Mayank & Nupur - ur vision of their future ! - Page 4

Originally posted by: -Jess-

Divya... Lovely post. You wrote my exact same thoughts. ANd AJ... awesome post. Loved the song you posted... it truely expresses Mayank and Nupur and current misunderstanding.

thank u Jess ...I agree abt the song :)

Inspiring from AJ, I would also like to post here a song that defines this beautiful bond of love and marriage. It's Swati's amazing VM as well.

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5NOVb3mxDDI[/YOUTUBE]

Past -

Yes, they are completely opposite personalities... one practical and one dreamer...but from the beginning they had this connection between them that they were drawn to each other... the bond like...tera muzse hai pehele ka naata koi....and that connection always binded them together... they fought... but with each fight their bonding got stronger... their love grew deeper.. the understanding and care took over the fights. As the above songs first para says... tere mere dil ka.. tai tha ek din milna... jaise bahaar aane se tai hai phool ka khilna. They were destined to be together. Their deep love tied them together in the lifelong bond of marriage....!!

I never really believed in connections forged before until I sw these 2, I agree, there is a connection there, which is why even when they were fighting they always got lost in each other,. they had something going on that they dint realise..

Present -

There is another misunderstanding... more over it's clash of egos. As AJ correctly said, it's misguided blame game and pointing fingers... which has no place in married life. It would only aggrevate the situation. Both are hurt and both have different expectations from each other. Both are saying... she did not understand me... he did not understand me. The bottom line is they failed to understand each other. It's good that they are goin to have some time seperate from each other... because at this point, both are too hurt to care for each other's feelings... they will hurt each other more if they will continue this way. But the dooriyan will give them time to think about each other... to think over what went wrong. They are already missing each other badly... but the longingness will establish the new meaning of marriage in between them... the relation of husband and wife... the relation that says.... tere mere sapne ab ek rang hai... jaha bhi le jaye rahe hum sang hai.....Both will realize that in marriage, there is no scope for YOU and for Me.... it's WE... it's us that lead the life together.. sail through the struggles together... dream together and achieve the dreams together... we laugh together and cry together.... tere dukh ab mere.. mere sukh ab tere... this line applies to both....

Excellently put Jess 👏 Yes, there is no scope for u & I ...as separate entities, they have individuals dreams but they need to pursue it as US...

I can not see any one apologizing... mostly because both are right and wrong... so it will be pointless if one apologizes... and other still behaves that he/she is right... Both will take time to let go off their egoes... I would love to see the cold war between them after Nupur comes back from Delhi. The type of cold war we discussed in HOL... I know at the end, their love will concur it all... in fact the love and romance will blossom with a new fragnance....

I m ok with both apologizing for not right or wrong, but sometimes an apology helps in putting balm to many wounded that their anger had un-necessarily created..

Cold war would be amazing to watch!! :)

This track has such a great scope to explore the meaning of marriage... they are soulmates bonded in eternal bond of matrimony... if CVs are thoughtful enough to explore this track, the possobilities are endless...

Originally posted by: Mou.

hey divz.thanks a ton for the topic.but u,annie,anu ,jess,shinz hv written almost everything..okk me donno what else to write at this moment ,still reserving😆
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hey Thanks Mou :D

It seems everyone wrote everything abt past & present & of course abt future of mayank & Nupur!!!!
& i agree with all of that.😆 (taking the easy way out.u know my power cut problem) So, i will jump directly to their future here.& wanna share my thoughts abt that!

ofcourse go ahead :)
mayank & nupur r married now.& though i m not married , but i can say this that "blame game" or whose mistake it was this kind of issues never works in marriage! so, soon they will realize the importance of the other ones in their life.& i really don't wanna c them apologizing to each other coz it doesn't matter who say sorry or who win.i just want them to vanish aways that "ego" between them.coz in marriage thwere is no place for that!

LOL ..actually though u r right, sometimes I feel there is a place for ego in marriage, not a very important one, but it cant be avoided, they shud just know to work around it :)
I agree with what most of the ppl said here..after this issue get solved.they will learn to think themselves as "we" rather than "I" . their bond willget stronger.their understanding(sorry , didn't find any other word to use here😆)

(hmmm ok forgiven 😆 ) & trust will lead them towards a more mature relationship.
But somehow in a little corner of y mind, i still don't want them to act all matured just after this one incident. They r only 19.& they r already enough matured than their age......i want this learning process for them to continue.they r very young.i want them to make mistakes , face struggle & learn through it. & i really don't want them to lost the charm of their individual characteristics in middle of this "we" ...confusing demand i know..😆 at one end i want them to grow up .understand each other better & at the other end i still wanna c those cute nok jhok between them.which most of the time happen becoz of their pole apart differences in their characteristics..somehow i want a middle path (it is sounding soooooooo contradictory here, i will not blame cvs if they can't find any middle path😆) like in this track, Nupur is acting all matured & i love that, but i still wanna c her in her nautanki & bubbly self too.& same goes for mayank!
basically i want to c them not suddenly all grown up & acting like married been ages after this one issue only.i wanna c them growing .i wanna c the process..not necessary it always hv to do with fight or clash between mayank & nupur.it can be shown both facing life together too! like after this ego issue get resolved.They can show us Mayank struggling for achieving his dream.nupur supporting him..(I want it as separate track, not with this ego issue) .......or may be it is something related to his past , abt his father, that both face together.......things like that! there can be differecnce of opinion between them (not ego issue .) & they should be shown accepting eachother POV, even though that is hard for them....coz of their different basic characteristics!

ah yes, I get what u r saying and thats really very interesting and more importantly very complex!!

so not sure if this will be shown, but yes. they are mature, but have their own weaknesses//

they take turns to act mature (I mean situationally not literally ) and thus their change is slow and not defined but it happens..slowly...
I donno whether i m making sense here.😕but one thing is for sure..i want to c them learning it step by step.how to beone "we" from "I".not at once!!!!! & i want a bit mix of their basic innocence, lively, self with some sense of responsibility in it. I feel that will make them more "real".co in our life too we don't learn everything at once na!!!!!

Oh I loved ur idea Mou...🤗 I so hope ur wish comes true :) :) :)

thanks for this lovely post divz!!!!!!!!! 🤗

thank u mou 🤗