dutta, he needs to step up to the plate now in the relationship. It takes 2 to tango, Dutta ko abhi dance ka "D" bhi nahin aata, abhi to poori zindagi Naku ke saath dance karni hai, climax to door hai dost :)
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Kavita nice post........

I don't think SR is going to help them..dutta needs to sort out this problem on his own......

"You know that when I hate you, it is because I love you to a point of passion
that unhinges my soul." ( he loves her passionately, thats why his attitude is like that)

The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart."
(dutta does not need to be physical with nakusha, he just have to feel the love nakusha has for him..........her love must b felt by dutta's heart...........

I also want SR after he has accepted her the way she is ..........
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Even I wouldn't want SR now.... atleast when he is still angry on her... because later even if softens towards her ... it would be shown as guilt... and we don't want that.. he has to understand her, love her again and then SR which shd just happen... it shd not b the planned types
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Posted: 14 years ago
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That's one way of looking at things that I haven't heard. 😉😆

If that SR had happened under false pretenses, then it would have been disastrous. Even worse than where things are right now.

I am personally glad they did not show that because it would have been laughable. And not to mention, it would have made Naku into something much worse. I just don't thing that a little bonding under the sheets is going to lessen the mistrust or rage that will crop up when the truth does come out after the night. In fact, it makes it worse.

I don't know--SR is not such a flowery concept to me--bonding man and woman forever and ever, making marriages work and strong, creating spiritual bonds. I tend to think that it is the the communication, the respect, the enjoyment of being together and talking, and honesty that bonds man and woman forever and ever. And quite frankly, Naku and Dutta are not there yet.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: gp00

That's one way of looking at things that I haven't heard. 😉😆


If that SR had happened under false pretenses, then it would have been disastrous. Even worse than where things are right now.

I am personally glad they did not show that because it would have been laughable. And not to mention, it would have made Naku into something much worse. I just don't thing that a little bonding under the sheets is going to lessen the mistrust or rage that will crop up when the truth does come out after the night. In fact, it makes it worse.

I don't know--SR is not such a flowery concept to me--bonding man and woman forever and ever, making marriages work and strong, creating spiritual bonds. I tend to think that it is the the communication, the respect, the enjoyment of being together and talking, and honesty that bonds man and woman forever and ever. And quite frankly, Naku and Dutta are not there yet.



Parul I completely agree with yr post..............👏👏👏
Jab suhaag hi rotha hua hain tu SR kay kia maanay 😕
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: mussy.jamshed



Parul I completely agree with yr post..............👏👏👏
Jab suhaag hi rotha hua hain tu SR kay kia maanay 😕



waah kya baat hai mussy, kya dialogue maara hai 😉 👏 😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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kavita very well presented..but sorry i don't agree. SR should happen when they are both in complete acceptance of their relationship..if it happened noe it would make dutta guilty and that would again be a recap of earlier time post Anna phase where dutta wanted to give nakku her rights because along with love he somewhere felt guilty abt his actions...i want to see nakku adamantly trying to show D her honesty and love...which he can't see right now..dutta is still strueck up in his past somewhere until and unless he comes out of it he can't accept nakku completely and we can't enjoy a SR.

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