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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

I don't have words to describe my reaction when she suggested this to SS!....thankfully he explained it all to her😃.....but I get this feeling, each time Pratigya starts her bashans that her last experience has been wiped off her mind!!!....that is the only explanation as to why she keeps flogging the same dead horse, from different angles!!...😆😆
But I do wonder at the CVs...it is like they had written themselves into a corner.....every now and then they think 'oh we must give P a bashan to sing about, how about this?'.....and all the other times it's the Kriya romance or the Saxes or the new family....It's like they don't know how to progress on, so the show has become an amalgamation of saas-bahu drama, an angry young man and his self realisation, a dysfunctional family and so on..........but more than all this, I would be happy seeing the characters learn and develop....Pratigya, the character is seriously lacking in this and I think that is why many of us find hard to relate with her.....Krishna, at least is shown to be learning now and again......but she too has to learn and grow....




DG, when this drama started out it was about Krishna and Pratigya. his personality vs. her personality.

with their union we have seen some sort of amalgamation of personalities too

I think they have deviated big time from the story line

the show is no longer about them, their issues, their dysfunction, what the life of a girl married to an uneducated jobless tough guy can be like. that is why we came na?

to see a girl that finds herself in a situation where she needs to face the challenges that come with any association with such a person. ego issues, financial issues, the impact of his lackof education on the upbringing of their offspring, the tension between them because of the disparity in their realities, their mindset, their capabilities, their opposing personalities and so on

When she was portrayed as a middle class girl she was relatable

All I see now is a wife of a rich boy who is unaffected by the fact that she lives with a man who has no education, no financial independence and no life goals or plans (other than romance) and who chooses to use her financial comfortable status to focus on social advocacy rather than kitty parties or the like or even the future of her marriage

the focus has to shift back from social issues to relationship issues - theups and downs in their marital future
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I think short term goal should be to obtain land, property, and money for Kesar. Get help from her partner in sachchai to draw up a contract where SS has to abide by ensuring some respite. Long term goal should be educating Kesar into believing that there is a life beyond being a second class citizen. She has been treated appallingly by those who should have protected her and nutured her, be it parents, in laws or her husband. Give her the courage to break the shackles and stigma from being a separated woman. Make her learn new skills that will gain her the self confidence and self respect to stand on her two feet and not rely on anyone, even Pratigya. If Pratigya achieves this then she has reached her goal. It wont give her any glory but give her huge satisfaction, I feel.

But I don't see it happening as there has to be an audience, drama and speech for so called goals to reach. Also it goes against Pratiyga's character to accept such offers as it is not "right" and does not server "justice".


Edited by starlight123 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I know Exactly of such a case . Such things happen . Only this one was in Mumbai . In that case the wife's husband was a very handsome and opprtuunistic , ambitious man . U know what good looks and ambition does don't u ? He PATAOED the divorced sister of a rich industrialist [ he was stinkingly rich with millions two decades back , imagine his wealth nOW}. He would go to this office for some work and this rich divorcee sister was looking after some stuff there to pass time [ the industrialist had advised her to look after some of his business branches after her divorce instead of sitting at home .} . Well , this handsome ambitious but penniless guy with just a graduate degree and a rental flat in Walkeshwar saw his opprtunity . He buttered the Industrialist's sister like she had never been wooed before . He paid her compliments and wined and dined her and FLOORED her .She was UNUSED to such attention from a MAN .U see , she was rich but ugly . { Thats why hubby had divorced her] A horsey , mannish face and a skinny body , flattish from front and behind .No complexion , no figure , no features . Imagine what she must have felt when some guy , looking like a TALL RISHI KAPOOR , paid profuse compliments to her , telling her she drove him crazy . Its EVERY woman's weakpoint , this corny line . Very soon they were having sex . He saw to it that she reached a point where she cud NOT LIVE WITHOUT HIM . . Now here was the hitch ..........he was MARRIED and had a PRETTY wife who loved him like crazy and a 5 year old son . Trust me , the wife was like a film star actress ............no one wud believe it that this guy was ditching her for this ugly divorcee . He was after the wealth of course . . His wife flatly REFUSED to divorce him .She was SO ANGRY [ theirs had been a LOVE MARRAIGe and there the anger is greater] she told him u SOB I will PROLONG the divorce and give u HELL . Just u wait . I won't live with u , but I'll make this divorce a mIRE .
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There The industrialist was ENRAGED . He had BIG plans for his divorcee sister and no way was this GAREEB HANDSOME MARRIED GUY WITH SON acceptable to him .He tried to talk sense , threatened , cajoled .........did everything but his ugly sister wept and wept and threatened suicide .
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Then The industrialist studied the situation practically .He knew the mans motives very well , but he also knew how to turn loss into profit . This SOB has bRAINS , he cud use them .Anyways his sis was BEYOND listening point .So he called the man's wife for a meeting and told her
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Look , Personally , I have fULL SYMPATHY for YOU . But my sister is adamant on marrying ur SOB hubby . Or she will slit her wrists or sumthing and my old mom will get an attack . So I suggest to u to calm down and think practically . Do u really want that SOB back ? Even if this divorce is prolonged , what will u get ? U have lost him and he is nothing great financially . All u will get is temprarary revenge and pain .
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Here is my offer . Give a speedy mutual divorce so that ur hubby can marry my stupid sis , without dragging it . And I will take full responsibility of your son . You are living in rental flat na ? I will give u an ownership flat on your name , cash settlement or job .whatever u prefer , and I will see to it that your son gets the bEST possible education ........all expenses paid my me . Take him out of the ordinary school he is going to and put him in the best CBSE school u want to . Till his career goal is accomplished I will fund his education and later if he wants , Ill see he gets job too .
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But give the divorce ASAP . If u dont , I will employ a fleet of the best lawyers and get it anyways . U wont get anything then . Unnecessarily some years will be wasted . Decide .
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Well the wife thought and wiped her tears and told him OK . He was really being very generous and fair in his own way . She had anyways lost her hubby , there was no point in being sentimental .She decided to make the BEST out of this situation .
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Well they divorced and Ugly Betty married Tall Rishi Kapoor . They have two kids and r very happy . The beautiful wife didnt marry but with the industrialist's help made a fine career for herself , educated the son in a Doon school and the industrialist , true to his word , sent him abroad to do higher studies in engineering all expenses paid . She is todate on very excellent terms with this industrialist and he is grateful she listened to him ..
POint is .......although both cases r vastly different ............if at that point she had decided to make an USOOL fight she wud have got NOTHING . She decided to gRAB the opprtunity of lifetime as husband was already gone .
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Kesars husband has already GONE . He is a GONE CASE . Who wants him back ?To prove a point , that too ? He has murdered 5 of her children and may murder her in future if Pratigya stupidly decides to make an issue and keep them together .What big support has she given Kesar todate ? Even after the miscarraige she brought her back to same Hell hole , she doesnt even know the address of an NGO . She is herself living off the same sasur whom she gives bhashans ...........what will SHE of all people help Kesar ? Kesar shud take financial help from SS and move out gracefully and be relieved Shakti is remarrying .
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