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Yes I made it loud and clear the very first day I started liking ARSH. People Management was so much a cup of tea for which i have been awarded certain set of awards at work, but how challanging it turned out to be in this forum. I used to handle different ages so age is not the critieria, I am teribbly missing on some of my skills on people management.
So my problem which I saw as a problems atleast for me which did impact me (impact meaning atleast for a second I would have thought why are they doing this to me)
- I came out of one of the AT I was part of and used to spend 24/7 for the reason I was called back stabber, hypocrate, changing sides, dis loyal and more of it ALL ON MY face and behind me 😕
- My AR topics no on entered, all the ones who entered religiously and made the topic hit hit..all missing 😭
- My KSG topics, I am a KSG fan and most of AR fans and KASH/KASU/KAJEN fans who claim themselves to be KSG fans (I am not trying to say that only by entering my ksg topic they need to prove that they r ksg fans) who were once defo there to enter my KSG topics no more there and to my surprise a mod too 😲
- PMS requesting me to get back to AR ( very genuine ones , so no complaints)
-PMs from AR fans telling that my comments are wierd anymore because I am supporting ARSH
- Now the real problem we the group who loved both AR and ARSH fought for a KSG AT, which request was denied by mods for various reasons to be part of DMG forum and hence we had to open in the CFC section along with other ATs. All the other AT was brought back to main forum, but for ours and here I would like to convey strongly that this AT was not opened in competition of any existing FC of KSG , and we are not trying to do anything at the back to put down those FC (we dont have that much time atleast) Why I am mentioning this, I had the greatest shock the AR fans who stayed in touch with me saying that they want to put my friendship ahead of all these fiction have called me with b**** words accussing that I gave creit to someone else for using their caps)😭😭😭😭😭😭 this made me do this topic 😭
I want to tell here one good thing that happened to me here, I got one of my friend I missed/lost, whom I went to saying sorry was able to accept me, even being a AR fan..so I still have some AR fans as my friends and I dont want to loose her .😃
Has anyone gone through any of these, because I know lot of girlz went throught these kind of sad emotions but was unable to share them out😊
Why I am sharing this, I always shared my happiness with this forum so it is time for me to share the sorrow defo i got into because of this forum only.😕
And also I have shared only things that I went through, so because of me many of them would have got through the same s***, so if I had put through anyone anytime any of these things, it was definitely not with any intentions, but yet my appologies.😊
But my ARSH topics and ARSH fans are definitely a breather for me and which is why I am still sticking on to this forum😃
PS: Mods please dont close this as it is definitely this forum related ..wanted to go loud what this forum got me into ..I really want to know if anyone else is undergoing this and what piece of advice some are giving me to overcome this..as there are really very good members who are part of this forum who are good at advicing, which I would like to take full heartedly and practise.
I have not bashed anyone here.😊
