see , thats what i am saying...i dont say he doesnt love her. i am not saying he wont feel bad...
but right now he thinks that since he is inflicting pain upon himself, and since he and arpi are one , he is right in infic***ing this pain on her....
he does have a life before his marriage, and that has come up, but unfortunately , his love has not taught him to understand the meaning of marriage...a marriage cannot be put on hold like that. relationships dont work taht way and dreamy i have commneted on your post that the prob is not his vulnerability or his past realationships..e.veryone has them and yes cb di, his circs are different....
but avi has shown a lot of sensitivity so far, not just to arpi but to all people ....his sudden insensitivity to arpi smacks almost of a sense of guilt for having a happy relationship where his bhauji didnt...
the prob isnt his vulnerability , its his immaturity and hotheadedness, his lack of calm stability....he has to learn that and come to terms with the fact, that he is now responsible for her and also for his own life....
but i guess the day he gains that stability he will reflect on his own life , and no matter how hard his bhauji tries then, no amount of love will allow him to remain a goon...so thats why i say , his behaviour is a product of his lackings in his upbringing and the drawbacks of his surroundings...there never has been any stability or sanity or deeper mature behaviour around him...