happiness for arman,misery for the poor parents!

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mokshashree

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Posted: 14 years ago

arman reunion somewhat hurriedly done,nevertheless reunited,ok!but i really feel sorry for the karanjhkars and the ranes..jaywant isnt in the list..he s evil..fine..but then,the parents ,arent they worth feeling sorry for?they were really nice...and ofcourse,the karanjhkars,i really pity them ,yaar..forget the deshmukhs,i dont feel anything for them,savita s greedyness and rude behaviour deserves this but never sulochana and manohar as well as the k clan...what did they do to deserve this?how are they going to face the society after this?where did satish s normally decent brain disappear when he asked archu to run from the mandap?cant he think of going direct to sulo and manohar or even vinod about jaywant immediately rather than plotting that way?sulo is the kind tht really loves archu ..she did stop arman s marriage after learning they had lied rite?wouldnt she do it now?what wrong did sulo do to deserve this kind of embarassment..i hated satish today..no offence guys,dont bash me..i think it could have been handled differently..poor shravani..i really wished she would have slapped manav before saying all that..he deserved it for making her suffer..well,i wouldnt be surprised if they show a leap after this and the hatred btw the k clan to arman..they ought to..afterall,arman caused them so much misery first in the name of mahanta now,in the name of love ...no bashing,pls..just a personal feeling,thats all!-lovd archu in open hair today,looked gorgeous,hope no more long sleeve blouses for her-and yes,pls bring on fit and trimmer manav!-

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sherma

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Posted: 14 years ago

i totally agree,i hav actually said d same ting about k family in kooldi commentary.i pity archu parents horrible daughters dey have.

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Nikita Lakhe

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Posted: 14 years ago

I guess Manju will taunt the Karanjkars about the wedding expenses now. I want Manav to work hard and deposit every penny in Manju's hands. Also Manav should apologize to Girish and Archu to Karanjkars.

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Mandy

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Posted: 14 years ago

I don't feel sorry for the parents. Manav tried to warn them about Jaywant but they didn't listen, suddenly a stranger word meant more to them than a man they came to love as a son. Manav told Vinod what was happening to Archana but again everything he said was ignored, no one in Archana's family chose to see her pain. Even her father, who knew Jaywant betrayed Archana's trust before said go through with this marriage.

Then there is Manav's family, well specifically his mom who saw his pain yet was determined to make this marriage happen. She even went as far as to talk to Manav about his suhaag raat, this coming from the same woman who wouldn't let him have a suhaag raat with his then wife Archana. She is consumed by greed.

As for Satish, agreed he could have handled things differently but I don't blame him for making an impulsive choice knowing what was at stake here.

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 14 years ago

I don't feel that bad for the parents .Had Archan married jay , it would have been absolute disaster ..Similarly marrying Shravani would have killed manav from inside ...how can such a sad person make anyone else happy ..

And I am sure thsi was the happiest day of damodar's life ...

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 14 years ago

mokshashree 😊 . I am glad Shravni didnt slap Manav . Coz he didn't ditch her . Had he ditched her , I wud have nagged CVS for that slap . But he didn't . He treated her very badly on an emotional level in the last two years , yes . But looking back I feel that both situations .........slapping Manav and dumping Shravni wud have taken away the dignity of the characters . Shravni , whatever she was , genuinely LOVED Manav in her own way . And Manav , he struggled and struggled with his personal feelings for Archana but remained true to his words . .

I didnt like Satish forgiving varsha so soon .......her attempts to say sorry were hardly enough .One phone call bas and she coolly went back to job job job as before . It was he who came to her AGAIN , as usual while this time I wanted HER for a change to go to him . She has taken his maturity and understanding for granted .All the pampering of Varsha that Archu did and now SAtish did incensed me .

But I dont blame him so much for asking Archu to elope . Convincing her family wud be a big , big ordeal . For one thing , the family wud be divided on the issue . Dharmesh wud have flatly disbelieved him . Vinod wud have sided with Dharmesh . Manju too , coz she wants archu out of the house .Sulo wud be in a fix , not understanding which damads side to take . So wud Manohar . Besides if it boiled down to PROOF , Satish had NONE . Besides there was no time , just an hour for the wedding rituals to start . So he simply told .....Run away , JUST GO . All the rest can be managed later .

I agree with sherma that the K daughters r really a troublesome bunch , no parents shud have such daughters . Archu constantly embarasses her family by taking mahaan decisions that she ultimately cannot live upto , Varsha constantly creates trouble on her self identity mission and Vaishu is very innocent and spoilt ........she doesnt study the repercussions of the step she decides to take ..........that it is far more shameful to eat muft ki rotis at Manjus expense and bear her taunts than eating whats rightfully yours at sasural by staying at your husbands side ..coz what is husbands is legally also the wifes . If u have an issue with ur husband u can tackle it by living with him too .No need to run like a kid to maayka .

But what I feel most sorry for is the wastage of money that ARMAN did ........all the money that went in booking the place , decorations , jewels, catering ......its an AWFUL LOT .I know they dont show the reality in serials and focus on an embrace near a lake , but in real life , parents will have a heart attack if so much lakhs of rupees r WASTED for these idiotic last minute whims simply coz they SUCKED at decision making and didnt do it at the proper time .Money has value . It must be respected . Not at the cost of life , yes , but then cannot life changing decisions be made without wasting money this recklessly ? Vinod must have chipped in with his Dad for Archus wedding too ..........how will he and his wife feel if their savings go down the drain ? For middle class people money cannot be replaced ...its limited and requires careful handling . I dont see this sensitivity in this serial at all . I see BARBAADi of money .under name of 'LOVE "

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Shikha

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Posted: 14 years ago

Yes a lot of money has been wasted ... And we know that every time a k daughter is getting married , manohar borrows money , takes loans .....

going a bit off- topic -

Actually "money matters" in the show has never made sense to me ...
Especially the way manav has handled his money ...
Breaking sachin's FD ( or was that damo's idea ? ) , selling his bike ( I think ? ) for shravani's godh baraai , vandita's dowry ...
Then giving three lakhs to the k's and taking the debt on himself , and the most recent one of 10k .
Sometimes I wonder how the hell has he managed to run the house and get Sachin and vandita a good education , managing their college expenses and all ? He is so bad at saving money ...

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 14 years ago

Manav's financial decisions suck . Currently his income is just 6 thousand rupees and its not sufficient even for a bachelor in mUmbai today . Mumbai is a costly city . . Even Damodars financial advice sucks . What was the need to splurge Sachins insurance money on Rasikas whims anyway ? She gave saris to servant ! .
Archna too ......she just gives up the job anytime , anyhow .In this sense I prefer Varsha , she tries to hang on to her job by fiting with family members although they showed her unncessarily taking break for two years . It was inconsistent with the character .

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Even Dharmu was shown just waiving the loan .

Financial decisions in toto in PR r RIDICULOUS . I hope they put in some effort to rectify this .

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Shikha

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Tanyaz
I don't feel that bad for the parents .Had Archan married jay , it would have been absolute disaster ..Similarly marrying Shravani would have killed manav from inside ...how can such a sad person make anyone else happy ..
And I am sure thsi was the happiest day of damodar's life ...

Well , his reaction is the same in both happiness and sadness .. DRINK , DRINK , DRINK ... 🤪