Hypocrisy on Truth ideal- Bidaai - Page 2

Originally posted by: SPN_JD_Addicted

Mamaji was so hyper today lol.No offence but I agree,if they have to start a new life there shouldn't be secrets.May be they are waiting for them to start falling in love and reveal all this to create some more drama

they will reveal it later to have a misunderstanding track..although it beats me how Anmol is to blame..
Ranvir is to be blamed..he always had a ting for playing hero..

i totally agree.. mamaji is so double standard/.. i think he changed his ideals because in this case its his own daughter who is involved.. i mean if anmol tells de truth to ragini there mite b a chance that she would leave him.. which mamaji doesnt want..
and with sadhana it was always sacrifice and mamaji preached the truth to her coz again of his selfish motive as whenevr sadhana sacrificed it was ragini who was always benifited!! so mamaji dint actually give her bhasans on hiding the truth!!

Originally posted by: SPN_JD_Addicted

Mamaji was so hyper today lol.No offence but I agree,if they have to start a new life there shouldn't be secrets.May be they are waiting for them to start falling in love and reveal all this to create some more drama

Its so amazing as he was the one who taught SaGini never to lie or hide stuff(rift track FB scenes). Even Ragini told Gunni to never hide stuff from her. lol

What bugs me the most is that everyone treats Ragini like a kid...I mean they take decisions on her behalf, hide stuff from her so she won't get hurt or whatever. Ragini has been through so much in life that she can take this one too.
It was not even Anmol's fault, the poor guy needs to come out of this guilt mode. There should be honesty in a husband-wife relationship and Ragini deserves to know why Anmol agreed to marry her. It will help their relationship grow in a positive direction.
Anyways it seems Cvs are saving this secret for some future misunderstanding.

Originally posted by: --Anu--

Its so amazing as he was the one who taught SaGini never to lie or hide stuff(rift track FB scenes). Even Ragini told Gunni to never hide stuff from her. lol

What bugs me the most is that everyone treats Ragini like a kid...I mean they take decisions on her behalf, hide stuff from her so she won't get hurt or whatever. Ragini has been through so much in life that she can take this one too.
It was not even Anmol's fault, the poor guy needs to come out of this guilt mode. There should be honesty in a husband-wife relationship and Ragini deserves to know why Anmol agreed to marry her. It will help their relationship grow in a positive direction.
Anyways it seems Cvs are saving this secret for some future misunderstanding.

Originally posted by: hereandhappy

@BOLD : agree ,and not only Ragini even Aalekh was treated same(even when he was normal) ..everyone around them used to take decisions on their behalf and hide things which they should definitely know .

and regarding Mamaji,its SP new mantra rista wahi soch nayi .. mamaji ne apni soch badal di hai 😆

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That was bang on..there Soch is different for different tracks....
And Its not as if it would hurt Angini relationship..they hardly have one..
Once Vasu and Ragini know the reason..it would make more sense to them...(well maybe not in the soap universe where they may treat it as a betrayal)

Originally posted by: teddysweety

Today.. Mamaji explains to Anmol how hiding one truth that could destroy everything should be hidden from everyone. It's the logic.. if one lie can make everyone happy then it's fine...

But in Bidaai, Mamaji and Sadhna preached truth, no matter what outcome... (rmr Sadhna's truth and Ranvir jail...)

Both Sadhna and Anmol are burdened with the truth.. in keeping with Bidaai's past.. Anmol should follow Sadhna and walk on the path of truth... and Mamaji should not be telling him to hide the truth.

So my point is.. with Sadhna gone.. i think Mamaji has modified his ideals!! lol
in other words... BLOOPER by the writers!!!

Anyone notice that?

I THOUGHT OF THE SAMEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE EXACT THING!

oh is tht so i havn't seen d episode but it clearly shows d double std . sorry nooffence

i think its not about the double standards...

Anmol had promised ranveer he would not reveal how he died 2 anyone ..other one is to never leave his family at any cost...to take care of them very well...

but Anmol is feeling guilty n now even more coz he is not yet been accepted by few of the family members (Ragini, Vasu) even after trying some much n Vasu waits to accuses him of betrayal..

So if he violates his promise to Ranver n say the truth... he would definitely been sent out of the house, so Ranveer's other promises would be unfulfilled....
it is not about his life with Ragini here..its about fulfilling his promises to a man who was on a dead bed in process of saving ur life...

so i agree with Mamaji talk as hiding the truth of ranveer's death, would remain the small amount of happiness in RH ..so let it be..instead of saying the truth n bring a callos in their lives... one can struggle to bring happiness to many...

It's the CT's crap ideas.....Earlier it was difficult for Sadhna to tell a lie and hence her truth sent Ranvir to jail.Again during that dance competition, I didn't understand why she lied to everyone regarding thet money matter....She could have told that to Ranvir atleast, but didn't....Here, the same thing....Apu's character hiding the truth from Ragini...I don't think she would shout at him if he tell the truth....Morover it was Ranvir who handed her over to him....But it is the common custom of Bidaai CT's to increase their number of episodes...And some of us still get tensed by these...😆