Hiba, that is a brilliant write up. You understood Heer so well. I was saddened to see Heer bashing during the leap phase. No one really understood what she had gone through. Not even me. I admit, I bashed her a lot first too but later when I started thinking it through her POV, it made a little sense. NOT TOTALLY coz I don't believe Heer had any business pretending that Prem had slept with the whole population of the World females. That little behavior still makes my blood boil. No, she had no business acting like he had been a casanova, flirting with every female available. OR to keep his daughter's existence a secret from him. He deserved to know about his own flesh and blood. And she didn't just do wrong when she hid that little info from Prem and his family. She did a crime. Not only towards Prem but also towards Chaahat and his family. I blame the writers and the creative for that flaw in Heer. The same way I blame the writers and the creatives INSTEAD of PREM for the madness he did with choosing G3 and Veera over Heer and then accusing Heer of cheating on him with Rajveer.
For me Premeer are One. In their love, in their madness and even in their mistakes.