JOGI................A GUD FATHER OR NOT

Originally posted by: prithvi123

HAI............................... I THINK HE IS A GUD FATHER👏................ HE LOVED HIS KIDS DEEP HEARTEDLY(TAPPU AND ICHCHA) IRRESPECTIVE OF THIINKING WHO IS HIS OWN BLOOD AND WHO IS NOT❤️...............................HE GAVE THE SAME SANSKAR TO BOTH OF HIS KID👍🏼S BUT UNFORTUNATELY HIS BLOOD NEVER FOLLOWED IT😭😡.................... HIS ADOPTED ONE ALWAYS FOLLOWED HIS WAY ,THOUGHTS AND SANSKAR👍🏼.........HE GAVE MUCH CHANCE TO TAPPU TO CHANGE AND REPENT ON WHAT SHE DID........... BUT SHE NEVER UNDESTOOD HER FATHER😡................. EVEN NOW HE GAVE HER A CHANCE TO CHANGE AND LEAD HER LIFE PERFECTLY👏( I THINK SHE WIIL NEVER UNDERSTAND HER PAPPA😡).................. HE IS STRONG CHARACTER WITH PERFECT DECISION👏............. BUT HE WAS/IS SUPPOSEDTO TELL TAPPU THAT WHAT HE DID/DOES/WILL DO 4 ICHCHA IS ONLY A PAY-FOR AND OUT OF ATONEMENT ...... (I HOPE AFTER UNDERSTANDING HER FATHER AND HIS ATONEMENT SHE WILL CHANGE 2 A NEW 1😃😃😉) WHAT U SAY......................

he is the best father. people. i sometime surprised, wht patience he hs. after jungle episode, even he was very angry (which is very normal for a father seeing how his love hs spoiled her own daughter), and decided to send her hostel as punishment, but how he calmly tried to explain her. but its his unfortune tht he got such devil as his daughter.

he is undoubtedly a good father but failed to inculcate dat values in her daughter too...................

I believe Jogi has been a good father. But I still feel that somewhere he started ignoring the essential communication he should have had with his daughter...so that she could understand where his affection for Ichha stems from..and wouldn't have misunderstood it.

*A small incidence I remember....when I was a little kid I used to often visit my aunt's place...my uncle -aunt loved me..and so did my sweet cousin-their daughter. I would sometimes sit on my uncle's lap...while my cousin would be there......her eyes would almost get full of tears...my uncle never failed to notice that moment of pain for her. And he would make sure-he made it up to her-convinced her that she was more important to him than anyone else.... My cousin has grown upto be an emtionally very strong person with good self esteem . Its very very important to notice your child's psychology and her pain.

Having said that...no one is infallible-and even the best parents make mistakes....its only unfortunate and tragic that his mistake translated into such an unbearable pain for his daughter. That was misfortune....but now the focus should be how can they correct it...I feel they should punish her for sometime........then introduce her to psychological therapy...healing ..counseling etc, keep her away from Ichha for a while ..and help her focus on her own life.

Jogi has made mistakes....but I won't rate him as a bad father or person....no one is infallible ...and destiny plays its role too. The focus needs to be how to react to a situation, and not curse the situation or any one person. Overall..I feel Jogi is an not a bad father..and is a very good person.

I feel hes a good father. But lack of support from Divya. She was always quite dormant. when the father is out working the mother has to inculcate values in the child. She used to just sit on the couch with nani ordering servants around without being serious abt her daughter. Any parent handling a child singlehandedly and also simultaneously working cannot be 100% perfect. Ammo was with Icha all the time and she also trained Tapasya alongwith her but right from childhood Tapasya had a bit of superiority air abt herself that she was rich. Those went against her since the beginning itself.

Originally posted by: fast trak

I feel hes a good father. But lack of support from Divya. She was always quite dormant. when the father is out working the mother has to inculcate values in the child. She used to just sit on the couch with nani ordering servants around without being serious abt her daughter. Any parent handling a child singlehandedly and also simultaneously working cannot be 100% perfect. Ammo was with Icha all the time and she also trained Tapasya alongwith her but right from childhood Tapasya had a bit of superiority air abt herself that she was rich. Those went against her since the beginning itself.

Jogi was excellent but with nani away he cudve got Tapasya more into control. It was Nani and Divya that made things worse.

OF COURSE he is a great dad!!!!!

Originally posted by: pooja83

he is undoubtedly a good father but failed to inculcate dat values in her daughter too...................

Excellent Quote..................... wow👏

i think he is a very good father..a balanced mix of love and discipline,both of which are needed as a parent..unfortunately,divya was no help and more of a liability when it came to discipline...she gets carried away way too soon..taps shud not have been brought back frm the hostel..she had begun realising her attitude as wrong bt tht stint ended too soon..nani shud have been kicked out bt divya darling had issues wid it..these couple things shud have been taken care of..otherwise i think jogi as a father rocks..

Originally posted by: anu rulz

i think he is a very good father..a balanced mix of love and discipline,both of which are needed as a parent..unfortunately,divya was no help and more of a liability when it came to discipline...she gets carried away way too soon..taps shud not have been brought back frm the hostel..she had begun realising her attitude as wrong bt tht stint ended too soon..nani shud have been kicked out bt divya darling had issues wid it..these couple things shud have been taken care of..otherwise i think jogi as a father rocks..