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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anu-Reddy

but do u think his so called "impluse" nature a result of the bad relations he had in past?.

Being impulsive is I guess what he is. He quiet impulsive with everything...not only in the matters of the heart. We have seen this in his dealings with Anna too. Its this impulsiveness and hastiness that made him 'punish' Naku with marriage. If he would have reserved his judgement till say the next morning he might have thought differently. But then we are all glad that in this case he was hasty.😉😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anu-Reddy

but do u think his so called "impulse" nature a result of the bad relations he had in past?.



Oh definitely....especially impulsive about jumping to the worst of conclusions cuz of the horrible betrayals he's gotten in his past....the first when he was a young, sweet, simple guy....and that made such a huge impact that it changed his life forever.....and the second when he thought he was a hardened, wiser man who could never be taken for a ride again....but sadly again he was betrayed in a terrible manner.....it's hard for any psyche to fully recover from something like that....no matter how much Nakku's love and implicit support have helped heal those wounds of his past....somewhere the scars of those betrayals are still there and even the semblance of what he perceives to be "rejection" in a form will definitely make him jump to conclusions....especially in this case cuz he had slowly gained this strong confidence back and had been so sure that Nakku was as eager to hear these words from him as he was to say them.....but Nakku totally shocked him by running out on him.....so given his past and what the women in his past have said to him when they've run out on him....he usually presumes those reasons first off....that they are afraid of him....repulsed by his touch etc. etc.

I guess until there is full disclosure b/w Dutta-Nakku about everything, these issues will continue to linger....

All this aside, I still can't figure out for the life of me what he's going to say to Nakku in the Monday epi😆.....I'm very intrigued to see how that scene unfolds.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: nureat01



You guys make an interesting point.....and yeah I also agree to a certain extent that Dutta does find security in her lack of good looks.....it's in a way helped him to trust her relatively more easily as well since he now has a deep seated suspicion of beautiful women.....so it's possible that this very point will be used to create future problems b/w Dutta-Nakusha after her true face is revealed.....I guess Dutta will struggle with his insecurities over this and ultimately have to overcome and realize that Nakku's beauty/ugliness have nothing to do with her love for him....in a way Nakku and Dutta both have to bring each other out of their insecurities....Nakku has to make Dutta realize that beauty doesn't necessarily equal betrayal and to learn to have implicit faith in love....her love for him....while Dutta has to make Nakku stop looking at her beauty as a curse by accepting her fully and making her feel beautiful inside and out.

The makers of this show sure have created an interesting set of insecurities for these characters to keep the drama and conflicts flowing
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Very true1 Talking of finding security in Naku's ugliness I guess not only Dutta but everyone else esp Kala did find that same security too. If Naku was in her real avatar then maybe seeing so much closeness between Dutta and Naku might have got Kala attention as something more than just friendship. So basically Naku doesnt appear as a threat as she is ugly.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: nureat01



Oh definitely....especially impulsive about jumping to the worst of conclusions cuz of the horrible betrayals he's gotten in his past....the first when he was a young, sweet, simple guy....and that made such a huge impact that it changed his life forever.....and the second when he thought he was a hardened, wiser man who could never be taken for a ride again....but sadly again he was betrayed in a terrible manner.....it's hard for any psyche to fully recover from something like that....no matter how much Nakku's love and implicit support have helped heal those wounds of his past....somewhere the scars of those betrayals are still there and even the semblance of what he perceives to be "rejection" in a form will definitely make him jump to conclusions....especially in this case cuz he had slowly gained this strong confidence back and had been so sure that Nakku was as eager to hear these words from him as he was to say them.....but Nakku totally shocked him by running out on him.....so given his past and what the women in his past have said to him when they've run out on him....he usually presumes those reasons first off....that they are afraid of him....repulsed by his touch etc. etc.

I guess until there is full disclosure b/w Dutta-Nakku about everything, these issues will continue to linger....

All this aside, I still can't figure out for the life of me what he's going to say to Nakku in the Monday epi😆.....I'm very intrigued to see how that scene unfolds.

Dutta seemed all set to lash out...but u never know...LTL always surprises us.

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