Today we again saw a shattered Riddhima But in this state also she has slowly but subtly started giving hints as to where she is and wants to be .........
I feel sad for this character cause she is slowly realizing that if she wants happiness for all she will have to let go of something dear to her and bring about the transformations the hard way cause there is no other way
So here it is the dialogues of the day by Riddhima
To armaan -
Tumhe kya lagta hai armaan Mera tumhare kareeb ana ye mera pyar hai tumhare liye ??? -
She was referencing to what armaan said that Riddhima will not allow anyone close to her if that person has not touched her heart and soul ........... She is not in love with armaan if she was she would not asked that as a question.
Its a significant dialogue that everyone is ignoring vry conveniently! I dunno if it was put just like tht or did it really have some meaning! She actually made it crystal clear tht its not her love for him tht made her lose herself - it was those old happy memories... a dream tht cud never come true... she wanted to live those dreams just for one moment! Does tht justify her act? NO! but it does clear out things! For sure!
Mujhe saach ka saamna karne ki himmat nahi hai to kyu karte ho tum mujhse pyar
She is not ready to accept that her heart is neither with armaan nor Sid but and she is not ready to accept cause both are going to be hurt yet armaan loves hers hence it hurts
Again, ppl interpreting it as - the truth is she s in love with armaan and she cant face it! But you have to put it in context of wat she said earlier - tht its NOT her love for him which made her go close to armaan! So the truth cannot be tht she s still in love with armaan.. And i kinda agree now, she s not given her heart to sid completely - but tht doesnt mean she s doesnt love sid - she was well on her way of falling in love with him till the past came haunting again!
To Sid
Tumhe lagta hai ki aapne aap ko mujhese door rakhkar mere khushi ke liye hi ye pyar hai tumahara mere liye -
She is questioning cause she expected him to exercise his rights instead of giving her space. She has given him the right She always wanted him to feel that indeed he has a right on her. (she is also referencing the scene before she first meets Sid's mom as she is unwell in the hospital where she is doing self talk and say 'Tumhe poocha bhi nahi shayaad itna haq hi nahi samajha mujhepar) Also secretly she feels that if he had not given her so much space she may have been more restrained and conscience towards armaan Why she says this is that it is difficult for her to decipher why how can he be so understanding
This for me, was the most interesting of the lot! Really... coz it says what we have been saying - why r u so understanding sid! He should have claimed wat is his - she belongs to sid and maybe...just maybe..she wanted him to jatao his haq on her once... u know sometimes, when our partner gives us too much space thinking tht its best to take it slow... we end up thinking, do they really consider us their own? y are they not being a lil possessive et al... too much of anything is bad! and tht goes for good things too!
Tumhare saath rahekar bhi meine kisi aur ka saath dene ki galti ki aur phir bhi tum mere pyar ka saboot de raho ho
Here she is referencing all the times she has neglected Sid for armaan and also the tent incident She find it too perfect to digest that her husband yet is not ready to believe that she can deceive him when she actually has. Here she references to Sid's statement that armaan led her to her fond memories and made her vulnerable
Later Sid has affirmed this in the precap where he says he cannot believe Riddhima deceived him
Perfectly put... nothing to add!
To both men -
Kyu karte ho mujhese itna pyar -
This is the agony I had spoken in one of my posts ......... It is a very tricky situation where one knows someone loves you but you cannot reciprocate the same
She cannot handle the agony she is putting the men through but any decision is going to lead to agony of atleast one ....... And it is difficult choice cause she cares for both
Yes... its a bloody tricky situation.. on one hand is a man who she was in love with and on the other hand is a man who she was falling in love with... and both love her...
Woh ek kamzor pal tha jo mere zindagi ki galti ban gaya
Here world came crashing down and has brought Sids also. It also led to armaan being mislead which will give a bigger blow to him It is a lose lose situation which has gotten created due to her kamzor pal
Riddhima is still not taking offense of any of armaan actions (she stopped him twice from interfering yet he did not stop That is causing more damage things would have been different if Sid and Riddhima handled it alone) cause she knows that she is the reason for his pain and also she does not want to ruin her memories of their relationship
But alas now all relationships have turned sour.
I am happy that at least she regards it as a galti unlike some delusional stalker who thinks its love!!! I was aghast at the way armaan kept butting in like tht!
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