I am surprised at Mihir...

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Posted: 14 years ago
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.. I thought once he found out that Aastha was infact Smriti he would want to go back to her.. but he wants to stick by Purva because she is his "pyar" and Smriti is his "farz"... !

I can't imagine someone doing that in a real situation.. how could he forget his love for Smriti which was for many years over his love for Purva which is just some months...! I somehow don't think that's very realistic...

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Same here...
I couldn't believe it that he actually called Smriti his 'farz' and Purva his 'pyar'!!
It pi**ed me off big time!! But what can you expect from him now anyways? We know Mihir and Purva are gonna end up together!! Poor Smriti is gonna be left alone! Now that even Karan is bad!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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That is the reason why I feel it's better that Mihir be with Purva....He seems to have forgotten the fact that Smriti is the mother of his child....and more than farz he should also do it for his child....and infact for Smriti who was in disguise just to save her sister's relationship!!!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I wanted Mhir Smriti to be together once again but whatever mihir said was just very wrong. One thing i dont get is that whats the reason for mihir loving purva then smriti. I know that she has done alot for the family but didnt smriti do the same. And if i remember correct, mihir was like in depression after hearing that smriti is dead. he wasnt ready to accelt purva but just cause she helped shalaka and kamini started liking purva he started liking her too? it is just very unfair to smriti to get husbands like Mihir and Karan. At least, i am happy that mihir still cares for Smriti but i hate him for calling smriti his duty and purva his love. Its just unfair to Smriti!!!!

I hope someday he realizes his mistake and not only smriti has suffered much but also amar. Amar loved purva alot but what did she do to him? just left him cause she wanted to save smriti's family? What was amar's fault in that? In my opinion, it has been unfair to these two characters throughout the show. I hope Smriti gets too many happiness.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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It is totally unacceptable to see such a drastic change in Mihir....A man who loved Smriti more than his own life, is now considering her only as his farz just because now he is married to Purva, that too just months relationship.When I saw his eagerness to meet Smriti when he knew she was alive, I thought that man had changed.But yesterday, when he mentioned Smriti only as his farz, I just lost my faith in him....He can never change.If he is to choose between Smriti and Purva, definetely he will choose Purva😕
I don't mean that he has to leave Purva but it would have been more beautiful if they showed that he loves Smriti equal to Purva....Mihir-Smriti was shown so much in love with each other.How come that he forgot Smriti completely when she died!!!! How was it possible for him to give the place of Smriti to Purva....Afterall Smriti is the mother of his child....I would just love to see him giving his child to Smriti.....
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Posted: 14 years ago
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completely agree with each and everyone of you...
It seems his love for Smriti wasn't to that level ...which is not how it was portrayed on the show..
It would have been better to show Mihir in conflict about what to do in this situation... and as pointed out showing that he loved both of them equally..if anything more towards Smriti...since he had been with her longer and they had a lovely relationship...! But they have just shown like he knows exactly what he wants...and that is Purva.. his "pyar"... :(
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Posted: 14 years ago
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For me, my biggest annoyance with this situation was how quickly he made the decision of Purva over Smriti...although it's not official yet, I mean, it's been made pretty clear from HIS point of view...no one knows whats going to happen AFTER the truth is actually revealed to Purva....

but at this point its not him actually choosing one over the other, but how soon he made that decision, how quickly he was able to categorize either of the women into two dstinct places....i would have assumed he would have had a little more conflict in deciding this
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Amar was such a sweet guy....He loved Purva to the core.But poor man was finally ditched....Hope they bring him back...But I just can't see Smriti marrying the third time😕😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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The thing is either way whichever girl mihir choose will upset some people.
Also just because he chose purva over smriti as his love doesnt make him a bad person.
I disagree with you becasue I've noticed that purva was his best friend and someone who he need in his life too since she was there for him whenever he needed someone. Smriti wasnt there. His love for purva ran deeper. Purva help him and define who he is. They have a lot of things in common such as responsbities for their family , they 're strong people with their own passion, support the truth and their marriage was different. ,because it about two people who came together without excepting one another to be their ideal parnter and respected each other while smriti was alive but did not share any relationship beside friendship until she died and time passed. They became closer and gradually love each other. Mihir and Purva shared equality in their marriage which is important, since most people lack that
And just because he found out about smriti doesnt mean his feeling for purva should change otherwise that wouldnt be realistic. He had changed so much had when he lost smriti, in a way he is not the same person when he was with smriti.
Also it is a show they cant actually wait for a year and then start the series to show that time passed, you're suppose to image that time passed more than just few months when he with purva.
At least he respect smriti and her opinions and recongnise that he need to support her too that better than him dismissing her. 😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@charm: well said! 👏 i agree, mihir cant turn his back on purva now.. time has moved on and so have they all and also his relation with purva has moved on

guys, think of it objectively.. we all feel for smriti, she also gave a huge sacrifice and so did purva.. but the way charm puts it, they all came to terms with smriti's death and mihir and purva's feelings developed.. it will also not be right if mihir leaves purva!

time heals all wounds.. looking at smriti and mihir's relation, that love is no longer there, its a respect only.. and purva is his love.. if purva is taking care of smriti's son and smriti is ok with it then where is the problem? we cannot expect mihir to overlook purva and just leave her for his farz! where is the farz? he is helping and supporting smriti in her situation with karan but apart from that there is no feeling between them, its only the pas which even smriti has moved on from!

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