bhabis ready to make their move(pg8-give ideas) - Page 6

@Vini: After the dinner incident, after Badi Maa intervened, they DID tell her directly to her face...and that had about all the effect of half a day...we all saw what Suhana did that very EVENING to them in the hotel again....LOL....so it's obvious that the reality and ramifications of what her actions lead to do NOT get through to her....far too many ppl are very considerate of her and she takes it for granted....not deliberately but maybe subconsciously....which is why the bhabhis have to do subtle warfare now....LOL....they don't want to create a full on ruckus in the house over Suhana either but since they haven't formed a bond with Suhana like that of say her and Badi Maa....and Suhana hasn't really done things of this careless an extent to Badi Maa, the bhabhis have had to bear the brunt of a lot of her actions, so they are more than justified in doing the things they are doing now....Suhana will be hurt and I think that is how she will slowly start to realize.....

Direct confrontation only lasts in the moment for Suhana...she listens, processes and then seems to forget very quickly again....she's done this repeatedly to the bhabhis now....so what else are they supposed to do? This is a different relationship.....the bhabhis have tried their best to assimilate Suhana into the family....when they are with her, they're all like giggly school-friends sometimes....but Suhana doesn't think of ramifications beyond the fun of the moment...and that is what she needs to realize now.

Originally posted by: nureat01

@Vini: After the dinner incident, after Badi Maa intervened, they DID tell her directly to her face...and that had about all the effect of half a day...we all saw what Suhana did that very EVENING to them in the hotel again....LOL....so it's obvious that the reality and ramifications of what her actions lead to do NOT get through to her....far too many ppl are very considerate of her and she takes it for granted....not deliberately but maybe subconsciously....which is why the bhabhis have to do subtle warfare now....LOL....they don't want to create a full on ruckus in the house over Suhana either but since they haven't formed a bond with Suhana like that of say her and Badi Maa....and Suhana hasn't really done things of this careless an extent to Badi Maa, the bhabhis have had to bear the brunt of a lot of her actions, so they are more than justified in doing the things they are doing now....Suhana will be hurt and I think that is how she will slowly start to realize.....

Direct confrontation only lasts in the moment for Suhana...she listens, processes and then seems to forget very quickly again....she's done this repeatedly to the bhabhis now....so what else are they supposed to do? This is a different relationship.....the bhabhis have tried their best to assimilate Suhana into the family....when they are with her, they're all like giggly school-friends sometimes....but Suhana doesn't think of ramifications beyond the fun of the moment...and that is what she needs to realize now.

I totally agree with you...... I really think it was nice of the bhabhis not to complain about Suhana in front of everyone.... And they're obviously gonna give her ataste of her own medecine, because even when they came home late, Badi Maa questioned them and not Suhana which was natural on her part. But they feel Suhana's always being given favourable treatment even when its her fault.....

@bold: Bang on!! She's really in a world of her own. She listens for a moment and the next, she forgets, not realising the far-reaching consequences of her mistakes. Even when Ishaan confronted her yesterday over the bill, she was "OMG!!" for a second, and the next second, she was telling Ishaan to turn off the lights. All she thought of, was repaying the money to Rajni and Disha, not thinking about what they could have gone through at the restaurant...... So I think it would be the best if someone behaved with her the way she does, cause for Suhana, the moment she says sorry, everything's over. She needs to actually start thinking now which I'm sure she will after the royal treatment she's gonna get....😆

-Ishita

Rajni and Disha ignoring Suhana is quite natural..anybody in their place wud have reacted worse...this is the least they can do to vent out their frustration......as disha said , they couldn't complain to badi ma about suhana..talking to suhana personally won't make a difference either bec. if she was that much considerate, she wud have understood by now and apologize to bhabhi's instead of acting like a cartoon in front of them the next morning, as if nothing happened...it's high time suhana understands that other people are also human beings , they too have feelings, they feel bad abt certain things and they have all the rights to throw tantrums, just like her...

Originally posted by: an12345678

In real life too, if one notices, men usually are sensible and do not indulge in fights at home, mostly it's female folks that create ruckus.

Inder is the eldest in the family, and the elders ones have the added responsibility of keeping the family together. Plus, after his father abandoned the family, he seems to have developed an unbreakable bond and knows an incident like that can shake the foundation of the house if not handled sensibly.

I agree with you 100% I have seen in the family , ladies just over reacts and if men reacts the same way with out finding out what really happened major major problems are created in the family, my Late mother use to use to say " Har Baat Ghar Kai Aadmiyon Ko Batanai ki zaroorat nahi hoti, choti choti baat ko Khud he handle karna chaayie Tandhai Dimagh say". As when men get involed I have seen families splitting up, brothers just dont see each others faces etc etc. all because they were not sensible like Inder.

Suhana doesnt like to be ignored, and I think Bhabees should go out to watch movie with out taking her , leaving her behind on her own , they should just " TARSAOOFY" Suhana from there company, that would be fun. Also Rajni loves her mother in Law very much, now she is bit jealous about sharing that love with Suhana as any body can see the special bond between Suahan and Badi Maa , so Suahana is taking over Badi Maa,s heart and Rajni feels it.Its very natural.

Guys...we all know that our bhabis are making their move to teach suhaana a lesson....but we have to wait till monday....till that lets have some fun...

Guys...come out with ideas for the bhabis...give ideas that can make suhaana realise her mistake...give both serious and funny ideas...

it will be very interesting to see ideas from our SGPians...