Mayank & Nupur - ur vision of their future !

Mayank and Nupur - The past

Mayank and Nupur of the past are 2 egoistic individuals, one a realist, other a dreamer. One doesnt want to look beyond his books the other would look anywhere but at the books. One dreams of movies while the other would run a mile if threatened with a movie. A perfect case of opposites.

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Divya.............1st of all thanx for this topic..............was much required.............😊.........


Mayank and Nupur, as said, as extremely strong personalities, completely opposite in nature.
Neither of them are perfect, and have their own shortcomings................but one thing that bind them together is ...........LOVE...............

The same love which they almost lost, in the whole marriage fiasco................the same love which gave them strength to fight the struggles of their married life.....................

They were blissfully married..................but then they are only 19..............so?............they have whole life infront of them...............a hell lot of dreams and aspirations...............to be fulfilled.............a lot to be achieved.

Mayank Sharma, a focussed and determined guy..............whose sole aim in life was to study and make a comfortable living..............suddenly realise that he had somewhere lost his focus.............strayed from his path to his goal................he tries to rediscover that.

Nupur Bhushan Sharma...........a dreamer...........though she had not desired much from life, there was this fire to be something..............her dreams were shattered, but she decided to step in with her husband, and make his dreams........"theirs"...........

A series of misunderstandings.................and result was once again they hurt each other..........failed to understand each other..............

Now...................where from here?

As i said they are just 19...............they need to grow as characters......... attain that level of maturity in their relationship.............realise that they are together.........be it good, or bad............anything and everything will affect both of them equally.............so there can be no question of one's win and another's loss...........

They will need to surpass the stage of "main " aur "tum", and think as "hum" now.
These few days distance, would make them think, realise the importance of other in their lives...........also make them realise that they can fulfill their dreams............cross every mountain.........only if they are together.

I know its gonna be tough time ahead.............but i m sure at the end of it..........Mayank and Nupur will be together and make their lives successful together.........
Not only this, they will prove to Bauji, that they were indeed perfect fo reach other in every way...........

so signing off with:

bas faasla rahe
banke kaska jo kahe
ho aur chahat ye jaawan...........😊

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Divz i am soooooooo glad to read your post and reading each and every reply here has been such a delight! Everyone has said so much that I had my mind but I still want to add certain things😆.

You have put M and N, how they were and how they fell in love so well👏.The premise of their relationship has been love and fight, this is a vicious cycle which continues just as they move ahead and there is some sight of progress, there is a fight and it is viewed as starting from the scratch. At first when i saw as an outsider indeed, this perturbed me but when viewed more deeply and realistically, this is how reality works.

Two people no matter how much they love each other, are two individuals with different point of views, different backgrounds and different ideas thus clashes are inevitable. Each time MN fight, they are not going back to square one, after the fight, they move one step ahead towards understanding each other better. This is the best part about their relationship. As understanding is no rocket science per say, it always takes time. I would love to see MN take one step ahead at a time, they have a whole lifetime to themselves build that understanding.😳

You have defined the present so well too, the most precious part of this post lies in the third region that is MN's future. I have read so many analysis and ideas, i feel as if my own idea is lost amongst them. But I would certainly love to see M and N going ahead as two individuals but while doing so they should always keep the tie which connects them strong and respect it and love it with all their heart. 😳

Anu falling in love all over again is an amazingggggggg idea to even think of, I am hopeful for this track to be taken ahead as beautifully as you have said it.😃

God bless.

P.S: Divz do make more posts, we all love them!

ROFLLL... reserved... I love this game...
I promise..I won't bash... but aadat se majboor hoon...sometimes happens...🤣...
I do know what I think should have happened and how it should be... not sure we will see it..then again that is not the realm of this post... 😆

updated post divdi!😆

Originally posted by: annie07

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Divya.............1st of all thanx for this topic..............was much required.............😊.........

U r welcome shelcome Annie :D waise was good to see u wake up n reserve a post :)😆

Mayank and Nupur, as said, as extremely strong personalities, completely opposite in nature.
Neither of them are perfect, and have their own shortcomings................but one thing that bind them together is ...........LOVE...............

Agree...they have too many shortcomings they tide over with love :)
The same love which they almost lost, in the whole marriage fiasco................the same love which gave them strength to fight the struggles of their married life.....................
I guess thats something they realised even in their marriage fiasco..

very tough for 19 r olds.. :)
They were blissfully married..................but then they are only 19..............so?............they have whole life infront of them...............a hell lot of dreams and aspirations...............to be fulfilled.............a lot to be achieved.
Interesting how it is, they do have their entire life ahead,,,with each other!!
Mayank Sharma, a focussed and determined guy..............whose sole aim in life was to study and make a comfortable living..............suddenly realise that he had somewhere lost his focus.............strayed from his path to his goal................he tries to rediscover that.
Loved this realisation
Nupur Bhushan Sharma...........a dreamer...........though she had not desired much from life, there was this fire to be something..............her dreams were shattered, but she decided to step in with her husband, and make his dreams........"theirs"...........
Loved her even more :)
A series of misunderstandings.................and result was once again they hurt each other..........failed to understand each other..............

Now...................where from here?

As i said they are just 19...............they need to grow as characters......... attain that level of maturity in their relationship.............realise that they are together.........be it good, or bad............anything and everything will affect both of them equally.............so there can be no question of one's win and another's loss...........

They will need to surpass the stage of "main " aur "tum", and think as "hum" now.

I agree with u so much here, they are still meandering around the mein phase, but yes they shud get to the hum phase soon :)
These few days distance, would make them think, realise the importance of other in their lives...........also make them realise that they can fulfill their dreams............cross every mountain.........only if they are together.
Cross my fingers n hope so :)
I know its gonna be tough time ahead.............but i m sure at the end of it..........Mayank and Nupur will be together and make their lives successful together.........

obviously Mayank n Nupur ki team tho the best hai ..hai na :))
Not only this, they will prove to Bauji, that they were indeed perfect fo reach other in every way...........
ofocurse the bauji 😡
so signing off with:

bas faasla rahe
banke kaska jo kahe
ho aur chahat ye jaawan...........😊

Originally posted by: shinz

oh WOW!!!

Thank u Shinzyy :)

reserved!
edited- wonderful post divdi....!!! u make me wanna write and write and write LOL!😉
regardless of whoz right and wrong...i still wanna write what i think is my opinion abt them individually!

Oh thank u :) and sure go ahead n write :) i love to read read n read:)

he is a good guy.....brought up in a simple ambience...his sense of right and wrong is the best in the show...even better than gunjan i have to say!!
he makes mistake like anyother human being........regrets and then makes up!
More real believable n likeable :)
he is real...a perfect son, a perfect frnd, husband.........its just hat flaw in him that he cant control his anger and think straight when angry...!
ufff his anger ,,reminds me of some ppl I know and I tell u its so darn believable
the fact that they are 19 is so wonderfully shown...because they are not an age old couple.....just got married after only a few months of dating !! it becomes all the more believable!
yes I agree, they have had a short time in which they got to know each other, fell in love and got married (shock shock!! ) so yeah we tend to forget they are only 19
see, mayank has always been that kinda guy who did things alone, he was his own companion....it takes time to realize he has another companion now! an only child.......raised by an only parent........he needs to learn the value and methods of companionship!
I dunno May be its true for M, :) me being an only child is pretty diff from him 😆
the ego problem!

the ego problem doesnt annoys me LOL!

IT used to annoy me, but with MN as my fav too difficult to be annoyed 😆

it happens between the best of frnds....happnd with me today itself....me and my frnd were solving maths.....we argued at a ques and he just wont listen to me......he cant accept hez wrong and i can accept im not right...u see...the ego is the most obvious factors between two ppl, whther frnds, siblings, or lovers!
Ok, u r right there :)
mayur...both are headstrong, hot headed, the stronger one in their family........both of them had gone thru the loss of their parents and have experienced it.......!! have helped the other family member to cope up with it...it makes them a righteous and a self dependent person...but both have insecurities and vulnerabilities!
wonderfully explained :) agreed agreed :)
so i say ego is the obvious problem for them! it happens to the best of ppl!!
ofcourse :)
mayank yet hasnt realized that hez married...i mean im not saying he isnt a good husband...hez wonderful....but he has always been a solitary reaper kinda person.......even when he was out the whole night he just msgd her...who does that!
I agree he is not exactly clear on his status, he understands he is married but wants to sort

of skip his responsibilities sometimes, not as abad husband but as a normal 19 yr old who still wants a certain amt of freedom..

abt the msg part, ermm i think that is couple dependant.. I wont read too much into it
he is used to have his own ways...leave alone... this track will make him realize the companionship factor where two ppl walk together.....in two different paths but towards the same direction!
I really hope it does for he simply hasnt got the hang of it 😆
OK sorry but i didnt hve time to write it all down now.....and i already hd this discussion somewhere...so i have copy pasted it in bits LOL...sorry!😆
thats okie :)
but ll in all i can say.....its true that they have issues...from both sides...she needs to knoe him more...and he needs to cool up more! the thing is that they are in a relationship........its not always i love u and u love me and happily ever after.....its making the relationship work......!
Wonderfully put,

but I think they need time

its not easy to just understand one another, it takes a lot of time even between married couples

so they are getting there ..:)
realizing that there are two individuals involved...its not like a chemical reaction that two subs will mix together to form a new one...nopes....the two ppl have their own identity in that relationship! they need to adjust and understand!!
perfect..then again the individual identities can always be very well be part of a couple identity

both are equally important
MN are mature...but they need to mature more period!
they are just 19...newly married.........almost lonely...apart from each other! more vulnerable, with more responsibilites, discovering and rediscovering their dreams....there are bound to be clashes...what matters is how they get solved!
I feel the way they solve their problems leaves a lot to be desired

but then they also need time to work out a way to do so...
no filmy thing.....i want them to TALK it out! no gang involvement....no plans to unite them! NO! they should do it themselves!
ofcourse, sometimes filmy and sometimes gang is fine

but here, no ...just them would be great :)
so it because they knoe that they love each other...need each other and want each other!
i m gonna love seeing them on the song ye dooriyaan missing each other and realizing that the key to happiness is not only being successful individually but being successful mutually!
oh yes, I would so love that :) ye dooriyaan :) thats like my dream right now :)
OMG i'll write more....later!😆
sure sure :) I'll wait to read more of ur wonderful thoughts:) thanku for writing these :)

Originally posted by: nanditasingh

Thoughtful and heartwarming post Divya...
Thanks for making it.😊