The bone of contention? (All welcome)

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Posted: 14 years ago
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For all the posts and polls and petitions floating around here, I have one question for all the fans...What is it that is really bothering you about this whole track?

1. The fact that AR fans finally get to see a romantic, hot and sexy scene of their characters and dont care how that act can portray the characters of AR, or how much it glamorizes something that hurts families and lives in general in real life even though its a serial?
2. The fact that it means SR and ArSh fans are going to be rightfully disgusted and more united towards a general pov that AR's love isnt really "pure" and "true" if both of them lapse back after a second chance?
3. The fact that there is an Extra Marital Affair going to be shown, which might as well be a dream (which i doubt) and that this whole track has destroyed the goodness if any , in all of the top protagonists?
4. The amount of effect this might/could/possibly have on the young generations of today...who even though dont turn to TV for their moral educations, would learn inadvertently that true love knows no bounds, societal, moral or otherwise?


I for one, am bothered about the last 2. And it bothers me how many fans stoop low enough to praise the track and what it means to them...if they are praising the actors, i am all for it, but fighting for a meaningless track that all it does is demoralizes everyone, I think is pointless. I will however state clearly that Karan and Jennifers chemistry on-screen is fantabulous..and looks very real..
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No disclaimers, you are more than welcome to comment/bash/agree/cry/laugh or make fun of this topic as long as it's not personal.⭐️

~Naina
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coolkitty_23 thumbnail
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i realize there is going to be 70+ views before anyone comments..but i'll wait...😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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And what about weeks of guilty Riddhima, angry Sid, and sad Armaan that is in store for us? Think about us also, we poor viewers.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: funfan

And what about weeks of guilty Riddhima, angry Sid, and sad Armaan that is in store for us? Think about us also, we poor viewers.



True I guess that is also in store...more melodrama and more apologizing for mistakes eh?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Lovely post. I agree with you, its the last two that bother me. The fact that something as unacceptable as adultery is going to be shown-which hurts so many people, families. Its not only immoral and unjustifiable, but it tarnishes Armaan and Riddhima as characters, as people. And the kind of message it sends out-I really don't have words for that.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I'm an AR fan, and I really don't know what to think. There's part of me that's thrilled to see Armaan and Riddhima together in a way that we haven't for almost a year.
But your point about it 'glamoriz[ing] something that hurts families and lives in general' is part of what makes me not so happy as most AR fans would think I ought to be.
But what's really bothering me is similar to your option 3. Because I always considered AR's love to be so pure, it seems completely out of character for them to have and EMA. It completely ruins 3 years of what, for me, has been an example of a pure and beautiful love story. This one thing has completely changed the essence of Armaan and Riddhima, and indeed of DMG.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hi Coolkitty,
The only objectionable (and it's REALLY objectionable!) part I found in your post is (I'm quoting you) -
"And it bothers me how many fans stoop low enough to praise the track and what it means to them..."
You are welcoming people to post even negative reponse to your post provided (again quoting you) "it's not personal". And yet, you yourself have made a very personal attack on many fans in this forum!!!!
I myself am not in favor of AR committing adultery, but I'm going to respect the views of those fans that are in favor because just because someone has a different point of view than you does not mean that it gives you the right to put them down in any way!!!
Just my 2 cents. Sorry if it offends you.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: StarshineHues

Lovely post. I agree with you, its the last two that bother me. The fact that something as unacceptable as adultery is going to be shown-which hurts so many people, families. Its not only immoral and unjustifiable, but it tarnishes Armaan and Riddhima as characters, as people. And the kind of message it sends out-I really don't have words for that.



Sometimes it makes me wonder, what really do the creatives think before they make such crazy tracks? and the fact tht its mostly youngsters who watch this, is even more horrifying for me...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: neel_jay

Hi Coolkitty,

The only objectionable (and it's REALLY objectionable!) part I found in your post is (I'm quoting you) -
"And it bothers me how many fans stoop low enough to praise the track and what it means to them..."
You are welcoming people to post even negative reponse to your post provided (again quoting you) "it's not personal". And yet, you yourself have made a very personal attack on many fans in this forum!!!!
I myself am not in favor of AR committing adultery, but I'm going to respect the views of those fans that are in favor because just because someone has a different point of view than you does not mean that it gives you the right to put them down in any way!!!
Just my 2 cents. Sorry if it offends you.



Ermm...actually it doesnt really offend me, and its not personal because i am saying these "Fans" are stooping low as fans..i am not personally attacking the person..that would be true only had i names names..or called out a particular set of fans which i havent. So i'll stick with it. And if fans have stooped low, trust me there is nothing i can do to put them down more : ) i dont think I would associate with such things.

And ahem putting more than one "!" doesnt really emphasize your point any more than I think I need to put emphasis on it :) so chill. And its "REALLY" not objectionable.
~Naina.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nikhi...

I'm an AR fan, and I really don't know what to think. There's part of me that's thrilled to see Armaan and Riddhima together in a way that we haven't for almost a year.

But your point about it 'glamoriz[ing] something that hurts families and lives in general' is part of what makes me not so happy as most AR fans would think I ought to be.
But what's really bothering me is similar to your option 3. Because I always considered AR's love to be so pure, it seems completely out of character for them to have and EMA. It completely ruins 3 years of what, for me, has been an example of a pure and beautiful love story. This one thing has completely changed the essence of Armaan and Riddhima, and indeed of DMG.



It was a nice story between AR, funny, light hearted and very romantic...but i guess DMG couldnt stay out of the pressure to be more dramatic...😕😕

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