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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: aj_observer

ROFLLL... reserved... I love this game...

I promise..I won't bash... but aadat se majboor hoon...sometimes happens...🤣...

I do know what I think should have happened and how it should be... not sure we will see it..then again that is not the realm of this post... 😆

AJJJJJJJJ
U better not bash , nahi tho teri kher nahi ROFL
wud sure love to read ur take :D
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Posted: 15 years ago
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brilliant post divya dii ........ it was very much needed ............now coming to your topic ..............as you have beauftifully said.........that mayank and nupur are two individuals totally opposite of each other .............yet they were destined to fall in love .............and beacuse of the circumstances they eventually got married at a very early age ...........nupur ;s dream of a grand wedding with her fathers blessing remained unfullfilled .........and mayank who never dreamt of getting married at such an early age had to take the biggest descion of his life in a few mins time ............ but after marriage we did see a lot of change in both of them ...... both did become more mature in their outlooks ............and were leading a happy married life ...........except for some exceptions like gunur fight .......... and then the horrendous baby track ................not dwelling much into it ..............
then wasthe entry of neil oberoi .........which i can say was another turning point in their lives ..............coz it wasbecoz of him only dat we got our focussed mayank sharma back ..........mayank realised he had drfited away from his goals ...........and then he made up his mind to get his life back on track ..................and make a succseful future for him and nupur ...............
on the other hand nupur's dream of becoming an actress also shattered .......but still she dint loose hope and decided to make her husbands dream hers ................ so both unknowningly work for getting the same scholarship ...............and then occured one more misunderstanding between them when this thruth got revealed ...............at this juncture both think that the other is wrong .................both are not able to understand each others POV at all coz of their massive egoes ................ so i sincerly feel that both are right as well as wrong in their on perspectives ...........its just dat one is not able to understand the other at this moment .........so the question of siding doesnt arise ...........and now as nupur is going for one full week to delhi ................so this distance will make both of them realise that where they both went wrong in not understanding the other ............... the pain of being way from each other will be inevitable for both ...............both will realise dat how much they love each other and one is incomplete without the other ....................so eventually these distances wull bring them more closer ...........increasing their level of maturtiy .........their sense of understanding for each other ..............in short it will strengethen their love and relationship ....................both will support each other fully and make their life better and more succseful ...............this is my vision of their future ...............i am just hoping that cv's vision is the same for them as well.............thanx alot divya dii for opening this topic ................
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: stuti123

brilliant post divya dii ........ it was very much needed ............now coming to your topic ..............as you have beauftifully said.........that mayank and nupur are two individuals totally opposite of each other .............yet they were destined to fall in love .............and beacuse of the circumstances they eventually got married at a very early age ...........nupur ;s dream of a grand wedding with her fathers blessing remained unfullfilled .........and mayank who never dreamt of getting married at such an early age had to take the biggest descion of his life in a few mins time ............ but after marriage we did see a lot of change in both of them ...... both did become more mature in their outlooks ............and were leading a happy married life ...........except for some exceptions like gunur fight .......... and then the horrendous baby track ................not dwelling much into it ..............

then wasthe entry of neil oberoi .........which i can say was another turning point in their lives ..............coz it wasbecoz of him only dat we got our focussed mayank sharma back ..........mayank realised he had drfited away from his goals ...........and then he made up his mind to get his life back on track ..................and make a succseful future for him and nupur ...............
on the other hand nupur's dream of becoming an actress also shattered .......but still she dint loose hope and decided to make her husbands dream hers ................ so both unknowningly work for getting the same scholarship ...............and then occured one more misunderstanding between them when this thruth got revealed ...............at this juncture both think that the other is wrong .................both are not able to understand each others POV at all coz of their massive egoes ................ so i sincerly feel that both are right as well as wrong in their on perspectives ...........its just dat one is not able to understand the other at this moment .........so the question of siding doesnt arise ...........and now as nupur is going for one full week to delhi ................so this distance will make both of them realise that where they both went wrong in not understanding the other ............... the pain of being way from each other will be inevitable for both ...............both will realise dat how much they love each other and one is incomplete without the other ....................so eventually these distances wull bring them more closer ...........increasing their level of maturtiy .........their sense of understanding for each other ..............in short it will strengethen their love and relationship ....................both will support each other fully and make their life better and more succseful ...............this is my vision of their future ...............i am just hoping that cv's vision is the same for them as well.............thanx alot divya dii for opening this topic ................

Thank u Stuti for ur wonderful response...
@blue, absolutely, this wedding was not what they wanted just then
ITs not true that Nupur was happy to be married ..infact after all that she went thru, I felt really bad that her dream of a wedding spectacular was not fulfilled, however, glad she got her guy :)
then again the same applies to him, he put his entire life on line and decided to marry her in a decision taken in an instant, only huge amount of commitment and love can cause a person to agree to such a decision :)
@red-- lovely thoughts, I really hope so too
Distance should bring them closer, yes and help them understand each other better :)
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Edited on first page
LOL... check it out ji... promise kept...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Reserved 😃
Divya di,thank you for the post....very well written :)
I am reserving this here,before this thread reaches to some 100 pages LOL
Will come back after little break for exams :))
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Posted: 15 years ago
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divya i was reading ur post only & thinking what to post as i left this to cv's what they want to show it...........i'm little blank on that part........ bcoz really decided that i will only enjoy as it comes up
still reserve will update tonite
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: aj_observer

ROFLLL... reserved... I love this game...
I promise..I won't bash... but aadat se majboor hoon...sometimes happens...🤣...
I do know what I think should have happened and how it should be... not sure we will see it..then again that is not the realm of this post... 😆

EDITED...
wow Aj..:) glad u edited this one (I remember one too many posts u left reserved in my posts ROFL)
Did you ever feel like you were having out of body experience ?? yeah this is what it feels like... let me go back a lil bit...
Past ...
It is well known and overly discussed by us....lol... even we can't deny that something was missing in MAYUR relationship.... they were ying and yang....he is what she hated to be.... and she is whom he can't being to tolerate.... at the end of the day they are twosides of a single coin which has no value with out the other side.... the value came from just being together ?? I doubt.... and then the whole marriage scene was a proof... who he is and what she can be.... the real selves... which were hardly explored....
They were that an much more.. the value dint come from being together, but interestingly they did fall in love.. I dont think their story was even explored along the lines of them being themselves and then how they were with each other. IT was always one was different because of the other..
though I would say the very early stages of their friendship was very well developed.. it was later that it faltered.
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Present...
I was listening to ths Breathless by Shankar Mahadevan... man it is perfect for MN right now...let me post it and you can see what I mean....unfortunately It has only lyrics...if you want them I can post it.....
[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4OjOCWu9g7E[/YOUTUBE]
Now this is what I meant by out of body experience...everything is surreal for both of them... yeah.. a lot is happening and nothing makes sense... a lot of questions ..mainly coming from bruised egos and misguided introspection... why do I think it is misguided...because they are both asking wrong questions and to self.... what would make this better is a good one on one conversation... if not like husband and wife .. atleast a best friends they are....
I agree, its a whirlwind that they have been through, somehow they have been unable to get a hold of whats happening . I esp agree on their misguided notion of what needs to done and even worse asking themselves wrong questions.
They are not perfect , but somehow I feel they found a sync after marriage, nothing too perfect , just a certain rhythm they fell into , complete unlike the kind of people they are. IT actually makes their marriage go around.
Future...
She should go to Delhi... he shouldn't follow her... he should think about where things went wrong... and she should think about why he reacted te way he did... give each other due credit...not pointing fingers... once they realze it....this is what I want to see........
I hope thats happening :) (looks like)
she comes back... and then what ?? LOL...she will have to come back to her house.. the awkwardness... the unsaid apology... they want to tell each other a lot of things..but they don't know where to begin... they are still hurt and bit of ego still left.... afterall they are MAYUR... and they slowly fall in love agian... small convos... meaningful one..... this time the love they have has a different flavor.... respect and trust... dependence and loyalty..... depth and perception.... if they can't be away from each other ... the main reason for them to be toger shouldn't be more than just marriage ???
ah yes, now this gives an interesting scope for a OS, 😆
just because they missed each other, they may not simply give in ..infact they wont give in
(ideally ie...) there ll be that little ego, playing cupid :) and yes falling in love in a different way..all over again, like u say :)
Love and Romance doesn't need to end after marriage... I would say it starts after marriage because dreams have a whole new meaning then..... and now they have each other forever to share and make them come true....
ofcourse not :D
Love and Romance is the best part of marriage sometimes (or may be its companionship 😃 )
but that would be awesome to see
For me who wins what has less importance... even how they won.... I am looking for thoughts...feelings and it can be such a wonderful thing to see two young people fall in love marry and fall in love all together again... because they just can't help it.... what to do... Love redefines a lot of things.....

Win? Seriously I cudnt agree more aJ...I have no idea abt how win n loss comes into picture in such a scenario,,,there is no win or loss here..
Have u seen this Mani Ratnam movie, Mouna ragam ? (it had revathy, mohan and Karthik..)
It was abt a married couple falling in love..she had a past, she is unhappy with the marriage as she dint want to marry. The husband understands, they file for divorce but they are asked to stay together for a year (by the court) . He is in love with her and she falls in love with him in that one year...ITs one of Mani Ratnam;s classics...
The story is different ...but the feelings ...oh they can be so beautifully portrayed, the whole falling in love after marriage makes so much sense because, who we see before marriage as lovers are not ones who we get married to. We tend to become different individuals I guess.
So, the idea of love is far more interesting from here on.
I think I m going from being a realist to a dreamer, but I'd rather dream for something like this :)
Thank u for ur lovely post AJ :)
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Oh absolutely Divz... I remember mounaragam very well.... it is still a classic.... although I am relating to my life itself.... ROFLL...
the emotional roller coaster can be exhausting.... when at the end you catch your breath suddenly you realize... you had no time to panic... or freak out... or adjust and be composed.... you run with the flow ... a lot of things play role.... family, society, self ... and at the end you realize you yourself climbed the gaint wheel... either for fun or as an adventure... for some naivette.....they didn't know any better.... for Mayur.... they had no choice.... and that is why it is realistic...
CVs still have a chance to redeem... I hope they realize....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Divya... Lovely post. You wrote my exact same thoughts. ANd AJ... awesome post. Loved the song you posted... it truely expresses Mayank and Nupur and current misunderstanding.
Inspiring from AJ, I would also like to post here a song that defines this beautiful bond of love and marriage. It's Swati's amazing VM as well.
[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5NOVb3mxDDI[/YOUTUBE]
Past -
Yes, they are completely opposite personalities... one practical and one dreamer...but from the beginning they had this connection between them that they were drawn to each other... the bond like...tera muzse hai pehele ka naata koi....and that connection always binded them together... they fought... but with each fight their bonding got stronger... their love grew deeper.. the understanding and care took over the fights. As the above songs first para says... tere mere dil ka.. tai tha ek din milna... jaise bahaar aane se tai hai phool ka khilna. They were destined to be together. Their deep love tied them together in the lifelong bond of marriage....!!
Present -
There is another misunderstanding... more over it's clash of egos. As AJ correctly said, it's misguided blame game and pointing fingers... which has no place in married life. It would only aggrevate the situation. Both are hurt and both have different expectations from each other. Both are saying... she did not understand me... he did not understand me. The bottom line is they failed to understand each other. It's good that they are goin to have some time seperate from each other... because at this point, both are too hurt to care for each other's feelings... they will hurt each other more if they will continue this way. But the dooriyan will give them time to think about each other... to think over what went wrong. They are already missing each other badly... but the longingness will establish the new meaning of marriage in between them... the relation of husband and wife... the relation that says.... tere mere sapne ab ek rang hai... jaha bhi le jaye rahe hum sang hai.....Both will realize that in marriage, there is no scope for YOU and for Me.... it's WE... it's us that lead the life together.. sail through the struggles together... dream together and achieve the dreams together... we laugh together and cry together.... tere dukh ab mere.. mere sukh ab tere... this line applies to both....
I can not see any one apologizing... mostly because both are right and wrong... so it will be pointless if one apologizes... and other still behaves that he/she is right... Both will take time to let go off their egoes... I would love to see the cold war between them after Nupur comes back from Delhi. The type of cold war we discussed in HOL... I know at the end, their love will concur it all... in fact the love and romance will blossom with a new fragnance....
This track has such a great scope to explore the meaning of marriage... they are soulmates bonded in eternal bond of matrimony... if CVs are thoughtful enough to explore this track, the possobilities are endless...
Edited by -Jess- - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Fab topic divz di 😃 I'm very tired at the moment....dont have the stamina to write long essays 😆 Will see if I can write later :P

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