Boy-Girl can never be just friends- Myth or Fact?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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A boy & a girl can surely be FRIENDS...but best friends...do you think it ALWAYS heads to something more in future? It's a myth, a boy & a girl can never be just friends (thanks to KKHH😆)...but to some extent isnt it a fact too? I brought this topic up cuz in TL the same thing happened...TaAnu, BEST FRIENDS, taani fell in love wid onu but he saw their relationship as friends only . Nupur, she's so not ready to believe TaAnu are best friends only...cuz one of them is a girl & the otehr one is a guy? :/ So do you guys believe in this myth? I haven't seen one real-life story yet...only saw such stories in movies & show, so i don't know😆

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Mages thumbnail
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Posted: 15 years ago
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well more than kuch kuch hota hai.....
this questions have been asked since MAINE PYAR KIYA days...but still no answer till now......
well it depends of the depth of friendship.....some friendship does turn into love....but its very minimum percentage yaar.....i still have no answer to it....
i have a best friend....but i am not in love with him....but he does have the qualities that i would want in my husband.....we talk for hours....still i have confused feelings for him.....he is my best friend but i don't know i love him or not.....i guess i am female version of anu....my mom thinks we both are in love...but i am sure that its not love...i am just his best friend......its been now 3 years already....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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hi shonaa & mages,

da phrase 'boy & girl can never be friends' reminds me of HUM TUM 😆 anyways gettin back to da point, even i hav guys who are just friends but i'v never felt any romantic feelings towards them so i truly believe dat a boy & a girl can always be friends...

but i'v seen few scenarios where two friends fall for each other and it happened to one of my best friends as well.... she continued to reject da idea of her falling for him but at da end she had to admit she loved him and so did he. so all was well dere and now they'r happily married plus living in UK

with taani & anurag's case, i feel really sorry taani 😭 i feel sorry for onu too but im more sympathetic towards taani cuz i can understand hw she feels since im a girl 😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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it's a myth. will explain why tomorrow! 😃
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I haven't met any Boy-Girl best friends.... who haven't ended falling in love wid each other...
So.... Dunno abt real life..
But coming to Reel life.. I'm sure Taani is heart-wrecked!... The person whom she has loved since childhood.. doesn't love her.... And I dunno about Anurag... he is confusing me more n more......
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Posted: 15 years ago
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its a myth.......
i have friends who are boys...and i never ended up loving them!
and vice versa!🤣
so its not necessary if u r friends with boys...u'll end up loving them!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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im gonne say its a myth...i have a guy best friend....i dont feel for him teh same way i would for another guy i was attracted to...sure hes good looking and there is a lever of physical attraction there but it isnt over the top like OMG...i love you soo much..marry me and stuff
But then again, that is my friendship...in some stories people end up falling in love because they cant imagine their life with someone else or cant imagine life without them...in other cases teh girl in this case, wont believe that 2 people are jsut friends....
its a different perspective...it really depends on the way one feels and the angle other looks at it from...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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It's a myth!
😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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it depends! like i have best guy friends, but i dont see them in that way you know? uss nazar se kabhi nahi deka! 😆 we always talk about relationship stuff and other things you know? haha im always helping him out with girls and how to talk to them about serious issues. its just nice having a guy best friend. i dunno why but i always feel that they are WAY more truthful about things than girls are...you know how we always sugarcoat stuff so our other friends dont get hurt and stuff? 🤣 and maybe since we both dont like eachother in that way that we have become good, sincere friends.

but then i feel that the girls and guys who do fall in love and are best friends have always had a thing for eachother. you know what i mean? like even before they were good friends they thought of eachother as a good catch. like my friend....thats how it happened with her! they both liked eachother and they just started talking as friends and one day BAM! best friends! and they just kind of fell more in love with eachother you know? and now they are finally a couple. FINALLY! hahaha

so its kind of based on what intentions you have in the friendship that leads to a guy and a girl best friend to fall in love? does that even make sense? 🤓 i think i just went around in cirlces 🤣🤣🤣


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Posted: 15 years ago
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well for me it depend
i know a girl and a boy who were best friend now they are in love ...in fact they are married

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