Mayank & Nupur - ur vision of their future ! - Page 3

hey divz.thanks a ton for the topic.but u,annie,anu ,jess,shinz hv written almost everything..okk me donno what else to write at this moment ,still reserving😆
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It seems everyone wrote everything abt past & present & of course abt future of mayank & Nupur!!!!
& i agree with all of that.😆 (taking the easy way out.u know my power cut problem) So, i will jump directly to their future here.& wanna share my thoughts abt that!
mayank & nupur r married now.& though i m not married , but i can say this that "blame game" or whose mistake it was this kind of issues never works in marriage! so, soon they will realize the importance of the other ones in their life.& i really don't wanna c them apologizing to each other coz it doesn't matter who say sorry or who win.i just want them to vanish aways that "ego" between them.coz in marriage thwere is no place for that!
I agree with what most of the ppl said here..after this issue get solved.they will learn to think themselves as "we" rather than "I" . their bond willget stronger.their understanding(sorry , didn't find any other word to use here😆) & trust will lead them towards a more mature relationship.
But somehow in a little corner of y mind, i still don't want them to act all matured just after this one incident. They r only 19.& they r already enough matured than their age......i want this learning process for them to continue.they r very young.i want them to make mistakes , face struggle & learn through it. & i really don't want them to lost the charm of their individual characteristics in middle of this "we" ...confusing demand i know..😆 at one end i want them to grow up .understand each other better & at the other end i still wanna c those cute nok jhok between them.which most of the time happen becoz of their pole apart differences in their characteristics..somehow i want a middle path (it is sounding soooooooo contradictory here, i will not blame cvs if they can't find any middle path😆) like in this track, Nupur is acting all matured & i love that, but i still wanna c her in her nautanki & bubbly self too.& same goes for mayank!
basically i want to c them not suddenly all grown up & acting like married been ages after this one issue only.i wanna c them growing .i wanna c the process..not necessary it always hv to do with fight or clash between mayank & nupur.it can be shown both facing life together too! like after this ego issue get resolved.They can show us Mayank struggling for achieving his dream.nupur supporting him..(I want it as separate track, not with this ego issue) .......or may be it is something related to his past , abt his father, that both face together.......things like that! there can be differecnce of opinion between them (not ego issue .) & they should be shown accepting eachother POV, even though that is hard for them....coz of their different basic characteristics!
I donno whether i m making sense here.😕but one thing is for sure..i want to c them learning it step by step.how to beone "we" from "I".not at once!!!!! & i want a bit mix of their basic innocence, lively, self with some sense of responsibility in it. I feel that will make them more "real".co in our life too we don't learn everything at once na!!!!!

thanks for this lovely post divz!!!!!!!!! 🤗

OMG amazing....excellent topic Divya... !!!
First a bigg round of applause to you...clap..clap..clap..!!👏

thank u soo much for posting this topic.... it is topics like these that makes me love this forum... that make me proud of the fact that i m a part of this forum... that inspire me to write!!!

now getting into the topic.....just to extend what u mentioned:
"The Past was also a present at some point of time... The present seems confusing but the same confusing present becomes a perfect past!!!"... confused?????
ok..leave it....i think that was some strange/utterly confusing thought!!!
(even i cant write it the second time!!)

coming to mayank and nupur's future..... it is but definite that they'll get back together.... but the point is what they learn from this..how will they see each other from now on..??
will they get back as changed individuals??
Nupur till now has been very forgiving...so i m sure she will forgive him.
(by saying nupur will forgive maynk am i being gender biased here bcos it means that i believe its the mistake of only mayank and not nupur???)


every time they have had a major fight they have gotten back to be a stronger "couple".!!
there's a difference this time though....

the last time they had a major fight was during the morena track... but they were not married then... this time they are in a bond called "marriage"... they have to act a bit mature(but then again as u said.. as it is they are quite mature for their age). !!
also the problem here as i see it is not "misunderstanding"..... it is the clash of personalities... clash of ego's... it is not that the don't understand each other(i dont like to believe that its misunderstanding.. after all they have been together for soo long and they been through a good no. of ups and downs to understand each other best)...
it is just that their ego is coming in the way of accepting each other's strengths and weaknesses... accepting each other as they are...!!!

Divya Di, You've brought back my essays, I can't stop writing, but I'll keep this short and sweet.
The period when Nupur is gone to Delhi will be a tough period for both of them, knowing that their distances have increased not only bodily, but emotionally. When you leave someone with a disturbed mind, you are not able to focus on anything but the thing that you have left a person unhappy. Maybe they might be a bit distracted from work, but they know that they are doing this for each other and thus will give their best. In a marriage, especially a new one which occurs at a tender stage, the couple takes time to understand and adjust to each other. But MN being a strong couple immensely in love, will pass this stage with flying colors. Such problems will only bring them closer where they will realize that they need to put aside their egos and come together to stay with each other through good and hard times both. That's what will make them the strongest and unbreakable couple who can't be disturbed by anyone.

After their problems have been solved, Mayank will become more understanding and caring. He will improve in him the maturity, sensibility and responsibility which he already possesses large amounts. He will be capable to balance married life with his goals. He will learn o appreciate others success with gracefulness and will look into matters more deeply realizing that presumption in communication can be hazardous, having faced the consequences. HE'll be more frank to Nupur and will openly share his feelings and thoughts with her, not that he doesn't do it now.

As for Nupur, she will realise her new responsibility, that of supporting Mayank in every phase of life and staying by him always. She will also understand of Mayank's anger and will be known of the solution - not to retort and talk calmly to cool him down. She will now have an ambition to pursue, her dream having been shattered. She will be able to dream again and this will help her to boost her morale and bring in self-confidence.

As for the beautiful relationship of MN, it will develop to a great extent where Mayank and Nupur will freely communicate with each other and will openly show their love, affection, sadness and anger, knowing that they will be together for always. They will take steps together towards their dreams and goals and will encourage each other. And of course, their marriage will become a paradise for them, as it has brought them this close to each other, that they will be able to see through each other, something that had never happened in the past.

Thanks so much for this wonderful post Divya Di, It really touched me. Mn will surely be the best couple in future like they are now.🤗

Hello divya, needless to say I've newly joined the forum 😛. Although I'm not new to this forum, have been a silent reader here for god knows how long 😃 ...anyways i'll not bore you on why I've joined late..let me come to the topic.
Well I have nothing new to say other than repeating what AJ and others have already said.

@AJ - Your post-delhi track is brilliant 👏. Wish cvs pay heed to this.

Being a die-hard Mouna Raagam fan, I strongly recommend the Mouna Raagam treatment to this MN track 😳 . After all the bollywood inspirations we have seen in MJHT, it wouldn't hurt if the creatives choose turn south this time 😆. The track will have immense potential to bring out their true feelings and emotions, will do due justice to ArTi's talents as well. Man won't tat be a dream come true for MN fans 😍.

Divz edited my post on page 1.

That's one awesome topic to discuss.. Letme tell you that this current track has lotsa potential..

Originally posted by: Senny

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Divz i am soooooooo glad to read your post and reading each and every reply here has been such a delight! Everyone has said so much that I had my mind but I still want to add certain things😆.
hey senny :) always a pleasure to read ur thoughts :)


You have put M and N, how they were and how they fell in love so well👏.The premise of their relationship has been love and fight, this is a vicious cycle which continues just as they move ahead and there is some sight of progress, there is a fight and it is viewed as starting from the scratch. At first when i saw as an outsider indeed, this perturbed me but when viewed more deeply and realistically, this is how reality works.
yes it did bother me as well at some point but then I just had to take a look around and realise, these 2 r special because they are as real as they get


Two people no matter how much they love each other, are two individuals with different point of views, different backgrounds and different ideas thus clashes are inevitable. Each time MN fight, they are not going back to square one, after the fight, they move one step ahead towards understanding each other better. This is the best part about their relationship. As understanding is no rocket science per say, it always takes time. I would love to see MN take one step ahead at a time, they have a whole lifetime to themselves build that understanding.😳
you've hit the nail on its head Sen, exactly what it is... !!
The whole misunderstanding n fight does take them a step ahead each single time..
I dunno how they manage to portray it, but they do and beautifully at that :)


You have defined the present so well too, the most precious part of this post lies in the third region that is MN's future. I have read so many analysis and ideas, i feel as if my own idea is lost amongst them. But I would certainly love to see M and N going ahead as two individuals but while doing so they should always keep the tie which connects them strong and respect it and love it with all their heart. 😳
wud love to see that :)


Anu falling in love all over again is an amazingggggggg idea to even think of, I am hopeful for this track to be taken ahead as beautifully as you have said it.😃
I agree its a wonderful idea and I really hope thats what happens...really really hope.. :)
Falling in love all over again is also such a beautiful thing 😍


God bless.

P.S: Divz do make more posts, we all love
them!

aww thank u senny :)

oh wow Divya - wonderful post! Infact I see so many lovely posts these days - that I feel compelled to respond - can't resist :)

So what would I like Mayank and Nupur to be at the end of this track or as they move into the future - Plenty of things!!

Present we all know - they are both headstrong - and both are having their ego clashes!! I'm little bit of a dreamer - so I guess would like to look into the future.

Mayank and Nupur are now married. The basis for a strong foundation is there - they fought against great odds - to marry each other. Their love has stood the test of time (so far :)). However, they are still very young - so they need to understand that marriage is about finding the person you love deeply and to whom you are totally committed.

- I want them to communicate better! Nothing is greater than to be able to look into your loved one's eyes and know what the other is thinking without even saying a word!! But for that they need to first talk to each other - be open and honest - in other words bare their souls to each other!! Little secrets are ok - but they need to share the important stuff with each other. Sometimes surprises can backfire and cause great misunderstandings - so on the big stuff it is important to communicate!!

- I think one of the things I want them to realize is that there is no I in a relationship - to make it go the distance they have to think of We. When Mayank said "Don't you know how much I needed the scholarship" - he's only thinking of himself - He has to be mature enough to realize that whether it's him or Nupur - whoever gets it - it's good for both of them! Success of Mayank or Success of Nupur contributes to success of both Mayank and Nupur!!

- They also each have to give each other some space to grow - again they are very young!! There is no we in a relationship unless the two "I"s understand their own selves much better. So both of them also have to be as they say "comfortable in their own skins"!

- There are always going to be little crisis(es)in life - but marriage is all about surviving them together! There are always going to be disagreements - but marriage is about moving beyond them and learning to respect each other despite them. Yes Nupur does that already i.e. respects Mayank - but Mayank needs to do that too - respect Nupur's choices and be her support structure - be there for her as she is for him - be part of her joys and sorrows, show pride in her accomplishments!!

Mayank and Nupur have often stated that their love is rare! If they realize that - then they also need to realize that love is one of the greatest emotions one can ever experience, and true love is something that takes time and patience and has to be nurtured. As a couple they both need to nurture their love so that it can grow.

I see them in the future as a successful couple (both successful in their own rights) - with deep love and respect for each other - doesn't mean they don't fight - as Nupur says - that is the spice of life - we don't want'em to become boring! I enjoy their banter as long as it is witty and intelligent - and i want both of them to be forces to reckon with :)

I edited my post at PG 3😆 arre! guys kamse kam post padhne ke baad "like" button press karo..kya pata may be u don't agree with me....😆....

heyy divya