I do not mind comments by other fan groups, but I have believed in keeping peace on this war-zone called DMG forum!!π
So, if you have anything sarcastic to say, please keep it to yourself!!π!Let me have fun with an AR post, and you can have fun with the posts that support your thoughts!π³π³
So now, I can start...π
Armaan and Ridhima have finally realized that they still love each other!!!! πAnd that happened just after Ridhima's second marriage..π²
Has anybody given a thought why now?π³
Well, that was becoz Armaan was absent once again wen Ridhima took her "so called" vows with Sid the second time..π
most of us on the forum agree that Ridzy had not taken her vows with dedication during her 1st time,π and most of the DMGians felt that the second time will happen with all her passion to be with Sid.π²..
my question: Did she take her vows passionately with 100% dedication to be with SId even the second time?? π₯±
My Answer: NOPE....as she walked towards the "mandap", she memorized her "roka" with Armaan...and that she did with 100% dedication, 100% passion π³..coz her heart reminded her of those moments!
I have always stressed on the point that Ridhima is fighting between her mind and heart π³ever since she has entered into a relation with Sid.π₯±..I have seen a few posts on the forum today that have mentioned many statements by Ridhima in favor of her efforts to show Sid that she loves him..π.but the bottomline is...it was her mind forcing her to love SId as she said all these dialogues.π
Yesterday, when Sid came to kiss her on her neck, she just ran away saying that she has tried her best to accept him in her life.π.but is unable to...Why? π³Becoz she is now tired of listening to her mind.π..her heart is winning over her mind now.π³.her heart, which lies with Armaan...whenever she spoke romantic lines to Sid, it was becoz she knew he is a very good person,π a gr8 husband and thats wat the problem isπ₯±...she loves Armaan but cannot hurt Sid..BECOZ she knows that Sid does not deserve to be hurt...
But what can she do about her heart?π...she needs to realize that SID shall be further hurt if she does not speak up..
she needs to tell SId " That she has not forgotten Armaan..and she can never forget Armaan"..π³..Thats the best solution.π..and not speaking up will HURT SId more..π₯±.what makes Ridzy think that if Sid approaches her to intimate with her like most couples do..her running away shall not upset or hurt him...??
And by the way, her running away NOW has a strong reason..πshe has finally realized that she CANNOT give herself to Sid completely..specially after her encounter with Armaan.π³..I will not justify if AR should have had that passionate moment or not...coz I too have mixed feelings about it..π²
But I shall surely say that IT WAS ONE of the most SIGNIFICANT event that has recently happened in AR's life..and it was an important one too....π
Why?π
1. It opened up Ridhima's eyes and made her realize that Armaan was, is and shall always be the guy whom she shall love with all her heart and passion.π Her mind kept telling her to consumate her relation with Sid..and she kept attempting in futile to succeed in it...but she couldnt...when Sid gave her an outfit indicating what he wanted, πher mind said..."Sid is my husband and he deserves to be intimate with me.π².and hence, when Sid told her to convince him that she is his, she attempted to do so by wearing the outfit..π.but cud she move ahead with her attempt? πWe saw the re-marriage, which was again a decision of her mind.π.but when it came to giving her heart to Sid during the c-night, she faltered once more...π².in-spite of being "married" to Sid, she has been thinking so hard to give all her self to him.π₯±...and what happened when Armaan approached her?..π³.she did not remember anything else..not her marriage, not the society.....coz she did not need to be calculative of what she was doingπ...she was doing what her heart made her do!!πI know that many on the forum call this act of AR disgusting, and I shall not argue about that.π₯±..but if I leave the dimensions of an EMA and think wearing Ridhima's shoes, all I can say is her heart, her soul, had always belonged to Armaan..π.becoz she had never believed completely that she is married to SId..she had never been accepted her "marriage" whole-heartedly.π²..forget fulfilling it!!! π₯±Whereas she had always carried Armaan in her thoughts, her speech, and her actions π³,...she had felt his presence even if she cud not see him.π.she had thought of him while taking her marriage vows.π..physically, her body was sitting in that mandap marrying Sid...but her essence, her soul was actually getting married to Armaan.....ππ³.
2. Another reason why the passionate scene was significant for AR was becoz along with an eye-opener for Ridzy, it was an eye-opener for Armaan too...π
till now, Armaan lived in an illusion that Ridhima had moved on.π..and hence he started an attempt to move on too....πBUT only wen Ridzy declared that she was re-marrying Sid, Armaan's heart fluttered..π².and realized that he has not yet moved on..!!!!!And it can never move on.π₯±...and his heart whispered back to him...if I have not moved on...how do I get convinced that Ridhima has moved on?? Didnt we love each other to the extremes together?π³..was our passion for each other not the same??π If I left her for protecting her life, did she not take a bullet to protect my life?? πWhen I used to be hurt and lie on my bed mourning, did she not shed tears as if she is hurt?? πIf I can never forget her, doesnt that mean that she can never forget me??π AND HE CAME DOWN TO FIND THE ANSWERS TO ALL HIS QUESTIONS...again, many people have called Armaan a stalker who was following a married woman on her honeymoon.π²π₯±..but think what might be going deep inside the heart of a guy who believed that his love can never forget him.π..the truth he had just realized about how much he loved this girl.π³.he was only trying to find out whether she has really "moved on"..π.he must have been so nervous and perplexed with this thought.π₯±...becoz if his mind was right, taht she HAS moved on...then he wud be shattered...his belief in the feeling of love that the two once shared wud be shattered..π.but amazingly, his heart was RIGHT..π.and the intense moment they shared opened up his eyes.π..he got the answers to all his questions.π..his love, his basket, his ridhima was at the same junction as he was...none of them had "moved on"ππ
And now, Armaan is all set to convince her that home is where the heart is!π³!!He shall be the reason for her to be in peace again.π³.her smile shall not be an artificial one.π.her mind and heart shall not constantly keep fighting till she goes insane.π..She cannot lead a life in illusion.π.she cannot love him but be with SId just becoz Sid is a gr8 guy.π²..she cannot be confused forever.π.she cannot spoil 3 lives...she cannot loose her sanity..π.she has to realize before its too late...and Armaan is all set to make her realize...ππΌ
I wish Armaan and Ridhima all the best and await the day when she shall realize where she and her essence basically belong?π€..she needs to resolve her confusion, and it shall never get resolved until she speaks up that she was, is and shall always remain Armaan's.π₯³..her heart, her mind need to be one...and stop conflicting....π₯±
This view is purely as an AR fan...I have watched the AR love story and have concluded my analysis in the situation they face todayπ³. I understand everyone shall not agree to my conclusions, but please try to respect it and I shall respect yours.π
And hey, sorry again if this one is looongg....you guys know me by now, dont ya...π
But I wud love if you guys read it and comment...it keeps me inspired to ponder and write more...π³
Love and peace,
Priπ³