Originally posted by: MERARAI
Among the uneducated beating is done openly and often without care or worry about who knows about it. The educated play Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. There is often a public persona and then the nasty side comes behind closed doors. The problem is often the perception of the abuser of life and unable to process and deal with things. These patterns are established very early in life under the age of 5 really, when children have not been given a healthy emotional feedback growing up. Emotional responses received go into the permanent memory banks in our brain.In many cases this abusive behavior is caused by chemical imbalances in the brain. It takes effort, insight and maybe some prof. help to overcome this behavior in some rare cases. Very often the abuser was once abused him or herself. Though not as common, there are instances when the women trash the men too. What they need is help.