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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthi2010

hi
this topic is really good. i m late in answering this. marriage (arranged and love) are based on compromises. in love marriages the couple know each other well so the time to adjust is less b cos there is support between them. in arranged marriages the individuals take time to support each other. Aham is not as selfish as Rashi .Rashi's main aim was to marry a rich man so she can a more comfortable life.

Aham is momma's boy. he cant hurt his mom feelings. when he sacrifices his love for his mom he will surely sacrifice his tough exterior when he understands gopi. koki choose gopi over Anitha because as she always tell a mother knows which is better for her children. she knew though it will take time for ahem to compromise, he will realize the goodness in gopi and her efficiency in household management which will lack in anitha. this kind of love which is slowly blossoming between them will make their bond of love strong and make them survive any misunderstandings in future.

marriage is nothing but compromise of another individuals intrusion in ones space. but when love is there nothing matters.

Hope u like it.


Liked it very much, Shruthi. You are right about Rashi and her selfishness in wanting to marry rich for her own comfort. Aham is selfish in his love. His love for Anita was ripped from him, so he's going to be very selfish with it this time.

I think another aspect for both Aham and Rashi is vulnerability. Neither of them wants to be vulnerable. Sorry folks! Marriage and physical intimacy requires vulnerability. They are both going to have to give up quite a bit of ego if they want their marriages to work.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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SHRUTHI LOVED UR LAST LINE. WTS THE FEAR WEN LOVE IS HERE.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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since i m married and had to make compromise and still making (both of us) i was able to relate to it.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: -tellyaddict-

SHRUTHI LOVED UR LAST LINE. WTS THE FEAR WEN LOVE IS HERE.



hey i thought u people r in dream land cozily sleeping
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Posted: 15 years ago
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hey m from india only, nt sleeping bt dreaming thats correct. and believe me m literally dreaming abt yesterdays scene, gopi, sari n off course aham in business suit .

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