Saying ILU in real...

Hi friends,

Originally posted by: tvrasika

Hi friends,

Just wondered... am sure we all know of someone who has had a 'love' marriage. How do the couple express their love for each other? Just wondered if we could share our knowledge on this matter and help ShaNak as well:) No need to mention real names or relationships or locations etc... just share what you know of how two people told each other ILU the first time. Could be fun:)

The one I know- The guy had been giving the girl a hint for months but she chose to ignore it because she was scared and too young (21)! Finally, after a lot of pestering from the guy, she sent him a photo of hers, because they were in different continents and had never met. they only wrote letters and spoke on ph, in pre-internet era. The guy got the photo, and called her and said 'I think I love you. I want to marry you'! The girl said, 'Oh!'

It's another matter that the very next day, the families got involved... after many yrs of marriage, the girl still doesn't know if hers is an 'arranged' or a 'love' one, LOL...

The girl in question- can't tell ya😉

The guy I know took her out f or Saathiya movie and then proposed her in style during break ..... Its their first movie and he wanted movie to be very realistic like their story ---tsk tsk it was my Jiju n Didi

aawww... Jaya, ur jiju is super romantic:) Do tell him I said so:)

Hmm well shirya, i know ppl who still say ILU in words and with expressions ,....

the girl should be u.. is that rite??

Nice Post...My friends storu is really interesting.. They both met in a computer class and became friends and started going out with each other and finally got married...They call it a love marriage only thing is the girl first proposed here saying i love you and still waiting for her husband:-) to say it out aloud..but he just as our khanak wants her to understand from his actions because according to him actions speak more than words...:-)so funny...

According to me love should be expressed in words...i only want it in words not by action..the feeling when we hear the 3 words from our loved ones is really different from the same we express through actions...be it any relationship for that matter...its a nice gesture...when u love them why to hold back just express it and make them feel special....

@ shalini

Originally posted by: tvrasika

Hi friends,

Just wondered... am sure we all know of someone who has had a 'love' marriage. How do the couple express their love for each other? Just wondered if we could share our knowledge on this matter and help ShaNak as well:) No need to mention real names or relationships or locations etc... just share what you know of how two people told each other ILU the first time. Could be fun:)

The one I know- The guy had been giving the girl a hint for months but she chose to ignore it because she was scared and too young (21)! Finally, after a lot of pestering from the guy, she sent him a photo of hers, because they were in different continents and had never met. they only wrote letters and spoke on ph, in pre-internet era. The guy got the photo, and called her and said 'I think I love you. I want to marry you'! The girl said, 'Oh!'

It's another matter that the very next day, the families got involved... after many yrs of marriage, the girl still doesn't know if hers is an 'arranged' or a 'love' one, LOL...

The girl in question- can't tell ya😉

@ May