You know every relationships have some ups and downs. If we ran away from problems, we are letting us become weak. I know in-laws issues but if one works hard towards it, then its much better. I havent seen any DIL like manju and SIL like sul aai. MILs like manju take family for granted but to have a SIL like sul aai, every DIL sees a mother in MIL. In varsha's case, its quiet different. Even though she was arrogant at first, she always mends her ways. Sometimes as DIL we have think of our loved ones( husband) and adjust with In-laws. If we cant sacrifice for loved ones, then we dont truly love our husband and same goes with husbands. " Give respect, and take respect" works in humans.