Originally posted by: IndigoBlues
In serials, marriages are supposed to be holy bonds. So the argument every fan makes is once married-always married. Divorce ya separation ka koi sawaal hi nahin, because this is a heavenly match, and isse todna bhagwan ka apmaan hoga.
So here I ask you
Will God support an abusive husband or wife? (No offence to Veeya lovers, but you all can clearly see that Veer reciprocates Tapasya's desires only when he is (ahem, ahem) drunk.)
Will God support anti-widows?(So Iccha doesn't have right to love Veer...poore din sirf Vansh ka maatam manaayegi)
Will God support marriage swaps? (It's both Taps and Iccha's galti...Taps for proposing, and Iccha for not opposing)
Will God support doing a jhutaa natak of love? (We know Veer wants to avenge Vansh..par ab usme or Tapu mein farak hi kya raha? pathar ka jawab pathar se?)
Will God support a mother who uses her baby to emotionally BLACKMAIL someone?
(Acchi patni nahin ban payi...to acchi maa to bano, Tapuji. I'm telling you, entire life her baby will only be Veer Junior. He or she will never have an identity other than that of what her/his mother wants to make for her/him.)
Is this really the value of ek chutki sindoor???
Ji u r quite right and if u know me I have been saying for all eternity that the instituion of marriage is the one I respect most in this world. For me the sindoor and the mangalsutra are to be forever respected as more than ornaments and the saat pheres are to be taken only once...as they bind you to your spouse for seven lifetimes. Its an atoot bandhan of vishwas and saat janams ka saath. I have already expressed my utter disapproval at the way VeeYa's marriage happened and I know that many may think my biased towards VeeYa would make me accept such an act! They are wrong! Saying this...I believe that Tapu did not do this shaadi for the wrong reasons. Even though we know otherwise, she had somehow at that time deluded herself into believing that she was in love with Veer. I base this on the fact that if it were simply a matter of wanting to steal Ichha's happiness, she neednt have created a hullaboo by calling Veer into that room b4 marriage. If she was smart she wudve cut her wrist and then gone to ichha! but no we saw her standing there holding chunks of her hair on her head looking positively deranged. I can say is that maybe at that time she didnt but I can say now that she does love Veer...those feelings have developed...which is quite natural if u live with someone as your husband for an entire year, basss she doesnt yet understand the full and true meaning of love. For this reason Im saying that Tapu has never done bewafai in marriage she has stuck to it, bearing whatever insults and anger Veer threw at her. Her sindoor is also important for her we have seen based on the 4th June episode.
The view of VeeYa fans is that Veer very well knows Tapu's negative side, but like mostly everyone is not able to see her sadness, her inner vulnerabilities because he cannot get rid of the image he has of her from the shaadi. We feel that if he tried to be a supportive husband ever, alot of these problems would not have happened. Veer himself has used the sindoor as a tool and I also disapproved heartily. It really hurts me to see Tapu now...her love addled and messed up mind cannot see the obvious...that in a matter of an hour...Veer cannot leave his year long hatred for her and start making positive advances towards her. No..she believes his act.
About Ichha, I have nothing at all against widows remarrying but there are certain sensitive considerations that need to be taken into account such as timing. I have already stated I doubt that Ichha truly ever loved Veer in the first place because that love and passion I saw in her eyes for Vansh...I never saw with Veer...but again it could be just me and my nazar cos I never liked Veer ichcha as a couple. I do not want Ichha to marry Veer because I believe life has moved too far ahead. Certain irreversable things have happened. Ichha has no feelings for Veer and Nandish also stated in his latest interview that Veer no longer holds any love feelings for Ichha. To him she is his brother's wife now. Both have married different people and Ichha has loved Vansh. Now to me if she fell in love with Veer again...I could not comprehend such a thing so soon. Now Despite the way VeeYa's consummation happened, the fact is that it has happened! If it hadnt, it would be a different story. Apart from marriage, consummation is the next most sacred thing for me. This one happened by mistake. I can tell u a forced consummation...like they have tried to show in this serial previously...is one u cannot imagine how MUCH I hate! But the simple fact is that veeYa's consummation was a mistake...both had lost emotional control of themselves...both were seeking solace in each other and it happened. Now we are almost certain Tapu has become pregnant from this. Despite whatever anyone thinks of tapu....whatever she has done to this day has been out of her hatred for ichha! And in my opinion...I can understand where that hatred is coming from. But this does not mean she will not love her own child...her own jigar ka tookra. I feel that she will love her child and she will not use her child. obviously her exposure has to wrought some change in her behaviour. I could see beads of regret and understanding forming in her words yesterday and for that I was grateful! two days of veer's fake love has such a positive impact on her! I feel she can completely get cured...she just needs an inspiration to change. i feel this baby can give her that inspiration.
I know tapu played pyar ka naatak with Sid...something else I literally cannot stand...as love to me is also a sacred and beautiful thing and to see it used in this way...first by tapu and now by veer...frankly there is no difference left. veer knows that tapu's weakness is him...and her craving for his love. he is exploiting it! I feel tapu tried to be an achhi patni at first...doing all the housework and trying to win Veer but in my opinion she never knew how to do it properly. All she did was listen to what Nani told her to do. Remember how nani gave her the idea of the seduction by using menka vishwamitra example? yeh! tapu to cover up one lie has had to say so many lies. But her conscience pricks her. She doesnt like this lying at all! I saw it yesterday and day b4 episodes! she didnt steal the money. she didnt want to. I feel it werent for SID then this all would be so much more simple. if he did not return first time tapu would have never used him to kill ichha and if he had not come back second time then vansh would never have committed suicide! btu i cant say that. tapu has been dug into a hole by herself and the others around her but when the time comes...she will be the one to suffer the entire punishment. nor will jogi see what hes done by not recognising his daughter's obsessive hatred forming early...nor will nani stick around to help her. nor will veer recognise her feelings and this time not even ichha will stand by her. so whatever anyone may think...tapu has suffered long and hard in life and that is the basis for my pity and sympathy for her character which at these bad times especially, really overwhelms me! for this i am saying...my poor tapu😭
Edited by SRKLuvr - 15 years ago
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