Originally posted by: --Revv--
Hello to all...
I saw multiple posts which kept stating that Maan is Great and Geet is dirt and she does not deserve Maan: 🤢🤢
I understand all think that she is selfish and being forgiven is what Geet craves the most because it will give her peace...😕😕
Its true.. Geet is so selfish that she is ready to give up on justice for Maan's sake.
She is so selfish that she reacted after coming to know the person who said would support her just bore a knife behind a back (ACCORDING TO HER).. She should not shatter as her God can never make any mistakes...😕😕
She is so selfish that even after Maan told her not to come to ofc, she comes because she knows he is upset..😕😕
She is so selfish that she plays the fool in front of him because she knows her smile is most important for him. 😕😕
She is so selfish because she knows that bringing a smile on his face by asking for forgiveness in her typical childish behavior will not only reduce her guilt but also alleviate Maan's pain... Because he would have to forgive himself 1st to forgive her...
She is so selfish that she wants him to give her punishment to atone her mistake- Why does she say this??? Because this is how she has been reprimanded for her mistakes in her home..So she meant no hurt when she told Maan to punish her for her faults..
She is soo selfish that even after the way he behaved to her during the party... she told him yesterday that he makes no mistakes.. Its she who is at fault always... 😕
And in love - No matter who hurts whom... ultimately both suffer and the person who has started it all gets hurt the most... 🤢🤢
And when we are hurt.. Reason is as far away from us as the Sun is from Neptune 😆😆
Geet is such a shallow creature that at the age of 18 instead of listening to her elders.. she decided to follow a stranger's words which gave her the courage and take a course of action that alienated her from her kin...
Maan has always been Geet's savior... But its mostly Physically... Geet has been Maan's savior - Emotionally... He who had become a hard shell of man and had hidden all his emotions and goodness under the rug of his heart... His true nature came out cos of her.. because of what she was..😍.. Dadi too acknowledges the same!!
There is a diag in HP - in the wedding house... He says its the paradoxial nature of hers that draws him to her... She is strong but cries like a child when adversity is thrown at her... She is a confused soul - Why.. Because her heart and mind are constantly at war? She has loads of insecurities.. But she is not without her Self Respect.. That was brought out courtesy Maan's nasty remarks.. He has always had the power to make her sit up and not just listen to him.. but follow his words to make her stronger..😳😳😳
Though she was wrong when it came to MU, she thought she was standing up for her Self Respect.. Later Ego and pride came to help her fight her battle with Maan. The min she realized that she was wrong.. she abandoned all pretense and is back to clearing the air?
He is her world.. She will shatter if he is no longer in her life.. Just like the pieces of a broken mirror? She may laugh, eat, cry.. But she would be existing.. not living..
Behind my smile is a hurting heart. Behind my laugh, I'm falling apart. Look closely at me and you will see, the girl I am...isn't me.😭😭😭
And ultimately these lines simply describes Geet for me - I think I'm afraid of being happy because everytime I'm happy, something bad always happens. I don't deserve you...I never did.
Wow- This describes Geet's jealousy for me - I'm jealous of every girl that has ever hugged you, cause for one moment, they hugged my entire world
This is for Maan - I'll always be beside you until the very end, wiping all of your tears away, being your best friend. I'll smile when you smile and feel all the pain you do, and if you cry a single tear, I promise I'll cry too.
It's YOU. You mean everything to me...you are the first thought in the morning when I wake up, my last thought before I go to bed, you smile at me in my dreams, when you are sad, I feel sad, and when I see your true smile, I feel incredible, like there is no other thing around and all I can see is you.
I've learned it takes years to build up trust, but only seconds to destroy it.
And finally after this long boring Post? I have to say this to myself -No matter what I do, somebody hates me.
And I would like to explain just one thing about Maan...
Maan reacted the way he did because - he is a person who beleived Truth was ultimate in any relationship!! And here is the love of his life calling him false- He did not care she insulted him in front of the whole world.. Here she said his character was false.. thats what hurt Maan the most.. That he had opened up himself to her (ACC to him, she heard the entire conversation), and yet she disbeleived him...So I understand what he went through and I understand his reaction to the pain... He fell back to his safety net - Namely the angry Facade...
However, I wrote this post only to reiterate that even though we do not agree to someone's way of behaving, it would be nice if an attempt is made to understand or atleast accept the person's faults.. The way we readily accept Maan's faults , why dont we accept Geet's??
Udne Ki Aasha
